PUTTING IT INTO ACTION
A guided lesson to help practice the ability to step back and disengage from our thoughts.
A guided lesson to help practice the ability to step back and disengage from our thoughts.
Try thinking of our thoughts like sounds
In this practice, we’ll first direct our attention to the sounds around us – like the breath, sounds can serve as a neutral focus to anchor our attention.
The goal is to notice the qualities of sounds: pitch, volume, texture (such as, scratching, droning, chirping, buzzing, humming and so on) as we directly “hear” and “experience” sounds rather than “thinking about” them.
We’ll next direct our attention to thoughts. Mindfulness of thoughts is different from being immersed in thinking. We’ll observe thoughts as mental events, or “sensations of the mind,” noticing the natural ebb and flow of thoughts, rather than analyzing or jumping on a train of thought. We may notice that thoughts arise and pass on their own time, like sounds.
As with our previous meditation practices – the breath and the body scan – this is a portable practice. At any point in the day, you could pause and notice the qualities of sounds, moment by moment. Or you could pause and notice thoughts as “just thoughts,” arising and passing on their own time.
By practicing mindfulness of sounds, we can learn to distinguish between our direct experience and our thoughts and reactions to that experience. For instance, you’ll likely notice what the mind adds onto sounds, such as:
It’s a natural tendency of our minds to interpret and try to make sense of everything we perceive around us. Our interpretations may or may not be accurate or helpful. We may find that they are overly quick, causing us to miss aspects of our experience. In this practice, we’ll work on stepping back from thoughts and reactions to our experience, and stepping into our senses.
With mindfulness of thoughts, you might also notice your interpretations and reactions, such as:
By observing our thoughts without judgement, we learn to recognize them as mental events, rather than truths, thus developing a more objective perspective. As we practice noticing thoughts without identifying with them, we strengthen our ability to disengage from negative thinking patterns and rumination, which tend to fuel depression.
Attending to thoughts like sounds helps to reinforce that we don’t always have control over what we think, nor do we have to engage with every thought we have.
Follow along with the steps below as we guide you through a simple five to ten-minute mindfulness of sounds and thoughts practice.
Feel free to practice at your own pace with the following script or skip to the guided audio practice below.
This practice is led by Dr. Thomas Stark, psychiatrist and Clinical Lecturer at the University of Calgary. He has a strong interest in mindfulness-based programs and employs it in his work with Canadian Armed Forces veterans and RCMP members.
The next page includes a Workbench Exercise that gives us the opportunity to reflect on this practice.
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