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Matthew Grundy

Oakland, California

Matthew Grundy

MA, Integral Counseling Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies (Qualifying)
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My approach is one that allows all of you to show up in the therapy room. Anxiety, depression, overthinking, difficulty connecting in relationships, shame… all these things can impact our ability to live our life to the fullest. So much of the cultural messaging around masculinity centers around avoiding vulnerability, and avoiding difficult emotions. By being present to what is actually here, we are much better equipped to choose how we want to show up in our lives. Talking with someone, especially as a man, can feel difficult, and I strive to provide an environment that feels comfortable, safe, and real. Reach out for a free consultation.

Oakland, California
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Jacob Sims

San Francisco, California

Jacob Sims

MA, Counseling Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies
Years in practice: 5
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Depression. Anxiety. Low self-esteem. Relational issues. These are common issues that people face when it comes to mental health challenges, which are enough to make life difficult. Chances are your relationships and most importantly your relationship with yourself have been greatly impacted by these factors. There’s this sense that something has to change, but you might not know where to begin. Together we embark on this journey of uncovering just how you got here and discovering where you want to go.

San Francisco, California
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Dr. Philip Lance

Los Angeles, California

Dr. Philip Lance

PhD in Clinical Psychology, Pacifica Graduate Institute
Years in practice: 15
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am a clinical psychologist with a specialty in psychoanalysis and LGBTQ affirmative psychotherapy. I can be helpful with dating, relationships, marriage issues, work, career changes, intimacy, and sexuality. I work with many academics, students, writers, filmmakers, and healthcare professionals.

Los Angeles, California
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Dr. Enrique Gracian

Los Angeles, California

Dr. Enrique Gracian

PhD in Clinical Psychology, University of Wisconsin - Milwaukee
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Dr. Enrique Gracian joined Therapy Lab in early 2020 while completing his Post-Doctoral Fellowship at UCLA Semel Institute. Enrique’s clients appreciate the compassion, intellect, and sense of humor that Dr. Gracian brings to therapy. With his additional expertise in neuroscience—the human brain, Dr. Gracian brings that special insight into his work with clients. He especially loves delivering the Affirmative CBT plan with LGBTQ+ individuals, the Racial Stress plan, and the Unified Protocol for anxiety, depression, or bipolar mood disorder. Dr. Gracian loves working with clients who have experienced trauma and provides evidence-based treatment. Dr. Gracian is bilingual (English/Spanish) and can provide services in both languages.

Los Angeles, California
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Robyn Shapiro

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA

Robyn Shapiro

MA, Touro University
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

The stress of day-to-day life can become overwhelming and lead us to feel anxious, depressed and disconnected from ourselves and our closest relationships. It can be exhausting trying to manage work, family, friendships; only to find that we’ve neglected ourselves and our own needs.

Let’s work together. You’ll be in a safe, non-judgmental space, getting the support you need and deserve. We’ll explore new ideas and identify actionable approaches to help you better manage stress, improve your mood, self-esteem, enhance your communication skills, and build self-confidence. You’ll discover a newfound sense of empowerment, purpose, and joy.

Ready to feel happier, experience greater intimacy and connection in your life? Please schedule a free consultation.

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA
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Dr. Jim Coil

San Diego, California

Dr. Jim Coil

EdD in Higher Education Leadership, Azusa Pacific University and MA in Counseling Psychology, National University
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

As an interactive, solution-focused therapist, my approach is to provide support and practical feedback to help clients effectively address personal life challenges. I integrate complementary methodologies and techniques to offer a highly personalized approach tailored to each client. With compassion and understanding, I wish to support each individual to help them build on their strengths and attain the personal growth they are committed to accomplishing. I specialize in in individual, couples and family therapy addressing mood disorders, trauma and conflict using cognitive behavioral techniques and emotionally focused therapies. Specialties include mood disorders, trauma, and addiction.

San Diego, California
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Bruce Hearn

San Francisco, California

Bruce Hearn

MA in Counseling, Wright Institute, Berkeley, CA
Years in practice: 16
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I work with men who struggle in relationships. You might have lost your self-confidence, or are feeling down, having encountered obstacles that seem too much to deal with. I’ll help you to draw on and develop your own strengths so that you can get moving again.

San Francisco, California
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Hunter Pritchett

San Marino, California

Hunter Pritchett

MA, Antioch University
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Therapy with me is a co-created process – grounded in down-to earth discussion, respect, humor, gentle challenging, deep understanding, and the belief that meaningful change comes from a combination of a strong therapeutic relationship, insight, awareness, and learning the tools and coping skills to create meaningful change and action.

As a father, I have a personal interest in supporting new and expecting dads, supporting them to navigate the emotional complexities of parenthood, like struggling with a new identity as a father, the overwhelming responsibilities to your child, partner, and career, and the feelings of confusion, irritability, stress, and depression.

San Marino, California
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Chris Rabanera

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA

Chris Rabanera

MA, Alliant International University
Years in practice: 17
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Chris Rabanera is an LMFT who provides online therapy in California, Michigan, Nebraska, and Nevada. He specializes in working with high performers such as physicians, dentists, healthcare providers, lawyers, business owners, executives, managers and the tech industry. He offers services for burnout, anxiety treatment, depression treatment, individuals with relationship problems, grief counseling and mental health treatment for men.

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA
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Dr. Derek Novacek

Los Angeles, California

Dr. Derek Novacek

PhD in Clinical Psychology, Emory University
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Dr. Derek Novacek (PSY #35671) offers expertise in evidence-based treatments for anxiety, depression, and interpersonal stressors. He practices a collaborative and strengths-based approach that integrates sociocultural factors as appropriate. Dr. Novacek sees patients at Therapy Lab but also works at the Los Angeles VA Clinic. In his free time, he enjoys playing tennis, trying new restaurants, and traveling.

Dr. Novacek is currently accepting new clients in person (Los Angeles, CA) and virtually (California and Michigan). To get started or learn more, send an email or book a free welcome call on the Therapy Lab website.

Los Angeles, California
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Sam Wasfi

Irvine, California

Sam Wasfi

MSC, California State University, Fullerton
Years in practice: 16
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My focus has been to help my clients get unstuck from unhelpful behavioral patterns that are typically born out of generational trauma, and teach them ways to attend to their emotional and spiritual needs so that they are less reactive to triggers around them and more intentional with the decisions they make. This applies to couples’ work, addiction counseling, and spiritual healing.

Irvine, California
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Daniel Dryden

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA

Daniel Dryden

MA Counseling Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies
Years in practice: 9
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Like water carving rocks, we are shaped by our surroundings and where we come from. I grew up in rural Alaska surrounded by a vast expanse of towering mountains and large glacial rivers. I worked for many years as a wilderness guide, experiential educator and wilderness therapist. Dramatic seasonal changes in light, temperature, and landscape taught me that stillness exists within the extremes. I work from a perspective that combines modern neuroscience, interpersonal neurobiology, internal family systems, eco therapy and eastern mysticism. Among other things I am a father, carpenter, adventurer and Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapist (KAP). Please feel free to reach out for a free 15 min consultation through my website.

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA
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Dr. Paul Fisher

San Diego, California

Dr. Paul Fisher

DMIn, San Francisco Theological Seminary
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I’m an experienced therapist, LMFT#23779, of more than thirty years. I have my own practice in San Diego, CA, and also counsel online, and teach graduate behavioral science courses virtually. I work primarily with adults, individually or as couples. I’ve led numerous support groups for men, as well as working individually with alcohol and porn addiction. I’ve also assisted men with life transitions, loss, divorce, parenting, co-parenting, self-care, anger management, and domestic violence. I assist in helping men understand themselves and to be responsible and accountable for their choices and behaviors. Men also need an awareness of what a woman needs in a healthy relationship, and I work in this area as well.

San Diego, California
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Raissa Alvero

Berkeley, California

Raissa Alvero

MA in Integral Counseling Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I provide integrative psychodynamic therapy to adult men of immigrant parents navigating life transitions, family of origin stress and relationship struggles. Many people I work with struggle with trust, loneliness and emotional intimacy or with anxiety, depression or unresolved trauma.

I believe therapy takes courage and humility to confront what is uncomfortable, allowing us to break free from patterns that keep us stuck and move toward greater freedom. As your therapist, I see myself as a guide, offering the right balance of support, perspective and challenge to foster meaningful change and growth.

Berkeley, California
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Matt Seastrom

Newport Beach, California

Matt Seastrom

MA in Clinical Psychology, Pepperdine University
Years in practice: 3
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My focus is on helping men navigate the unique challenges they face whether it’s in their teenage years or as they approach middle age. My services are designed to support men by providing them with a space to be open and honest about their thoughts and to deal with their men’s issues. Founded with a passion for mental wellness, I have been dedicated to making a positive impact in the lives of individuals. I am driven by the belief that everyone deserves the opportunity to thrive, and I am honored to work alongside you on this transformative path. I offer a range of resources and strategies to enhance your well-being.

Newport Beach, California
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