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Ben Malt

Vancouver, British Columbia

Ben Malt

MACP, Yorkville University
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My approach to counselling depends greatly on you and your experiences. Our work will begin by understanding your story, experiences and the resulting life that you’re living. Through getting to know each other and hearing about your experiences, we will use the information revealed to begin resolving your issues – be it helping you understand existing problems, manage difficult symptoms or adopt healthier ways of living and relating.

I believe the best results come from a strong relationship and a willingness to change and challenge your self. If you feel ready to take these steps, please reach out to see if we’re a good fit to work together. Have a nice day.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Leslie Fahr

Chilliwack, British Columbia

Leslie Fahr

MACP, Yorkville University
Years in practice: 13
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Many men don’t talk about it openly, but feeling disconnected — from your partner, your emotions, or even from yourself — can quietly take a huge toll. Whether it shows up as withdrawal, shutting down, anger, overwhelm, ADHD-like overload, or not knowing how to express what you actually feel, the experience underneath is often the same: it’s lonely to carry life without feeling understood.

In therapy, I help men build the skills and inner foundation for healthier relationships — not just with others, but with themselves. I support clients navigating emotional shutdown, communication barriers, trauma, ADHD/ASD-related overwhelm, and the kind of quiet pain that rarely gets put into words.

I am part of the Chilliwack Vitality Collective team and sessions with me can be booked via text at 855-425-4310‬.

Chilliwack, British Columbia
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Oakhill Counselling & Mediation Services

Abbotsford, British Columbia

Oakhill Counselling & Mediation Services

Number of Therapists: 28
Offers:  Remote Therapy, Individual Therapy
Oakhill Counselling is a diverse group of professionals who offer responsive and flexible counselling and psychological services that improve quality of life. We have offices in Langley, Maple Ridge, Abbotsford and Chilliwack and have expertise working with specialized populations including first responders and LGBTQ.
Note: HeadsUpGuys only recommends therapists who meet our qualification standards.
Abbotsford, British Columbia
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Alex Henderson

Vancouver, British Columbia

Alex Henderson

MACP, Yorkville University
Years in practice: 1
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I worked as a chef for 10 years before becoming a therapist, an experience that exposed me to all sorts of men’s issues. I have a background and training in addiction, anger, trauma and sense of self. My aim to to take a lot of the nonsense out of counselling; I want to work WITH people, to hold them accountable and to support them as they grow.

My therapeutic background is in values clarification, childhood trauma, anger, sexuality and personhood, fields that I aim to integrate into sessions in order to build better experiences.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Keely Honeywill

Vancouver, British Columbia

Keely Honeywill

MSW, University of British Columbia
Years in practice: 6
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I practice from an anti-oppressive, intersectional feminist, and trauma-informed lens. To be grounded in anti-oppressive practice from an intersection feminist lens means recognizing and examining the harmful systems that impact individual’s mental health. Pain and suffering are not created in a vacuum, but rather experienced as a result of the unjust systems that influence daily living. These influences can include patriarchy, capitalism, colonialism, heteronormativity, and prescribed gender norms.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Graeme Thompson

REMOTE ACROSS BC

Graeme Thompson

MACP, Yorkville University
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Struggling with your sleep? You lay awake, for what feels like hours, only to fall asleep in short fits, punctuated by waking up in the middle of the night, just to try it all over again. Maybe you’ve tried pharmaceutical or over-the-counter strategies with mixed results. Thankfully, there is a substance-free way to treat sleep disorders and issues.

Our psychotherapeutic work will focus on applying the principles of cognitive behavioural therapy for insomnia (CBTi) to your particular situation. It’s not easy, but it gets results; with remission rates surpassing those seen in other disorders. Piqued your interest? Maybe your minds telling you it won’t work for you? Let’s chat about it over a consultation to figure out a path forward.

REMOTE ACROSS BC
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Joban Rai

Surrey, British Columbia

Joban Rai

MCP, Adler University
Years in practice: 3
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I work from a trauma-informed and strengths-based approach. I believe that you have everything you need to heal within you and lead a more authentic and meaningful life, and my work with you will help bring that out. I use a cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) lens. I believe your thoughts, emotions, and behaviours are all interconnected and each one of them impacts and affects the other.

However, I also often use other modalities in my practice based on your individual needs. Some other modalities I use are acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), Gestalt, and observed experiential integration (OEI) level 1.

Regardless of the modalities I use with you in our work together, I place a huge emphasis on getting to know you and your story.

Surrey, British Columbia
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Shannon Gallagher

REMOTE ACROSS BRITISH COLUMBIA

Shannon Gallagher

MA in Counselling Psychology, Yorkville University
Years in practice: 5
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I work primarily with clients aged 10 and up. I work from an integrative approach to ensure that the methods I use work best for you and your concerns. I encourage open communication so that I do not use a method or intervention that is not working for you. I specialize in chronic illness/pain, trauma/PTSD, anxiety, depression, mood disorders, couples/sex therapy, lgbtqia2s+, and career counselling, however, I am trained to work with other concerns as well. If you would like a free consultation or to set up an appointment contact me now or visit my website for more information. I am fully licensed to see clients in BC (RCC) and NB (LCT), as well as SK, MB, NL, and The Territories (CCC).

REMOTE ACROSS BRITISH COLUMBIA
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Mark Giesbrecht

REMOTE ACROSS BRITISH COLUMBIA

Mark Giesbrecht

MA in Counselling Therapy, City University of Seattle and RCC, BC Association of Clincial Counsellors and CCC, Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I provide online therapy using evidence-based practices to help individuals overcome their challenges by learning better skills. Skills that can help them gain control over their thoughts, emotions, and behaviours, and to live more successful lives. The focus of my approach is change oriented and compassion-driven. Assessments are done at the beginning to best understand the individual and plan for helpful life giving conversations. Remote therapy only.

REMOTE ACROSS BRITISH COLUMBIA
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Arno Lowi

Vancouver, British Columbia

Arno Lowi

MA, The East Side Institute, Short-Term Therapy
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I focus on what works using practical, cutting-edge techniques to help you understand yourself and acquire the skills you need to improve your life. I collaborate with you to achieve greater joy, fulfilment, effectiveness, clarity and stability in your life. You really don’t have to do it alone anymore. I use direct, practical language and cut through jargon to quickly clarify confusion. Sessions with me are always productive. I train you to do things differently, so that you achieve better results in life. My clients really get better.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Aditi Jasra

Surrey, British Columbia

Aditi Jasra

Masters in Counselling Psychology, Yorkville University
Years in practice: 12
Offers:  Remote Therapy

When talking is hard, I use a trauma-informed approach and EFT lens to support my clients. I use EMDR, Somatics, EFT and mindfulness in my work along with CBT and DBT so that my male clients are able to feel safe to express their emotions and challenge the stigma around mental health.

Surrey, British Columbia
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Erin Malki

Vancouver, British Columbia

Erin Malki

Master of Arts Counselling Psychology
Years in practice: 5
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My main focus is understanding the people I work with. I am curious about why we behave, think, and feel like we do and I want to help you know your life story more meaningfully. The most important relationship you can have is the one you have with yourself. My goal is to help people learn how to reconnect and rediscover themselves, with the aim of cultivating a more compassionate and understanding relationship with oneself, ultimately leading to a greater understanding of who you truly are. As a directive therapist, my approach is marked by a profound intuition, a keen attunement to others, and an unwavering sense of compassion. In our sessions, we’ll delve into the art of emotional regulation and fortify the mind-body connection.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Sara Warren

Gibsons and Vancouver, British Columbia

Sara Warren

MA in Counselling Psychology, Yorkville University
Years in practice: 10
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My goal is to work collaboratively with you based on your specific goals and needs with an emphasis on building a strong therapeutic relationship and creating a safe environment. I provide psychotherapy services for issues related, but not limited to, various forms of trauma and abuse, interpersonal relationships, substance use, self-esteem, identity, eating disorders, self-harm, depression, anxiety, and chronic illness. My therapeutic approach is integrative to best meet your needs. I draw upon various approaches, such as EMDR, Narrative, DBT, Polyvagal, Hypnotherapy, Interpersonal Psychotherapy, Brainspotting, Somatic work and other trauma-focused interventions.

Gibsons and Vancouver, British Columbia
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Laura Wray

Vancouver, British Columbia

Laura Wray

MS in Counselling and Psychotherapy, University of Keele
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I have significant experience working with men, and have developed a real sensitivity and empathy for the struggle many men face in opening up about, and making sense of their emotions. I believe we all have different ways of expressing ourselves and that using emotional language is not the only – or the correct – way to navigate our experience and relationships. If you are worried about being constantly asked how you feel, or about long awkward silences in the therapy room, that’s not what you will find here. I use humour, directness, prompts, helpful strategies, and most importantly, I work alongside you in a very human and engaged way. Our sessions will be collaborative and lead by what feels helpful to you.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Wellness North Counselling

Surrey & Port Coquitlam, BC

Wellness North Counselling

Number of Therapists: 9
Offers:  Remote Therapy, Individual Therapy, Group Therapy

It can be hard for men to open up. We work from non-judgemental, trauma informed, anti-oppressive lenses. We treat anxiety, depression, trauma and relationship issues for individuals, couples, & families. Our psychotherapy services can help you gain control over the emotions, feelings and situations that might be keeping you stuck. We can also support you with:

OCD, ADHD/ADD, grief & loss, interpersonal conflict, self-esteem & low confidence issues, work-place stress, & several other mental health concerns.

Surrey & Port Coquitlam, BC
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