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Dr. John Hilsdon

Plymouth, Devon

Dr. John Hilsdon

Doctorate in Education, University of Plymouth. Advanced Diploma in Counselling, Iron Mill Institute
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Would you like someone to really listen to you – who will give you time and space to express how you are, or to explore what might be wrong, without making judgements about you? I’ve been working in this field for over twenty years and can offer a range of approaches for tackling issues such as depression, anxiety, addictions and relationship problems. You are welcome to text, email or call me for a free initial chat. See my website for more details about me, how I work and how to make contact.

Plymouth, Devon
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Jeff Dawson

Plymouth, Devon

Jeff Dawson

Diploma in Counselling Teenagers, Institute for the Arts in Therapy and Education
Years in practice: 5
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Are you feeling overwhelmed, isolated, or like you’re just going through the motions? Battling depression, anxiety, or the weight of past trauma? Many men struggle in silence, but you don’t have to. Reaching out takes real courage – and you’ve already shown that by being here.

I’m Jeff, a psychotherapeutic counsellor and coach who specialises in men’s mental health. As a male counsellor, I get it – I understand the pressure to “man up,” the difficulty of opening up, and how hard it can be to ask for support. I work with men of all ages: young adults navigating life transitions, dads struggling to connect with their teenagers, and men processing relationship challenges, work stress, or past trauma.

My trauma-informed approach combines emotional healing with practical strategies. We’ll explore what’s keeping you stuck while building real tools for managing emotions, improving communication, and showing up as the man you want to be. You deserve genuine understanding and lasting change.

Plymouth, Devon
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Dr. Nicholas Sarantakis

Milton Keynes, Buckinghamshire

Dr. Nicholas Sarantakis

DPsych in Counselling Psychology, Glasgow Caledonian University
Years in practice: 15
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am a Counselling Psychologist and author based in the UK (accredited by HCPC & BPS) with 15 years of therapeutic experience working with individuals, couples and families. My practice is based on an individually-tailored, integrative, relational approach with a broad variety of presentations, such as anxiety, depression, OCD, relational & identity difficulties and trauma.

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I have been a Senior Lecturer & Lecturer at 5 different UK Universities & I had a 5-year long professional training in psychodynamic group, family and couple’s therapy. I am the co-author of the book ‘Relational Ethics in Psychotherapy & Counselling Private Practice’ and I have published extensively in peer-reviewed academic journals in psychology & psychotherapy.

Milton Keynes, Buckinghamshire
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Mr. Richard Whitenstall

Southampton, Hampshire

Mr. Richard Whitenstall

DipHE in Counselling, Winchester University
Years in practice: 13
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am a Gestalt Counsellor (regsitered with BACP) and started seeing clients in 2013. This was through placements at Hampshire charities No Limits (young people) and Cruse (bereavement). From 2017 to 2019 I set up and ran a counselling service with London charity Positive21 (HIV). I am co-author of “Strength to Talk” which is dedicated to men’s mental health with all proceeds going to the charity Mind.

Anyone interested in counselling can have a free consultation session (30mins) to ask any questions and check that we could make progress.

After that I work online via “Psychology Today Sessions” (encrypted video service) each session lasts 50 minutes.

The model I use is Gestalt/Humanistic theory.

Southampton, Hampshire
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Mr. John Lincoln

Ashford, Kent

Mr. John Lincoln

MClinSci in Psychodynamic Psychotherapy, University of Kent
Years in practice: 20
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I work intensively with men who have difficulties in their relation to themselves and to others, particularly those whose early life experiences have had an impact on their development, feelings, and functioning. I work with men who have suffered complex trauma and abuse and can help with the consequences of those experiences. I can help those with addictions and/or destructive relationships and/or behaviour. I have significant experience of working with men in conflict with their gender or sexuality.

Ashford, Kent
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Andrew Kitching

London, England

Andrew Kitching

MA in Integrative Counselling & Psychotherapy, University of Roehampton
Years in practice: 11
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am an experienced psychotherapist currently working from consulting rooms in Belgravia & Chelsea, London, and work with adult clients from varying backgrounds. In my previous career as a senior executive in newspaper and media organisations in the US and UK, I worked with highly creative individuals and business people alike. This specialist knowledge of the creative and business worlds informs my psychotherapy work as well as familiarity with mid-life/career transitioning, divorce/separation, drink/drug dependency, boarding school syndrome and the attendant depression, stress and anxiety this can evoke.

London, England
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Dr. Stuart Sadler

Newcastle upon Tyne, England

Dr. Stuart Sadler

Doctorate in Clinical Psychology, Newcastle University
Years in practice: 19
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Clinical Psychologist specialising in therapy and counselling (including Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy and Acceptance & Commitment Therapy) for depression, anxiety and sleep disorders (insomnia, nightmares and early/repeated waking). Also able to help with Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), anger, trauma, intrusive thoughts, addiction, stress and a range of other problems. We also have therapists specialising in couples and relationship counselling, family therapy, child psychology, hypnotherapy and mindfulness based approaches. Contact us Today.

Newcastle upon Tyne, England
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Simon Cook

Basingstoke, Hampshire

Simon Cook

Level 4 Diploma, Counselling and Psychotherapy Central Awarding Body
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I will be real with you. No nonsense just a down to earth approach.

I will gently challenge to see what’s REALLY going on.

I don’t just ask ‘how does that feel?’ I help you explore issues with the purpose of achieving change and a better future.

Basingstoke, Hampshire
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Mrs. Neha Malik

Iver, Buckinghamshire

Mrs. Neha Malik

MA in Psychology, University of Sussex and Adv. Dip., CPPD Counselling School and Dip. in Trauma Therapy, The Grove Practice, and Cert. in Couples Counselling, The Grove Practice
Years in practice: 10
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My approach is Integrative, which means I draw from various approaches such as psychodynamic, humanistic, CBT, existential, and transpersonal. I am also trained in trauma-focused therapy approaches, such as CPT, TF-CBT, IRRT, NET, EFT and the IFS approach. I work with PTSD, C-PTSD, sexual abuse, emotional abuse, depression, anxiety, anger management, relationship issues, identity issues, and loss of meaning/purpose. I also provide training in meditation and mindfulness.

Iver, Buckinghamshire
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Mr. Neil Jordan

Didsbury and Huddersfield, England

Mr. Neil Jordan

BSc (hons) Psychology; Adv. Dip Psychodrama; Dip in Embodied Relational Therapy
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I’m a Registered psychotherapist with the UKCP and have run my private practice full time for over 20 years. I am a Relational Psychotherapist so I work alongside my clients to explore issues that affect how they feel in their current lives and relationships as well as exploring the origins of these issues which sometimes stem from traumatic events in our developmental years. My goal is to help clients clarify what they want from life, explore what is holding them back and move through to deep and lasting change. I work with a wide range of presenting issues. Over the last 10 years I have worked with professional sportsmen and women and supported them through a range of issues which they encounter in their high profile, pressurised, daily lives.

As a man I appreciate how difficult it can be to speak about how we feel and I also know the benefits of taking this risk having had my own counselling and psychotherapy for many years.

Didsbury and Huddersfield, England
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Ben Rath

Remote Across the U.K.

Ben Rath

Diplomas in Integrative Psychotherapy & Transactional Analysis Counselling, Elan Training & Development
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My training is in Transactional Analysis Counselling and Integrative Psychotherapy, and I have experience working with a wide range of individuals over the past five years. I aim to build a strong and supportive relationship with my clients, offering a safe space to explore whatever difficulties they may be experiencing, and utilising a flexible approach to be able to tailor the therapy to each individual’s needs. I believe strongly in the potentials of compassion, insight and self-awareness in helping people heal psychological wounds and make positive life changes.

Remote Across the U.K.
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Mr. James Hawes

Nottingham, England

Mr. James Hawes

PGDip in Pyschotherapy and Counselling, Nottingham Trent University
Years in practice: 22
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I specialise in working with boys and men helping them develop emotional fitness. I work with a variety of issues including anger, low mood, communication issues, relationship difficulties, shame, anxiety and increasing the ability to express a full range of emotions.

I have recently authored a new book called, ‘The Secret Lives of Men – Ten keys to unlock the mystery. See more here https://www.amazon.co.uk/Secret-Lives-Men-unlock-mystery/dp/1916279007

Nottingham, England
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Úna McNulty

Warwickshire, West Midlands

Úna McNulty

Bsc(Hons) & Diploma Integrative Psychotherapy, Middlesex University
Years in practice: 12
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am an experienced Integrative Psychotherapist, specializing in Psychodynamic Therapy, working with young people, adults and couples.

My relational approach forges a unique reciprocity in engaging with clients more acutely, enabling a better understanding of client needs.

My therapy is grounded in key findings from research and neuroscience to effect change.

Warwickshire, West Midlands
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Dr. Robert O’Flaherty

London, England

Dr. Robert O’Flaherty

DClinPsy, Warwick University
Years in practice: 9
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I can help with anxiety, depression, adjusting to a physical health condition, sexual problems, relationship issues, stress, sexuality, men’s issues and more. I am a Clinical Psychologist, registered with the Health & Care Professions Council (HCPC, Reg: PYL35174), who is Chartered by the British Psychological Society (Reg: 181156). I have worked in the NHS for over 13 years and currently I work at a leading NHS hospital in London part time, and work part time in private practice. I use an integrative approach, drawing from a number of different theories, including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Mindfulness, psychodynamic and psychosexual therapy. All sessions are online.

London, England
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Dr. Daniela Bloom

London, England

Dr. Daniela Bloom

DPsych, Regent's College London (accredited by University of Wales)
Years in practice: 14
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am a chartered Counselling Psychologist and EMDR therapist, registered with HCPC and accredited by the British Psychological Society. In my therapeutic practice I work predominantly with issues around relationships, intimacy, anxiety, depression, loneliness and isolation, self-esteem, body image and eating disorders, gender identity, and a more general unease around existence.

My therapeutic approach is existentially/phenomenologically based, meaning that in therapy, we will focus on your unique, personal experience and how you have come to find yourself where you are, and then examine the possibility that you are in a constant process of becoming, ever-changing, but always in relation.

London, England
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