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Ava Kottmeier

New Westminster, British Columbia

Ava Kottmeier

Master of Counselling Psychology, Adler University
Years in practice: 3
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I support people who have been feeling overwhelmed and want to get back in touch with their values, feel safe in their bodies, and live a meaningful, empowering life. My work is trauma-focused and I have experience working with anxiety, depression, identity, relationships, sex, and more. I am a queer, neurodivergent therapist and my services are available through my private practice and with the BC Society for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse. Learn more on my website.

New Westminster, British Columbia
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Vlad Polyakh

Salmon Arm, British Columbia

Vlad Polyakh

Yorkville University
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor, practicing in Salmon Arm, BC. I have a passion for helping people overcome their challenges and achieve their goals. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, life transitions, relationships, self-esteem, cultural diversity, stress management or men`s issues, I am here to support you on your journey of healing and growth. I use evidence-based techniques from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Solution-Focused Therapy (SFT), Internal Family Systems (IFS) informed and other modalities to help you cope with your difficulties and enhance your well-being. I believe that counselling is a collaborative process that requires trust, respect and compassion.

Salmon Arm, British Columbia
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Trevor Gray

Vancouver, British Columbia

Trevor Gray

MSW, University of British Columbia
Years in practice: 6
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My practice is person-centred, trauma-informed, and draws largely from Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP) – a relational and emotion-focused approach. I believe each person is the expert in their own life and inherently has the knowledge and resources necessary to guide the therapeutic process, make changes, and move toward their preferred ways of living. I am here to support you with this process.

I have a reputation for being non-judgmental and gentle in my approach, which promotes the sense of safety and openness necessary to collaboratively unpack and find relief from the challenges of life. Often, this involves building awareness of old emotional patterns and working together to develop and experience new and preferred patterns in session.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Evan Vukets

Abbotsford, British Columbia

Evan Vukets

MA, Adler University
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I help men who feel burned out, stuck, or disconnected find clarity, confidence, and a renewed sense of purpose. Our sessions are practical and down-to-earth, giving you tools to manage stress, improve relationships, and reconnect with what matters most. These tools are rooted in evidence based practices including CBT, DBT, and Adlerian therapy.

Our sessions will be a space for the deeper conversations that bring lasting change. Whether in-person at my Abbotsford office or online, you will have a supportive space to slow down, unpack what’s going on, and take steps toward a life that feels like your own.

Abbotsford, British Columbia
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Isi Oboh

Vancouver, British Columbia

Isi Oboh

Masters of Art in Counselling Psychology (MACP)
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I work with men who are tired of holding it all in—overthinking everything, feeling pressure to always perform, or just feeling emotionally shut down. You don’t need to have it all figured out before you show up.

Therapy with me gives you space to slow down, actually hear yourself think, and get to the bottom of what’s going on.

I draw from approaches like CBT, ACT, EFT, and IFS—but I keep it practical and focused.

Together, we make sense of what’s driving your stress, patterns, and reactions—and build real strategies to help you take action. The goal is for you to feel more in control, make clearer decisions, and move through life with more confidence and direction.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Courtney Sung

North Vancouver, British Columbia

Courtney Sung

Master of Counselling (MC), City University of Seattle
Years in practice: 5
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Whether you are struggling with life transitions, relationship challenges, anxiety, or depression, we are here to help. Life has many ups and downs and our counselling philosophy is to witness your journey and empower you to strive towards your goals. We may unpack past experiences through a trauma-informed lens, develop tools for managing emotions, or process current life challenges. Whatever your need is, we are here to help. You are unique and your counselling experience should be too.

North Vancouver, British Columbia
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Freeman Woolnough

Vancouver, British Columbia

Freeman Woolnough

MEd in Counselling, University of Northern British Columbia
Years in practice: 16
Offers:  Remote Therapy

How do we know what works – and why? I believe that most people can ultimately provide the answers for themselves; however, it may take some exploration. I therefore use strategies that are evidence-based and research-driven, to help clients build resilience and develop effective coping strategies.
A counsellor is someone who is there to provide guidance and support in times of unmanageable stress. While our sessions may draw from various counselling approaches, including CBT, SFBT, and Narrative Therapy, the client ultimately provides the backdrop – and puts in the work – that leads to lasting change.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Scott Arner

Vancouver, British Columbia

Scott Arner

MEd, Simon Fraser University
Years in practice: 24
Offers:  Remote Therapy

For 18+ years I have assisted adults struggling with mental health issues, substance use, trauma, anger, grief, as well as isolation and disconnection. I use a collaborative approach with clients to develop treatment plans, and goal setting. You know your experience — your thoughts, feelings, and behaviours — better than anyone else. I incorporate mindfulness into my therapy practice to aid in anxiety reduction, productivity, self-awareness and confidence. I have studied and include in my practice other approaches such as cognitive behaviour therapy, dialectical behaviour therapy, secular Buddhism, narrative, Imago (for effective couples’ communication) and emotion-focused therapy.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Joel Martinflatt

Nanaimo, British Columbia

Joel Martinflatt

MSW, York University
Years in practice: 23
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am humbled to have been working in the helping field since 2003. During this time, I have walked alongside many people as they navigate life, deal with hardships, and persevere. I see my role in supporting you as holding space for your hurt and distress while also assisting you in finding the change you hope to see within yourself and the relationships around you. I strive to create a partnership of trust and support and to shine a light on your strength and capacity. Typically, people come to see me because life is hard, but counselling does not need to be. I infuse our time together with hope, and laughter. A little bit about me is that I am a partner, father, weekend athlete and outdoor enthusiast.

Nanaimo, British Columbia
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Dr. John Álvarez de Lorenzana

REMOTE ACROSS BRITISH COLUMBIA

Dr. John Álvarez de Lorenzana

MD, McMaster University and MA in Counselling Psychology, University of British Columbia
Years in practice: 18
Offers:  Remote Therapy
Ever feel like saying F#CK My Life? I sure do, especially with therapy being one of the toughest things in the world to sell to guys! Not only do you have to ask for help, which is hard enough, but then there’s the ridiculous stigma that getting therapy is admitting weakness instead of strength. On top of that, therapy can be time consuming, results aren’t guaranteed and it isn’t cheap either. So why bother? As renowned psychiatrist Carl Jung once said “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.” My counselling style is pragmatic and heartfelt. I have weathered my fair share of storms. Why is this happening to me is an important question to ask. The answer often lies in our own behaviour, habits and shadow. My in-person practice specializes in psychedelic-assisted therapy and men’s issues, including anger, break-ups, depression & anxiety.
REMOTE ACROSS BRITISH COLUMBIA
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Dr. Gloria Jacobucci

REMOTE ACROSS BRITISH COLUMBIA

Dr. Gloria Jacobucci

PhD in Clinical Psychology, Simon Fraser University
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My approach typically includes managing current symptoms and addressing underlying causes. Interpersonal patterns are often at the heart of depression, so our work together may include a focus on improving relationships with family, friends, co-workers, and others. Remote therapy only.

REMOTE ACROSS BRITISH COLUMBIA
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Erin Green

Victoria, British Columbia

Erin Green

Masters in Counselling Psychology, Adler University
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy
I value the therapeutic relationship and want to ensure that my clients feel comfortable and cared for when working with me. I have experience supporting clients struggling with changes, shifts in identity and roles, experiencing emotional distress and living with symptoms of trauma. Through the use of a collaborative and holistic approach, I engage a trauma informed lens to support my clients moving through their presenting distress, challenges, and concerns to create resilience, self-awareness and growth in a meaningful way.
I practice using a variety of therapeutic approaches. I use emotion focused therapy, dialectical behaviour therapy, mindfulness, attachment lens, non violent communication all while engaging a trauma informed perspective.
Victoria, British Columbia
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Dr. Jennifer Acheson

Surrey, British Columbia

Dr. Jennifer Acheson

PhD, McGill University
Years in practice: 16
Offers:  Remote Therapy

We all encounter moments when our usual coping strategies fall short, but you don’t have to navigate these challenges alone. With over a decade of experience, I’m here to guide you through your journey of self-discovery and healing. Recognizing the challenges of change, I approach our work with skill, respect, and curiosity, valuing your commitment to transformation. Your journey deserves professional expertise, warmth, and understanding. Knowing that one single approach doesn’t work for everyone, I utilize a variety of techniques, and provide personalized strategies to help you not only cope but thrive. Together, we’ll uncover your strengths, build resilience, and lay the groundwork for a more fulfilling and balanced life.

Surrey, British Columbia
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Sho Sho O

Vancouver, British Columbia

Sho Sho O

MA in Counselling
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy
I am a registered counsellor from Hong Kong. I specialize in helping clients heal from traumatic or distressing experiences, primarily by utilizing Eye Movement Desensitisation Reprocessing and Lifespan Integration. My approach is also grounded in somatic psychology, Ego States theory, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. I practice in English, Cantonese and Mandarin.
My interest in becoming a counsellor came from my experience of witnessing a close family member suffering from schizophrenia, along with my own struggles with family and relationship traumas, anxiety and self-confidence. My goal is to come alongside my clients to create conditions for healing, resilience and growth.
Vancouver, British Columbia
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Alex Sadlowski

Kelowna, British Columbia

Alex Sadlowski

MSW, University of British Columbia
Years in practice: 3
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I support people to better understand who they are and what they need in life to feel whole. Our therapy together can help you explore and understand the past, live in the present, and build for a meaningful future.

My counselling approach is informed by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), a modality about helping you stop fighting with your thoughts and feelings to focus on what really matters to you. I have experience with relationship struggles, grief, ADHD, trauma, and addiction.

Kelowna, British Columbia
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