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San Samra

Surrey, British Columbia

San Samra

MACP, Yorkville University
Years in practice: 9
Offers:  Remote Therapy

 If you feel like you keep running into the same wall — the same fights, the same stress, the same habits that you promised yourself you’d break — you’re not alone. A lot of men carry the weight silently and think they should “just figure it out” on their own, but that pressure is exactly what keeps everything bottled up.

My work focuses on helping men understand why these patterns keep repeating, and how to get unstuck without shame or judgment. Whether it shows up as stress, anger, anxiety, shutdown, relationship strain, or feeling like you’re not living up to your own potential, there is always something underneath the surface that is asking to be understood. You don’t need to have the perfect words or a polished story — you just need a place where you don’t have to keep pretending everything is fine.

I am part of the Surrey Vitality Collective team and sessions with me can be booked via text at 855-425-4310‬.

Surrey, British Columbia
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Mr Douglas Matear

Vancouver, British Columbia

Mr Douglas Matear

B.A., B. of Educ. (U of A), M.A. (UBC), D Ed (Univ. of Kansas)
Years in practice: 24
Offers:  Remote Therapy

“Clients are the experts of their own lives, and wellness is not a state of being, but a state of action.”

Douglas Louis Matear is a long-time practitioner of EMDR but uses a variety of approaches that best suit the needs of his clients. His diverse work and life experiences suit him well in navigating difficult conversations. Early childhood trauma, the impact of abuse, anxiety, depression, and an anti-deficit frame are at the core of his work. Cross-cultural sensitivity and being a member of the LGBTQIA2P+ community have enriched his therapeutic approaches. He is further interested in stress reduction, mindfulness, the importance of exercise, and coaching clients to be the best they can be.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Fibby Pan

Burnaby, British Columbia

Fibby Pan

MSW, University of British Columbia
Years in practice: 11
Offers:  Remote Therapy

As a Registered Social Worker (RSW), I have over 7+ years of working in mental health and addictions. I am experienced working with individuals, families, youth and adults from diverse backgrounds. I can help clients deal with the daily challenges of life including anxiety, depression, trauma and other mental health concerns. I am dedicated to supporting clients improve their well-being and make meaningful and lasting changes. Let’s talk! You can book a free consultation on my website to see how I can help.

Burnaby, British Columbia
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Robbie Ruddell

REMOTE ACROSS BC

Robbie Ruddell

MA, University of British Columbia
Years in practice: 5
Offers:  Remote Therapy

You don’t have to carry this all on your own. I’m a Registered Clinical Counsellor offering a space of refuge and belonging for men navigating shame, stress, disconnection, and self-doubt. If you feel stuck in emotional or relational patterns, overwhelmed or shut down inside, longing for connection but unsure how to feel safe in it – you’re not alone.

My practice is grounded in attachment theory, interpersonal neurobiology, and self-compassion. I work beyond traditional talk therapy by engaging the body and mind to support clients in moving beyond survival patterns into a more connected sense of self. While I support many queer and questioning clients, my practice is open to all men. A free consult is here for you when the time is right.

REMOTE ACROSS BC
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Cameron Grunbaum

Kelowna, British Columbia

Cameron Grunbaum

MA, Simon Fraser University
Years in practice: 6
Offers:  Remote Therapy
Think of me as your emotional coach. I’ll help you understand and communicate emotions; stop bottling up and suppressing feelings; manage anxiety and anger; get unstuck from helplessness and depression; stop people-pleasing and boost your self-esteem. If you tried counselling but haven’t uncovered core issues, your progress plateaued, or didn’t gain anything from it and you wish to achieve deep, lasting changes in your feelings, thoughts, and behaviours, then you are ready to stop talking in circles and start tackling your problems head-on to make real progress.
I will intentionally help you pause and slow things down to explore the underlying processes that are keeping you stuck in unhelpful cycles/patterns. Together we will make a tangible plan to break the cycles, process traumas, practice strategies to support yourself outside of session, and ensure you are continuously improving in your life and relationships.
Overall, my skills and experience enable me to support you in achieving emotional wellbeing, integrity, empathy, and connection with yourself and others. The first step toward change is always the hardest, yet once that step has been made, I believe everyone has the innate capacity for positive transformation. I am here to help you remove the barriers.
Sessions offered both online and in-person at 214-3001 Tutt Street, Kelowna, BC, V1Y 2H4. I provide direct billing for: RCMP, Veterans Affairs Canada (VAC), FNHA, and Pacific Blue Cross.
Kelowna, British Columbia
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Jenna Becker

REMOTE ACROSS BC

Jenna Becker

MSW, University of British Columbia
Years in practice: 6
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Hi all – I gratefully live and work on the traditional lands of the Squamish Peoples. My practice is entirely virtual at this point!

I enjoy working with youth and young adults who are struggling with anxiety, body image/disordered eating, depression, life transitions, suicidal ideation, family and peer conflict, and substance use disorders. I also work with caregivers to provide EFFT coaching to help better support your loved ones. I have extensive experience working with survivors of sexual and domestic violence. I strive to create a safe and inviting space for people to explore the different patterns in their lives.

I am registered with the First Nations Health Authority.

REMOTE ACROSS BC
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Alex Henderson

Vancouver, British Columbia

Alex Henderson

MACP, Yorkville University
Years in practice: 1
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I worked as a chef for 10 years before becoming a therapist, an experience that exposed me to all sorts of men’s issues. I have a background and training in addiction, anger, trauma and sense of self. My aim to to take a lot of the nonsense out of counselling; I want to work WITH people, to hold them accountable and to support them as they grow.

My therapeutic background is in values clarification, childhood trauma, anger, sexuality and personhood, fields that I aim to integrate into sessions in order to build better experiences.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Corey Chan

Vancouver and Burnaby, British Columbia

Corey Chan

MEd in Counselling Psychology, Simon Fraser University
Years in practice: 13
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am dedicated to helping you address your concerns and issues and focus on what’s important to you. We do this on your terms and at your pace. Through an effective, non-judgemental, therapeutic relationship, I help you examine the different areas of your life and help you make practical and meaningful changes. Depending on your concerns, goals, and needs, I utilize a variety of clinical approaches and techniques to assist you. Approaches such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), Solution Focused, Person Centred, Mindfulness and other modalities are customized to aid in your treatment.

Vancouver and Burnaby, British Columbia
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Ms Beverley Anderson

Vancouver, British Columbia

Ms Beverley Anderson

MSW, University of Toronto
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am a Registered Social Worker and therapist with 28 years of counselling experience in the mental health field who is committed to providing a safe, supportive space for individuals to process emotions, develop skills and discover solutions that will enable them to live most authentically.

I bring a genuine, encouraging, humourous and deeply caring approach to my work.

I aim to work collaboratively with my clients, respectfully offering support, encouragement, insights, constructive feedback and practical tools to empower them to take action in order to cultivate a life that is in congruence with their core values.

I am proud to offer a queer-positive, inclusive and culturally sensitive practice.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Sara Warren

Gibsons and Vancouver, British Columbia

Sara Warren

MA in Counselling Psychology, Yorkville University
Years in practice: 10
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My goal is to work collaboratively with you based on your specific goals and needs with an emphasis on building a strong therapeutic relationship and creating a safe environment. I provide psychotherapy services for issues related, but not limited to, various forms of trauma and abuse, interpersonal relationships, substance use, self-esteem, identity, eating disorders, self-harm, depression, anxiety, and chronic illness. My therapeutic approach is integrative to best meet your needs. I draw upon various approaches, such as EMDR, Narrative, DBT, Polyvagal, Hypnotherapy, Interpersonal Psychotherapy, Brainspotting, Somatic work and other trauma-focused interventions.

Gibsons and Vancouver, British Columbia
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Wes McVey

North Vancouver, British Columbia

Wes McVey

MA in the School of Child and Youth Care, University of Victoria
Years in practice: 3
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I specialize in working with men of all ages – particularly men with symptoms of ADHD, anxiety and depression – along with parents and couples.

I am a son, brother, husband, father, and counsellor. Before counselling, I worked mainly with young men as a probation officer over 12 years, and with adults at a residential drug and alcohol recovery program for five. I learned to listen first, and to build on clients’ existing strengths and motivation to help them change longstanding habits using evidence-based strategies. If you are ready to try a different approach and put in the hard work, then send me a message and we can talk about a plan.

North Vancouver, British Columbia
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Dr. Mickey Stein

Vancouver, British Columbia

Dr. Mickey Stein

PhD in Clinical Psychology, Palo Alto University
Years in practice: 9
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am a registered clinical psychologist in Vancouver, B.C. My mission in private practice is to provide individual and family psychotherapy and psychological assessments to treat adolescents and adults. It is my sincere hope that whether you are seeking help for yourself or your teenager, you would reach out to me.

Vancouver, British Columbia
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Michael McNally

Nanaimo, British Columbia

Michael McNally

MSW, University of Toronto
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

It takes courage, reflection, and a few calming breaths to reach out for support when difficult life circumstances present themselves. Taking the important first step starts the journey toward applying new ways of approaching personal and relational difficulties. We will walk together in a collaborative relationship, test new skills that we learn along the way, and explore the possibilities!

Nanaimo, British Columbia
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Island Clinical Counselling Duncan

Duncan, British Columbia

Island Clinical Counselling Duncan

Number of Therapists: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy, Individual Therapy, Group Therapy

At Island Clinical Counselling, we create a welcoming, non-judgmental space where you can feel seen, heard, and supported. Whether you’re facing overwhelming stress, navigating deep loss, or seeking personal growth, our compassionate team of experienced counsellors is here to walk alongside you. Together, we’ll explore your strengths, build resilience, and help you move forward with hope and clarity.

Our Duncan office is located inside Coastal Offices at 208-255 Ingram Street. Fully accessible for levels of mobility; elevator access. We also offer remote sessions to clients across BC.

Duncan, British Columbia
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Sho Sho O

Vancouver, British Columbia

Sho Sho O

MA in Counselling
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy
I am a registered counsellor from Hong Kong. I specialize in helping clients heal from traumatic or distressing experiences, primarily by utilizing Eye Movement Desensitisation Reprocessing and Lifespan Integration. My approach is also grounded in somatic psychology, Ego States theory, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. I practice in English, Cantonese and Mandarin.
My interest in becoming a counsellor came from my experience of witnessing a close family member suffering from schizophrenia, along with my own struggles with family and relationship traumas, anxiety and self-confidence. My goal is to come alongside my clients to create conditions for healing, resilience and growth.
Vancouver, British Columbia
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