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Darren Williamson

Langley, British Columbia

Darren Williamson

MCP, Adler University
Years in practice: 3
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I provide counselling from an existential-humanistic lens, prioritizing your expertise as well as finding ways to help you regain a sense of control in your life. My job is to help you grow and make positive changes. I’m here to work with you on your challenges and goals. Therapy is a process that can move you toward being the healthiest version of yourself and living the life you desire.

Langley, British Columbia
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Leslie Fahr

Chilliwack, British Columbia

Leslie Fahr

MACP, Yorkville University
Years in practice: 12
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Many men don’t talk about it openly, but feeling disconnected — from your partner, your emotions, or even from yourself — can quietly take a huge toll. Whether it shows up as withdrawal, shutting down, anger, overwhelm, ADHD-like overload, or not knowing how to express what you actually feel, the experience underneath is often the same: it’s lonely to carry life without feeling understood.

In therapy, I help men build the skills and inner foundation for healthier relationships — not just with others, but with themselves. I support clients navigating emotional shutdown, communication barriers, trauma, ADHD/ASD-related overwhelm, and the kind of quiet pain that rarely gets put into words.

I am part of the Chilliwack Vitality Collective team and sessions with me can be booked via text at 855-425-4310‬.

Chilliwack, British Columbia
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John Reilly

Victoria, British Columbia

John Reilly

MSW, Wilfrid Laurier University
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am a registered social worker (MSW) with an eclectic skill set who practices from an anti-oppressive perspective. I’ve completed training in Somatic Experiencing® Trauma Therapy, Expressive Arts Practice, Non-Violent-Compassionate Communication, mindfulness-based practices and use the primary masculine archetypes to support transformation in the lives of men of all sexual orientations. I provide therapy for individuals of all genders who are seeking greater vitality. I have experience supporting individuals recovering from trauma, problematic substance use, mental health issues and relationship or workplace issues. My skills provide an eclectic palate through which to engage the individual in creative processes of transformation.

Victoria, British Columbia
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Trevor Gray

Vancouver, British Columbia

Trevor Gray

MSW, University of British Columbia
Years in practice: 5
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My practice is person-centred, trauma-informed, and draws largely from Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP) – a relational and emotion-focused approach. I believe each person is the expert in their own life and inherently has the knowledge and resources necessary to guide the therapeutic process, make changes, and move toward their preferred ways of living. I am here to support you with this process.

I have a reputation for being non-judgmental and gentle in my approach, which promotes the sense of safety and openness necessary to collaboratively unpack and find relief from the challenges of life. Often, this involves building awareness of old emotional patterns and working together to develop and experience new and preferred patterns in session.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Emad Seyed Sadr

Vancouver, British Columbia

Emad Seyed Sadr

MA in Counselling Psychology, Yorkville University
Years in practice: 6
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I provide counselling services in French and English for individuals in matters related to anxiety, depression, life transition, gender, grief, loss and suicide. My practice is founded on the belief that you are not the “problems” present in your life, and that, above all, you are greater than the sum of the events in your life. As my counselling approach is strength-based, Solution-Focused and Narrative-rooted, our conversations will identify, explore and honour the big and small ways you defy and resist “problems”, while re-authoring a deeper and richer version of your life and journey.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Travis Rowe

Kelowna, British Columbia

Travis Rowe

MA, Providence Theological Seminary
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I believe that everyone is the expert of their own lives, and have within them everything they need in order to make positive change in their lives, but sometimes we need someone to come alongside us and help us get there.

By looking through the past and present, by exploring and processing thoughts, emotions, and behaviours, we can identify the areas of distress and find meaningful ways to better engage with ourselves, our relationships, and our environment.

I have a relational approach to counselling and I comfortably draw from a variety of modalities including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Emotion Focused, and Mindfulness. I have experience with anxiety and depression, grief, trauma, and addiction.

Kelowna, British Columbia
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Pam Paquet

Chilliwack, British Columbia

Pam Paquet

Masters in Counselling, UNBC
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

When clients work with me there is a guarantee that change will occur. This change does not have to be drastic or grand. It can come from a new or revised perspective, different level of awareness, change in reaction time or with a slight adjustment to feelings and thoughts behind the challenge. I focus on balancing the right model, the correct therapy and the appropriate strategies for each client. Because every client is different, the therapy and services provided should be as unique as the person(s) sitting across from me. I adhere to one philosophy with every client: if your comfort level is high, then you will do great work in therapy. This means the counselling process is driven by the client and based on their needs.

Chilliwack, British Columbia
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Brittany Sirtonski

Abbotsford and Coquitlam, British Columbia

Brittany Sirtonski

MA in Counselling Psychology, Yorkville University. RP, College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario.
Years in practice: 12
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Our biggest moments of crisis, when supported with care, consciousness, and insight, are in fact our greatest sources of personal growth and transformation. I help individuals to strengthen the resources they have within themselves, learn to navigate challenging and uncomfortable emotions and life experiences, and build resiliency to navigate through tough times. As you begin to more consciously navigate life’s ebbs and flows, I support you in moving towards a more comfortable, content and meaningful life.

Abbotsford and Coquitlam, British Columbia
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Bruce Avery

Vancouver, British Columbia

Bruce Avery

PhD, Modern Sex Therapy Institutes
Years in practice: 5
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My name is Bruce Avery and I work as a Registered Clinical Counsellor and a Certified Sex Therapist (AASECT) and I’m the Founder of Avery Therapy Centre & Stellium Sex Therapy. I work with a wide range of people who may seek increased perspective, self-understanding, and clarity in their everyday lives. I also work with people who may feel that anxiety, depression, or past trauma is hindering them from achieving their goals.

When working with me, you can expect to be treated with respect, care, and compassion. It is my intention to develop a foundation of trust and security and an environment in which you can explore your inner world and feel more empowered. My practice is trauma and culture informed.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Island Clinical Counselling Parksville

Parksville, British Columbia

Island Clinical Counselling Parksville

Number of Therapists: 6
Offers:  Remote Therapy, Individual Therapy, Group Therapy

At Island Clinical Counselling, we create a welcoming, non-judgmental space where you can feel seen, heard, and supported. Whether you’re facing overwhelming stress, navigating deep loss, or seeking personal growth, our compassionate team of experienced counsellors is here to walk alongside you. Together, we’ll explore your strengths, build resilience, and help you move forward with hope and clarity.

Our Parksville office is located inside Seaview Centre at 211-198 Island Hwy East. Fully accessible for levels of mobility; elevator access. We also offer remote sessions to clients across BC.

Parksville, British Columbia
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Juniper Counselling

Port Moody, British Columbia

Juniper Counselling

Number of Therapists: 12
Offers:  Remote Therapy, Individual Therapy, Group Therapy

Under the right conditions, we can find the courage to grow. We don’t just create a safe place, but also a brave place for you to tackle what life throws at you. You don’t have to do it alone.

Port Moody, British Columbia
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Joel Martinflatt

Nanaimo, British Columbia

Joel Martinflatt

MSW, York University
Years in practice: 22
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am humbled to have been working in the helping field since 2003. During this time, I have walked alongside many people as they navigate life, deal with hardships, and persevere. I see my role in supporting you as holding space for your hurt and distress while also assisting you in finding the change you hope to see within yourself and the relationships around you. I strive to create a partnership of trust and support and to shine a light on your strength and capacity. Typically, people come to see me because life is hard, but counselling does not need to be. I infuse our time together with hope, and laughter. A little bit about me is that I am a partner, father, weekend athlete and outdoor enthusiast.

Nanaimo, British Columbia
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Alexia Spencer

Vancouver, British Columbia

Alexia Spencer

MA in Counselling Psychology, Adler University
Years in practice: 17
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Through my work, I realized how much pressure people experienced in their day-to-day lives and the effects this had on their relationship with themselves and others. Through my therapeutic work, I observed the consequences of society placing such a strong emphasis on perfectionism, a hyper-vigilance on “fixing” oneself, and external merit. Seeing adults, teens, and children struggling to understand their identity, self-worth, and values motivated me to gain expertise in various therapeutic modalities. My areas of focus include anxiety, depression, and trauma, self-worth, identity, and relationships, and narrative as well as mindfulness approaches.

 

Vancouver, British Columbia
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​Alisa Farina

New Westminster, British Columbia

​Alisa Farina

MA, Yorkville University
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy
Hello, I’m Alisa Farina, a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) and Canadian Certified Counsellor (CCC), I offer in person sessions in New Westminster and virtual sessions anywhere in B.C.  I have training, education, and 30 years of experience  working with individuals in the areas of trauma, abuse, anxiety, depression, addiction, life transitions, relationships, and grief. I also support guys (and families of guys) with ADHD/ADD and Autism/ASD, including adults who are new to this diagnosis.
I have specific experience supporting males with their mental health. Tailoring treatment for each client, I use cognitive behaviour, solution focused, narrative, and family systems therapy through an evidence-driven, goal oriented approach that focuses on client change.
Counselling is an opportunity for us to work together confidentially, as we identify practical steps to help you better cope, find relief, and move forward.
Ready to take the next step? Schedule a confidential, complimentary 30 minute consultation with me today.
New Westminster, British Columbia
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Meena Hira

Vancouver, British Columbia

Meena Hira

MCP, Adler University
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My goal is to create an open and nonjudgmental space for you to work towards your goals & your healing at your own pace. I work with issues such as depression, anxiety, trauma, identity, life stress, racism/discrimination, and more. I work from an approach called Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT) which helps clients bring awareness to their underlying emotions and break the cycles that make them feel stuck. I offer virtual & in-person sessions in Vancouver, BC. Let’s start with a free phone consultation! You can contact me by email: [email protected] or check out my website for the online booking link.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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