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Wes McVey

North Vancouver, British Columbia

Wes McVey

MA in the School of Child and Youth Care, University of Victoria
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I specialize in working with men of all ages – particularly men with symptoms of ADHD, anxiety and depression – along with parents and couples.

I am a son, brother, husband, father, and counsellor. Before counselling, I worked mainly with young men as a probation officer over 12 years, and with adults at a residential drug and alcohol recovery program for five. I learned to listen first, and to build on clients’ existing strengths and motivation to help them change longstanding habits using evidence-based strategies. If you are ready to try a different approach and put in the hard work, then send me a message and we can talk about a plan.

North Vancouver, British Columbia
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Arno Lowi

Vancouver, British Columbia

Arno Lowi

MA, The East Side Institute, Short-Term Therapy
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I focus on what works using practical, cutting-edge techniques to help you understand yourself and acquire the skills you need to improve your life. I collaborate with you to achieve greater joy, fulfilment, effectiveness, clarity and stability in your life. You really don’t have to do it alone anymore. I use direct, practical language and cut through jargon to quickly clarify confusion. Sessions with me are always productive. I train you to do things differently, so that you achieve better results in life. My clients really get better.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Cory Stewart

Surrey, British Columbia

Cory Stewart

MA in Counselling Psychology, Yorkville University
Years in practice: 5
Offers:  Remote Therapy

To best understand and identify the complex patterns involved in our thoughts and behaviours, simply limiting ourselves to labels of perceived symptoms (i.e. diagnoses) misses out on the true human experience. Through a high degree of curiosity, intrigue, and empathy we are able to subvert our own expectations and identify what may otherwise be lying just under the surface. Perhaps the hidden and uncomfortable truths that continue to cause distress.

This is the strength of a curious approach. Not only do we uncover and address the underlying concerns for the benefit and growth of the client (you), but the counsellor is naturally invested by the intrigue and collaborative discoveries being made, by virtue of their own burgeoning curiosity.

Surrey, British Columbia
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San Samra

Surrey, British Columbia

San Samra

MACP, Yorkville University
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

 If you feel like you keep running into the same wall — the same fights, the same stress, the same habits that you promised yourself you’d break — you’re not alone. A lot of men carry the weight silently and think they should “just figure it out” on their own, but that pressure is exactly what keeps everything bottled up.

My work focuses on helping men understand why these patterns keep repeating, and how to get unstuck without shame or judgment. Whether it shows up as stress, anger, anxiety, shutdown, relationship strain, or feeling like you’re not living up to your own potential, there is always something underneath the surface that is asking to be understood. You don’t need to have the perfect words or a polished story — you just need a place where you don’t have to keep pretending everything is fine.

I am part of the Surrey Vitality Collective team and sessions with me can be booked via text at 855-425-4310‬.

Surrey, British Columbia
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Alex Sadlowski

Kelowna, British Columbia

Alex Sadlowski

MSW, University of British Columbia
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I support people to better understand who they are and what they need in life to feel whole. Our therapy together can help you explore and understand the past, live in the present, and build for a meaningful future.

My counselling approach is informed by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), a modality about helping you stop fighting with your thoughts and feelings to focus on what really matters to you. I have experience with relationship struggles, grief, ADHD, trauma, and addiction.

Kelowna, British Columbia
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Perienne Paulson

Kelowna, British Columbia

Perienne Paulson

MACP, Yorkville University
Years in practice: 1
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I work with men who are carrying more than they show, and who are tired of holding everything in just to get through the day. If you’re feeling burnt out, disconnected, overwhelmed by stress, or having trouble showing up in your relationships the way you want to, you’re not alone — and you don’t have to keep doing this silently.

My approach is straightforward, supportive, and focused on helping you understand what’s going on beneath the surface so you can get back to feeling like yourself again — not a different man, just a less overloaded one. In our work together, we slow things down enough for you to breathe, think clearly, and reconnect with the parts of you that have been in survival mode for too long.

I am part of the Kelowna Vitality Collective team and sessions with me can be booked via text at 855-425-4310‬.

Kelowna, British Columbia
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Kathryn Atkinson

Nanaimo, British Columbia

Kathryn Atkinson

MA in Counselling Psychology, Adler School of Professional Psychology
Years in practice: 15
Offers:  Remote Therapy

To all of you who feel weary, frightened, overwhelmed, alone: take refuge here. You are not alone. There is hope. Although the waves seem too rough, they can be calmed. Let’s navigate these storms together. My specialties include Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (exposure response prevention-ERPs), Tics (CBIT), Body Focused Repetitive Behaviours, Anxiety, Trauma, Habit Reversal, mood, and working with those with diverse abilities and autism. I use many modalities depending on the needs of my clients, but am most proficient with Cognitive Behaviour Therapy.

Nanaimo, British Columbia
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Calvin Black

Victoria, British Columbia

Calvin Black

MA in Counselling Psychology, University of Victoria
Years in practice: 11
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I work with individuals and couples from a Narrative Therapeutic lens. I have also had experience working with men who have experienced abuse and trauma. I am an experienced counsellor and work out of the Arbour Counselling Centre in Victoria, BC. Before counselling, I worked with youth through a local church for many years.

Victoria, British Columbia
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Tony Ho

Vancouver, British Columbia

Tony Ho

MSW, University of Victoria
Years in practice: 12
Offers:  Remote Therapy

If you’re ready for change, I can help. I offer counselling and therapy services from my easily accessible office in Downtown Vancouver to anywhere in B.C. and Ontario via secure online video chat. With over a decade of experience as a social worker and therapist, I can help you find healthier ways to manage and cope with everyday stresses and tackle complex mental health challenges.

I specialize in treating chronic insomnia with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-I) and other sleep-impacting issues like anxiety, depression, and nightmares. You’ve taken such an important step by seeking support, and I know that it’s not easy. I invite you to connect with me to see how I can help.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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David T Renaud

Vancouver, British Columbia

David T Renaud

MSW, University of British Columbia
Years in practice: 11
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I work with men experiencing difficult problems. Such problems go by many names, and may be new or old, but all share the common trait of stubbornly obstructing our happiness. Yet despite the hardship they cause, our problems also carry essential insight about what is needed for their resolution. I work with you to reveal these insights, to gather their wisdom, and to transform them into opportunities for greater well-being and engagement with life. You can visit my website to easily book a free, unhurried conversation about the problems you’re experiencing, and the life you’d like to live. We’ll talk about ways to help you move toward that life, using approaches that feel natural, intuitive, and possibly even exciting.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Lea Hutcheon

REMOTE ACROSS BRITISH COLUMBIA

Lea Hutcheon

MC, City University
Years in practice: 1
Offers:  Remote Therapy

As a registered clinical counsellor, my style has been described as warm, nonjudgmental, and collaborative. I work with men and people of any gender who experience suicidality, addictions, depression, anxiety, relationship struggles, and a range of traumas. I am energized to work alongside folks who seek to live in alignment with their values. I use multiple modalities (ACT, DBT, parts work / IFS, and more) which are empirically supported, trauma-informed and respect your autonomy and choice. Many of my clients navigate disability and chronic pain. In working together, we will support you in building skills and new patterns on your chosen path of growth and change. I currently offer sliding scale/reduced rates.

REMOTE ACROSS BRITISH COLUMBIA
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Sarah Larson

Kelowna, British Columbia

Sarah Larson

MSc in Neuropsychology, University of Nottingham; Master's of Counselling, Athabasca University
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I enjoy working with men to explore their personal narratives and how these stories have influenced their sense of identity and emotional wellbeing. I offer a unique multi-cultural perspective, influenced by work experience and living abroad. This mindset paired with a trauma-informed practice allows me to create a safe space for therapeutic change. I enjoy working with men with diverse experiences and identities from all walks of life to explore how internal narratives may be impacting mental wellbeing. My goal is to create an environment that feels safe and inspires growth.

Kelowna, British Columbia
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Diksha Tyagi

Surrey, British Columbia

Diksha Tyagi

MSc in Counseling, Johns Hopkins University
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Counselling doesn’t have to be clinical or intimidating — it’s simply a place where you don’t have to carry everything alone. Many men come to therapy not because something is “wrong” with them, but because they’re tired of feeling overwhelmed, misunderstood, or stuck in patterns they can’t seem to shift. I help men make sense of what’s happening beneath the surface — the stress, shutdown, frustration, or emotional numbness that so often goes unnamed.

I also work with couples, particularly around the pressures men experience in relationships when they are expected to be strong, steady, communicative, emotionally available — even when no one taught them how. My approach is grounded, steady, and emotionally safe for clients who don’t usually open up easily.

I am part of the Surrey Vitality Collective team and sessions with me can be booked via text at 855-425-4310‬.

Surrey, British Columbia
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Darren Williamson

Langley, British Columbia

Darren Williamson

MCP, Adler University
Years in practice: 3
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I provide counselling from an existential-humanistic lens, prioritizing your expertise as well as finding ways to help you regain a sense of control in your life. My job is to help you grow and make positive changes. I’m here to work with you on your challenges and goals. Therapy is a process that can move you toward being the healthiest version of yourself and living the life you desire.

Langley, British Columbia
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Evan Vukets

Abbotsford, British Columbia

Evan Vukets

MA, Adler University
Years in practice: 6
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I help men who feel burned out, stuck, or disconnected find clarity, confidence, and a renewed sense of purpose. Our sessions are practical and down-to-earth, giving you tools to manage stress, improve relationships, and reconnect with what matters most. These tools are rooted in evidence based practices including CBT, DBT, and Adlerian therapy.

Our sessions will be a space for the deeper conversations that bring lasting change. Whether in-person at my Abbotsford office or online, you will have a supportive space to slow down, unpack what’s going on, and take steps toward a life that feels like your own.

Abbotsford, British Columbia
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