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Jen Simpatico

Kelowna, British Columbia

Jen Simpatico

MACP, Yorkville University
Years in practice: 1
Offers:  Remote Therapy

If you’re feeling stuck, disconnected, or just tired of carrying it all on your own, you’re not alone. The truth is, mental health doesn’t exist in a vacuum – the ways we learn to cope, express, or shut down are shaped by how we were raised, what was expected of us, and the messages we’ve absorbed about what it means to “be a man.”

In our work together, we slow things down and get curious about what’s really happening underneath the surface – not to overanalyze, but to help you make sense of your experience in a way that feels grounding and real. My style is collaborative, straightforward, and human. I meet you where you’re at, and together we work toward a steadier, more connected way of being in your life.

I am part of the Kelowna Vitality Collective team and sessions with me can be booked via text at 855-425-4310‬.

Kelowna, British Columbia
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Jennifer Vishloff

Vancouver, British Columbia

Jennifer Vishloff

Master of Arts/ Simon Fraser University
Years in practice: 10
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Many of my clients feel worried that others don’t like them, and are scared to speak up in their relationships. They’ve spent a long time silencing what they really think and feel inside because they’re afraid they’ll be rejected if they share their full selves with others. I help clients understand and change the underlying patterns keeping them stuck. You can build confidence managing emotions, setting boundaries and having more of what you want in relationships. You can accept and even like who you are and have the confidence to make changes in your life that bring satisfaction at work, connection and closeness in relationships, and trust yourself to get through the hard things.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Laura Wray

Vancouver, British Columbia

Laura Wray

MS in Counselling and Psychotherapy, University of Keele
Years in practice: 6
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I have significant experience working with men, and have developed a real sensitivity and empathy for the struggle many men face in opening up about, and making sense of their emotions. I believe we all have different ways of expressing ourselves and that using emotional language is not the only – or the correct – way to navigate our experience and relationships. If you are worried about being constantly asked how you feel, or about long awkward silences in the therapy room, that’s not what you will find here. I use humour, directness, prompts, helpful strategies, and most importantly, I work alongside you in a very human and engaged way. Our sessions will be collaborative and lead by what feels helpful to you.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Cameron Grunbaum

Kelowna, British Columbia

Cameron Grunbaum

MA, Simon Fraser University
Years in practice: 5
Offers:  Remote Therapy
Think of me as your emotional coach. I’ll help you understand and communicate emotions; stop bottling up and suppressing feelings; manage anxiety and anger; get unstuck from helplessness and depression; stop people-pleasing and boost your self-esteem. If you tried counselling but haven’t uncovered core issues, your progress plateaued, or didn’t gain anything from it and you wish to achieve deep, lasting changes in your feelings, thoughts, and behaviours, then you are ready to stop talking in circles and start tackling your problems head-on to make real progress.
I will intentionally help you pause and slow things down to explore the underlying processes that are keeping you stuck in unhelpful cycles/patterns. Together we will make a tangible plan to break the cycles, process traumas, practice strategies to support yourself outside of session, and ensure you are continuously improving in your life and relationships.
Overall, my skills and experience enable me to support you in achieving emotional wellbeing, integrity, empathy, and connection with yourself and others. The first step toward change is always the hardest, yet once that step has been made, I believe everyone has the innate capacity for positive transformation. I am here to help you remove the barriers.
Sessions offered both online and in-person at 214-3001 Tutt Street, Kelowna, BC, V1Y 2H4. I provide direct billing for: RCMP, Veterans Affairs Canada (VAC), FNHA, and Pacific Blue Cross.
Kelowna, British Columbia
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Abby Petterson

North Vancouver, British Columbia

Abby Petterson

Master in Counselling Psychology
Years in practice: 21
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Abby Petterson, clinical director at AJ Petterson & Associates Inc., is a Registered Clinical Counsellor, Registered Psychotherapist and a trained Collaborative Divorce Coach/Child Specialist. She has specialized skills and extensive experience in the areas of divorce related issues, blended families and collaborative divorce.

North Vancouver, British Columbia
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Mr. Gerry Bock

Surrey, British Columbia

Mr. Gerry Bock

MA in Clinical Mental Health Counseling, Liberty University
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Our practice is focused on assessing the sources of the issues and providing strategies and tools for the management and resolution of symptoms. Specifically, we offer services for Depression, Anxiety, Trauma, Relationship Improvement, Mediation, and High Conflict family situations. We welcome the opportunity to connect with you and discuss how we can assist. We offer sessions through Face to Face, Telephone, Zoom, and Skype.

Surrey, British Columbia
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Mr. Grant M. Waldman

Vernon, British Columbia

Mr. Grant M. Waldman

MA in Counselling Psychology, Yorkville University. CCC, Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association and Level 3 Certified Indigenous Addictions Specialist, Indigenous Certification Board of Canada
Years in practice: 9
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Due to my own inter-generational trauma, I have been supporting men’s wellness for over 20 years. I have also been supporting Indigenous clients for over 10 years. More recently, in my work as Wellness Counsellor & Facilitator at Round Lake Treatment Centre, I have been specifically supporting Indigenous clients who have experienced inter-generational trauma (cultural, sexual, physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual abuses, neglect, abandonment, shame, and grief & loss). As a result, my clients present with addiction, anxiety, depression, isolation, self-harm/suicide ideation, anger, and other co-occurring disorders.

Vernon, British Columbia
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Leslie Fahr

Chilliwack, British Columbia

Leslie Fahr

MACP, Yorkville University
Years in practice: 12
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Many men don’t talk about it openly, but feeling disconnected — from your partner, your emotions, or even from yourself — can quietly take a huge toll. Whether it shows up as withdrawal, shutting down, anger, overwhelm, ADHD-like overload, or not knowing how to express what you actually feel, the experience underneath is often the same: it’s lonely to carry life without feeling understood.

In therapy, I help men build the skills and inner foundation for healthier relationships — not just with others, but with themselves. I support clients navigating emotional shutdown, communication barriers, trauma, ADHD/ASD-related overwhelm, and the kind of quiet pain that rarely gets put into words.

I am part of the Chilliwack Vitality Collective team and sessions with me can be booked via text at 855-425-4310‬.

Chilliwack, British Columbia
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Oakhill Counselling & Mediation Services

Abbotsford, British Columbia

Oakhill Counselling & Mediation Services

Number of Therapists: 28
Offers:  Remote Therapy, Individual Therapy
Oakhill Counselling is a diverse group of professionals who offer responsive and flexible counselling and psychological services that improve quality of life. We have offices in Langley, Maple Ridge, Abbotsford and Chilliwack and have expertise working with specialized populations including first responders and LGBTQ.
Note: HeadsUpGuys only recommends therapists who meet our qualification standards.
Abbotsford, British Columbia
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John Woychuk

Nanaimo, British Columbia

John Woychuk

MA in Counselling Psychology, Yorkville University
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I have worked successfully with a lot of men in my practice. I understand how hard it can be for men to seek help. At the same time I know from experience that there’s tremendous benefit involved for those men who take that first step. My counselling approach is about compassion and non-judgement. Whatever is happening for you will be accepted and faced together. From a stance of respect and an underlying core belief that you have the wisdom within you to overcome your challenges, I will support you in recognizing and engaging powerful resources both within you and around you. Counselling theories and methodologies I use include Mindfulness and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.

Nanaimo, British Columbia
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Dominic Brennan

North Vancouver, British Columbia

Dominic Brennan

MA in Mental Health Counselling, Palo Alto University California
Years in practice: 13
Offers:  Remote Therapy

We all need an outlet outside of family, friends and work to open-up about issues that need clarification. We can collaborate on solutions, and come up with ideas. Counselling often helps in dealing with problems that are bringing us down, and we feel holding us back from progressing in life.
My approach is influenced by person-centered theory using techniques from Solution Focused Therapy. I do not focus a great deal on emotions or get stuck in the past. Instead, I work on current behaviors, and where you want to go from here by breaking down what is holding you back.

North Vancouver, British Columbia
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Freeman Woolnough

Vancouver, British Columbia

Freeman Woolnough

MEd in Counselling, University of Northern British Columbia
Years in practice: 15
Offers:  Remote Therapy

How do we know what works – and why? I believe that most people can ultimately provide the answers for themselves; however, it may take some exploration. I therefore use strategies that are evidence-based and research-driven, to help clients build resilience and develop effective coping strategies.
A counsellor is someone who is there to provide guidance and support in times of unmanageable stress. While our sessions may draw from various counselling approaches, including CBT, SFBT, and Narrative Therapy, the client ultimately provides the backdrop – and puts in the work – that leads to lasting change.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Nelson Szeto

Burnaby, British Columbia

Nelson Szeto

MA in Counselling Psychology (MCP), Adler School of Professional Psychology
Years in practice: 13
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Attachment-based/systems-based that’s integrated in Adlerian, CBT, and EMDR approaches. Working with anxiety, couples work, and parent-child family therapy. Trauma and abuse populations as well.

Burnaby, British Columbia
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Pam Paquet

Chilliwack, British Columbia

Pam Paquet

Masters in Counselling, UNBC
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

When clients work with me there is a guarantee that change will occur. This change does not have to be drastic or grand. It can come from a new or revised perspective, different level of awareness, change in reaction time or with a slight adjustment to feelings and thoughts behind the challenge. I focus on balancing the right model, the correct therapy and the appropriate strategies for each client. Because every client is different, the therapy and services provided should be as unique as the person(s) sitting across from me. I adhere to one philosophy with every client: if your comfort level is high, then you will do great work in therapy. This means the counselling process is driven by the client and based on their needs.

Chilliwack, British Columbia
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Juniper Counselling

Port Moody, British Columbia

Juniper Counselling

Number of Therapists: 12
Offers:  Remote Therapy, Individual Therapy, Group Therapy

Under the right conditions, we can find the courage to grow. We don’t just create a safe place, but also a brave place for you to tackle what life throws at you. You don’t have to do it alone.

Port Moody, British Columbia
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