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Alan Bordeville

London, Greater London

Alan Bordeville

MEd in Counselling Psychology, University of British Columbia
Years in practice: 10
Offers:  Remote Therapy

If you’re fed up with feeling like something in your life isn’t working…
And you’d like to feel like yourself again…
This might be the most important listing you’ll ever read.

Let me ask you a question: Are your days filled by constant stress, endless pressures and never ending to-do lists? Do you spend a lot of time worrying about what other people think and how to make them happy? Are you running yourself ragged while trying to keep your head above water? It’s exhausting… Isn’t it? How did your life turn out like this?

If that sounds like you, I’ve got some good news. I Can Help.

Hi, I’m Alan by the way…
I help people just like you every day, and I would love to help you too.

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London, Greater London
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Ben Rath

Remote Across the U.K.

Ben Rath

Diplomas in Integrative Psychotherapy & Transactional Analysis Counselling, Elan Training & Development
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My training is in Transactional Analysis Counselling and Integrative Psychotherapy, and I have experience working with a wide range of individuals over the past five years. I aim to build a strong and supportive relationship with my clients, offering a safe space to explore whatever difficulties they may be experiencing, and utilising a flexible approach to be able to tailor the therapy to each individual’s needs. I believe strongly in the potentials of compassion, insight and self-awareness in helping people heal psychological wounds and make positive life changes.

Remote Across the U.K.
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Mark Allerton

Merseyside, England

Mark Allerton

PgDip in Person-Centred Counselling and Psychotherapy, Liverpool John Moores University
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Men sometimes carry their problems around, being strong on the outside, like a suit of armour. They leave the talking to others, often women. Your friends might be doing the same, but if you’re the one to admit it, you fear losing your credibility as a real man. There may also be an inner voice telling you to man up and not show vulnerability, but this can be part of the problem.

I think counselling can help men become better friends, partners, fathers and lovers. Learning to talk about yourself without fear of judgement can help your state of mind and relationships. When I work with men, they often find it’s a relief to finally let it all out. They feel lighter and open up to change, rather than closing down or “manning up” just to fit in.

I offer both remote and in-person appointments and have experience working with English-speaking clients who live outside the UK in all parts of the world.

Merseyside, England
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Simon Cook

Basingstoke, Hampshire

Simon Cook

Level 4 Diploma, Counselling and Psychotherapy Central Awarding Body
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I will be real with you. No nonsense just a down to earth approach.

I will gently challenge to see what’s REALLY going on.

I don’t just ask ‘how does that feel?’ I help you explore issues with the purpose of achieving change and a better future.

Basingstoke, Hampshire
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Robert Hack

Wirral, Merseyside

Robert Hack

MA in Counselling & Psychotherapy, Liverpool John Moore's University
Years in practice: 6
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I offer a warm, safe and confidential space for you to share your story and explore what’s happening for you. Whether that’s something that’s happening now, or something that happened in the past, I’m here to listen and to help you make sense of your experiences.

I work with all types of difficulties, including depression, anxiety, bereavement, trauma, abuse, and relationship issues, but I have particular experience of working with young adults, people impacted by suicide, and people recovering from a difficult childhood.

I hold a master’s degree in counselling and psychotherapy and have previously researched men’s mental health. I offer in-person sessions here in Bebington and online via Doxy.

Wirral, Merseyside
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Dr. Stuart Sadler

Newcastle upon Tyne, England

Dr. Stuart Sadler

Doctorate in Clinical Psychology, Newcastle University
Years in practice: 19
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Clinical Psychologist specialising in therapy and counselling (including Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy and Acceptance & Commitment Therapy) for depression, anxiety and sleep disorders (insomnia, nightmares and early/repeated waking). Also able to help with Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), anger, trauma, intrusive thoughts, addiction, stress and a range of other problems. We also have therapists specialising in couples and relationship counselling, family therapy, child psychology, hypnotherapy and mindfulness based approaches. Contact us Today.

Newcastle upon Tyne, England
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Andrew Kitching

London, England

Andrew Kitching

MA in Integrative Counselling & Psychotherapy, University of Roehampton
Years in practice: 11
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am an experienced psychotherapist currently working from consulting rooms in Belgravia & Chelsea, London, and work with adult clients from varying backgrounds. In my previous career as a senior executive in newspaper and media organisations in the US and UK, I worked with highly creative individuals and business people alike. This specialist knowledge of the creative and business worlds informs my psychotherapy work as well as familiarity with mid-life/career transitioning, divorce/separation, drink/drug dependency, boarding school syndrome and the attendant depression, stress and anxiety this can evoke.

London, England
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Dr. Stephen Adams-Langley

London, England

Dr. Stephen Adams-Langley

MA in Psychotherapy & Counselling, Regents University, London, DPsych University of Middlesex, London
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I provide short-term solution-focused therapy and long-term psychotherapy. I have been working with a wide range of issues including panic attacks and anxiety, bereavement, stress, addictions, relationship difficulties, sexuality, depression and loss of meaning, for over 25 years. Drawing from cognitive behavioural therapy, humanistic/person centred, psychodynamic, brief solution-focused therapy and existential approaches, I adapt the theory to each individual client.  My aim is to clarify those aspects of your life that cause distress, confusion or anger and lead to feeling stuck, blocked, unfulfilled and desperate. Through exploration and clarification we can explore options and choices and come to terms with our issues.

London, England
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Onyx Support

Northampton, England

Onyx Support

Number of Therapists: 35
Offers:  Remote Therapy, Individual Therapy, Group Therapy

Why choose Onyx Support? The name of Onyx Support, developed from the protection stone ‘Black Onyx’, meaning to ‘absorb and transform negative energy and help to prevent the drain of personal energy. We understand how difficult it can be physically, emotionally and financially to seek counselling support. Nonetheless, taking this support will be a decision that is positive and life changing, benefiting you and those around you in many ways. We make the decision to seek counselling effortless and cost-effective, ensuring that we match you to a counsellor depending on your needs and preferences. This saves you time and reduces the risks when searching for a counsellor.

Northampton, England
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Chris Madden

West Yorkshire, England

Chris Madden

Leeds Beckett University
Years in practice: 18
Offers:  Remote Therapy

‘Something incredible happens when you open up to another human who you click with and who is trained to listen and support.’

The way I work is flexible. I meet you as an individual and will accept you exactly as you are, and try to see the world through your eyes. I will listen to you, really hear you and will be as genuine as I can, offering you time and space to find the answers you are looking for. I will not judge or critique you, tell you what to do, think or say, or who you should be. I will always meet you with unconditional positive regard, helping you to explore and navigate towards new insights and perspectives which can bring about a better way of relating to yourself, others or situations which you may find challenging.

West Yorkshire, England
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Mr. John Lincoln

Ashford, Kent

Mr. John Lincoln

MClinSci in Psychodynamic Psychotherapy, University of Kent
Years in practice: 20
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I work intensively with men who have difficulties in their relation to themselves and to others, particularly those whose early life experiences have had an impact on their development, feelings, and functioning. I work with men who have suffered complex trauma and abuse and can help with the consequences of those experiences. I can help those with addictions and/or destructive relationships and/or behaviour. I have significant experience of working with men in conflict with their gender or sexuality.

Ashford, Kent
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Richard Lovell

Beckenham, Kent

Richard Lovell

CSK-L4, Counselling & Psychotherapy Training Academy
Years in practice: 5
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Hello, my name is Richard, thank you for looking at my profile. I am a qualified integrative counsellor trained in schools such as Person Centered, Psychodynamic, CBT, Solution Focused Therapy and Transactional Analysis to create a blended and bespoke model for my clients.

I understand that each individual’s journey is unique and therapy should reflect this. I have had specific training to work with male mental health and the unique challenges that face in modern society, such as work or social stress, issues around depression, anger and anxiety, relationship and dating issues, breakups and parenting challenges. I aim to create a warm, non judgmental environment where we can identify what troubles you and how to move forward in life.

Beckenham, Kent
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Dr Kevin Scott

Portsmouth, Hampshire

Dr Kevin Scott

MS in Psychotherapy, Dublin City University and Doctorate in Forensic Psychology, University of Nottingham
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

As a chartered psychologist with extensive psychotherapy training, I know the right questions to ask, to listen to what makes you who you are, to appropriately challenge you and then to develop a way of working that will help you to achieve your therapy goals. I will use techniques adapted to you, to help you to better understand what is happening for you. We can then explore what has been blocking you from leading the life you want to lead, and aid you in developing the insight / coping skills to let you lead that life. Coming to this website you have made the first step. Make the second by booking a free initial consultation through my website.

Portsmouth, Hampshire
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Tom Buckland

Southampton, Hampshire

Tom Buckland

Diploma in Psychotherapy and Hypnotherapy, Winchester University Hampshire
Years in practice: 23
Offers:  Remote Therapy
I’m Tom, your fully qualified and experienced counsellor. I’ve been involved with counselling for over 20 years and have worked full-time since 2003.
I offer a space for you to tell your story, but then together, we look at ways to help you overcome the struggle you are experiencing. This can be strategies, different ways of doing things,with small and big steps towards change at your pace.
I’ve run my own clinics since 2003 and have many thousands of client hours behind me, first in Basingstoke, then running a busy clinic in Harley Street, London, before moving to the New Forest area.
With the right support, there can be a way out of the difficulties that stop you being able to thrive in life and reach your full potential.
Southampton, Hampshire
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Mrs. Lis Starkey-Smets

Coventry, West Midlands

Mrs. Lis Starkey-Smets

MSc in Integrative Psychotherapy, Birmingham City University
Years in practice: 13
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Hello, I’m an integrative psychotherapist and counsellor, working with individuals in Stratford upon Avon, Warwickshire, and online.
I have experience supporting people experiencing a wide range of emotional difficulties and adapt my approach to suit each individual and their circumstances/needs. I have a particular interest in working with parents, both during the postnatal period and beyond. Please do take a look at my website to learn a bit more about what it might be like to work with me, and feel free to get in touch via email or telephone if you have any questions.

Coventry, West Midlands
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