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Brittany Sirtonski

Abbotsford and Coquitlam, British Columbia

Brittany Sirtonski

MA in Counselling Psychology, Yorkville University. RP, College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario.
Years in practice: 13
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Our biggest moments of crisis, when supported with care, consciousness, and insight, are in fact our greatest sources of personal growth and transformation. I help individuals to strengthen the resources they have within themselves, learn to navigate challenging and uncomfortable emotions and life experiences, and build resiliency to navigate through tough times. As you begin to more consciously navigate life’s ebbs and flows, I support you in moving towards a more comfortable, content and meaningful life.

Abbotsford and Coquitlam, British Columbia
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Michael McNally

Nanaimo, British Columbia

Michael McNally

MSW, University of Toronto
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

It takes courage, reflection, and a few calming breaths to reach out for support when difficult life circumstances present themselves. Taking the important first step starts the journey toward applying new ways of approaching personal and relational difficulties. We will walk together in a collaborative relationship, test new skills that we learn along the way, and explore the possibilities!

Nanaimo, British Columbia
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Dr. Mickey Stein

Vancouver, British Columbia

Dr. Mickey Stein

PhD in Clinical Psychology, Palo Alto University
Years in practice: 9
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am a registered clinical psychologist in Vancouver, B.C. My mission in private practice is to provide individual and family psychotherapy and psychological assessments to treat adolescents and adults. It is my sincere hope that whether you are seeking help for yourself or your teenager, you would reach out to me.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Jennifer Vishloff

Vancouver, British Columbia

Jennifer Vishloff

Master of Arts/ Simon Fraser University
Years in practice: 11
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Many of my clients feel worried that others don’t like them, and are scared to speak up in their relationships. They’ve spent a long time silencing what they really think and feel inside because they’re afraid they’ll be rejected if they share their full selves with others. I help clients understand and change the underlying patterns keeping them stuck. You can build confidence managing emotions, setting boundaries and having more of what you want in relationships. You can accept and even like who you are and have the confidence to make changes in your life that bring satisfaction at work, connection and closeness in relationships, and trust yourself to get through the hard things.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Mark Smith

Vancouver, British Columbia

Mark Smith

MSW, University of British Columbia
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I’m a Family Systems Therapist who has been in practice since 1988. I work with men from a family of origin or a family systems approach. This means, in part, that I think of men and their emotional functioning within a systems framework. I think about how their sense of themselves, and their emotional function has been shaped by the relational dynamic of their friends and family, past and present. This then contributes to emotional health symptoms like depression.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Darren Williamson

Langley, British Columbia

Darren Williamson

MCP, Adler University
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I provide counselling from an existential-humanistic lens, prioritizing your expertise as well as finding ways to help you regain a sense of control in your life. My job is to help you grow and make positive changes. I’m here to work with you on your challenges and goals. Therapy is a process that can move you toward being the healthiest version of yourself and living the life you desire.

Langley, British Columbia
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Perienne Paulson

Kelowna, British Columbia

Perienne Paulson

MACP, Yorkville University
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I work with men who are carrying more than they show, and who are tired of holding everything in just to get through the day. If you’re feeling burnt out, disconnected, overwhelmed by stress, or having trouble showing up in your relationships the way you want to, you’re not alone — and you don’t have to keep doing this silently.

My approach is straightforward, supportive, and focused on helping you understand what’s going on beneath the surface so you can get back to feeling like yourself again — not a different man, just a less overloaded one. In our work together, we slow things down enough for you to breathe, think clearly, and reconnect with the parts of you that have been in survival mode for too long.

I am part of the Kelowna Vitality Collective team and sessions with me can be booked via text at 855-425-4310‬.

Kelowna, British Columbia
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David Holmes

Vancouver, British Columbia

David Holmes

MA in Counselling Psychology, Yorkville University
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I specialize in two areas. Men’s sexual health and relationship concerns, where we co-examine the psychological, biological, social, and behavioural factors behind sexual issues or relationship insecurities that are creating barriers and holding men back from connecting.

I also help men explore work and life transitions: stressors that make people resistant to change. For some, it can be examining their “blind spots” that prevent them from recognizing the right time to make a transition.

I use a strengths-based approach to move you from where you are to where you want to be. I provide a caring and nurturing space for clients to express feelings, emotions, behaviours, and relationships.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Kevin Berry

Victoria, British Columbia

Kevin Berry

MEd in Counselling Psychology, Simon Fraser University
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I work online with couples and individuals across Canada (BC, YT, NWT, SK, MB, Nunavut) who want to live with more joy and meaning in their lives in spite of the trauma they’ve faced. Though the past can hold us back, it does not have to define us. The counselling I offer can help you process and integrate your past so that it doesn’t get so much in the way of you achieving what you want in life – whether that be progressing your life and career goals, deepening your relationships with others, processing grief and loss, becoming more confident in your personal identity, or managing and growing through depression, anxiety, and post-traumatic stress. I work to connect you with your emotions and build concrete skills that will help you thrive.

Victoria, British Columbia
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Jeffrey Hoy

Coquitlam, British Columbia

Jeffrey Hoy

MA in Counselling Psychology, Yorkville University
Years in practice: 11
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am a therapist who wants to help you, in the way that works for you, and at the pace that works for you. I seek to create a safe, calm, and open place for you to explore what is really going on. I have lived a richly experienced life – and I know first hand what it’s like to be in a difficult place. I believe that my broad life experience – with both positive and many negative experiences – gives me an exceptional ability to understand, empathize with, and inspire the clients I work with.

I use a multifaceted approach to therapy including EFT, CBT, MI, NVC, and more – what does that mean? I will be able to connect and work with you in the way that works for you.

Coquitlam, British Columbia
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Victoria Counselling Centre

Victoria, British Columbia

Victoria Counselling Centre

Number of Therapists: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy, Individual Therapy, Group Therapy

Our dedicated team has experience working with self-esteem, relationships, depression, anxiety, stress, trauma, abuse, life transitions and grief/loss. All therapists are trained at a Masters level and are registered with a professional counselling association to ensure that you receive safe and effective services.

Victoria, British Columbia
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Mr Douglas Matear

Vancouver, British Columbia

Mr Douglas Matear

B.A., B. of Educ. (U of A), M.A. (UBC), D Ed (Univ. of Kansas)
Years in practice: 24
Offers:  Remote Therapy

“Clients are the experts of their own lives, and wellness is not a state of being, but a state of action.”

Douglas Louis Matear is a long-time practitioner of EMDR but uses a variety of approaches that best suit the needs of his clients. His diverse work and life experiences suit him well in navigating difficult conversations. Early childhood trauma, the impact of abuse, anxiety, depression, and an anti-deficit frame are at the core of his work. Cross-cultural sensitivity and being a member of the LGBTQIA2P+ community have enriched his therapeutic approaches. He is further interested in stress reduction, mindfulness, the importance of exercise, and coaching clients to be the best they can be.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Lea Hutcheon

REMOTE ACROSS BRITISH COLUMBIA

Lea Hutcheon

MC, City University
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy

As a registered clinical counsellor, my style has been described as warm, nonjudgmental, and collaborative. I work with men and people of any gender who experience suicidality, addictions, depression, anxiety, relationship struggles, and a range of traumas. I am energized to work alongside folks who seek to live in alignment with their values. I use multiple modalities (ACT, DBT, parts work / IFS, and more) which are empirically supported, trauma-informed and respect your autonomy and choice. Many of my clients navigate disability and chronic pain. In working together, we will support you in building skills and new patterns on your chosen path of growth and change. I currently offer sliding scale/reduced rates.

REMOTE ACROSS BRITISH COLUMBIA
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Vitality Collective – Vancouver

Vancouver, British Columbia

Vitality Collective – Vancouver

Number of Therapists: 6
Offers:  Remote Therapy, Individual Therapy

Vitality Collective offers inclusive, trauma-informed counselling tailored for men navigating life’s challenges. With locations in Kelowna, Chilliwack, Surrey, Vancouver, and online across BC, our team of Registered Clinical Counsellors provides support for issues such as anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship stress, and life transitions.

Our “best-match” approach ensures clients are paired with therapists who align with their unique goals and experiences, fostering trust and meaningful progress. Whether you’re seeking clarity, healing, or personal growth, Vitality Collective offers a safe, confidential space to move forward.

Contact us by email or phone, or use our text to book line at 855-425-4310‬.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Justin Bagan

REMOTE ACROSS BC

Justin Bagan

Master of Counselling, Athabasca University
Years in practice: 3
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Feeling overwhelmed by life’s challenges? Whether it’s anxiety, difficult relationships, substance use, depression, or feeling lost and disconnected, you’re not alone. With a background in addiction and substance use counselling, I’ve supported clients in discovering practical insights, tools, and resources to help them move forward. Successes with clients in personal well-being, relationships, family dynamics, coping, and adapting to change inform our work together.

I value and support you as you are. Clients describe me as a counsellor who genuinely listens and understands them. Let’s discover what works best for you, so you can maintain lasting relief, hope, and peace. If this is something that might interest you, I look forward to connecting. Let’s see what’s going on for you and where we can go from here.

REMOTE ACROSS BC
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