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Mr. Maximillian Mustafa-Holzapfel

Remote Across the U.K.

Mr. Maximillian Mustafa-Holzapfel

Dip HE University of Middlesex
Years in practice: 6
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I work online using a person centred approach where I support clients to find their own answers and help them understand how they are showing themselves to the world. The main areas I cover are: mixed ethnic/religious backgrounds; disability/chronic illness; sexuality; domestic abuse; gender (inc. trans+); poly relationships; parented/parenting relationships; growing up as a third culture child; and any intersection(s) of the above. I work with UK based people aged 18 and above. Please see my website if you would like more information about me and what I do.

Remote Across the U.K.
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Mark Sunderland

United Kingdom, United Kingdom

Mark Sunderland

Leeds Beckett
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

As your counsellor, I can help you by listening to whatever is troubling you the aim being to help you explore and understand the events or situation that have prompted you to seek help. I can help you explore any kind of problem, whether it is trying to make sense of a past life experience that is causing you some emotional pain, or a current problem that you are finding hard to cope with on your own, or perhaps a fear of something in the future which is holding you back. I strongly believe that having a safe space to talk, without judgment, can help you get clarity and empower you to move forward and make clear decisions about what you can do to improve your life.

United Kingdom, United Kingdom
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Ms. Máire Stedman

London, England

Ms. Máire Stedman

MSc in Family and Systemic Psychotherapy, University of London. Advanced Diploma in the Supervision of Family & Systemic Psychotherapy, University of London. Qualified Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist (ICEEFT) International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy.
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am a Systemic Psychotherapist working with individuals, couples and families. Many of my clients are males between the ages of 25-55 from all walks of life. I am near the City of London financial sector and many of my clients present with work related stress, anxiety and depression. I have also worked with OCD, bi-polar disorder; panic attacks; and eating disorders as well as PTSD and complex trauma and how this can manifest in people’s lives, particularly in relying on substances like alcohol & drugs. I have quite a lot of experience of dealing with suicidal ideation and know that life can quickly feel quite overwhelming.

London, England
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Justin Miller

REMOTE ACROSS ENGLAND

Justin Miller

MEd in Mental Health Counseling, Cambridge College, MA, USA
Years in practice: 19
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Welcome to CBT Gym. Using Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT), my specialty is helping gay, bi and straight men learn tools to overcome anxiety and thrive. Unlike some traditional talking therapies, CBT is a practical and tools based approach to therapy that begins to work fast and the effects last long after your sessions end. Get the tools. Start thriving! Remote therapy only.

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Ms Gemma Pearson

Market Harborough, Leicestershire

Ms Gemma Pearson

BSc in Psychology and MSc in Forensic Psychology, University of Leicester
Years in practice: 21
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am a qualified practitioner psychologist with expertise in working with adult males who present with a range of mental health needs. I have over ten year’s experience of working in community and inpatient settings. I have helped to support individuals with depression, suicidal/ self harm behaviour, anxiety, anger management and relationship issues. I have a specialist interest in trauma and the development of personality. I take an integrative approach to therapy, including the use of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT) and Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR).

Market Harborough, Leicestershire
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Samuel Tawn

REMOTE ACROSS NORFOLK

Samuel Tawn

PgDip in Counselling, Norwich Centre
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I work in a Person-Centred approach, which means offering and holding a space of understanding, acceptance and authenticity, that is ultimately led by you. It’s an approach that I feel attuned to due to its philosophy, its attempts to address power and how it can facilitate people in their process and journey of change, whatever that may be. I am interested in concepts of masculinity and the complex feelings of mixed heritage being born into a family with a background of different nationalities.

 

REMOTE ACROSS NORFOLK
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Iulian Chear

REMOTE ACROSS THE UK

Iulian Chear

Dprof in Existential Psychotherapy, Middlesex University
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My work delves into issues such as shame, pressure to conform and the inability to connect with yourself, your body, and your emotions. I usually work with men at the intersection between race, neurodiversity, social class and faith who may feel that they are different, unable to be themselves, or are dissatisfied with themselves or with their lives.

I am quite open and easy to talk to, and I think I do well with men who are nervous about coming to therapy, who find it hard to open up or who have unusual issues that cause them shame.

I am a UKCP-accredited psychotherapist with a first degree in psychology and a doctorate in existential psychotherapy.

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Mr. Richard Whitenstall

Southampton, Hampshire

Mr. Richard Whitenstall

DipHE in Counselling, Winchester University
Years in practice: 13
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am a Gestalt Counsellor (regsitered with BACP) and started seeing clients in 2013. This was through placements at Hampshire charities No Limits (young people) and Cruse (bereavement). From 2017 to 2019 I set up and ran a counselling service with London charity Positive21 (HIV). I am co-author of “Strength to Talk” which is dedicated to men’s mental health with all proceeds going to the charity Mind.

Anyone interested in counselling can have a free consultation session (30mins) to ask any questions and check that we could make progress.

After that I work online via “Psychology Today Sessions” (encrypted video service) each session lasts 50 minutes.

The model I use is Gestalt/Humanistic theory.

Southampton, Hampshire
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Mrs. Lis Starkey-Smets

Coventry, West Midlands

Mrs. Lis Starkey-Smets

MSc in Integrative Psychotherapy, Birmingham City University
Years in practice: 13
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Hello, I’m an integrative psychotherapist and counsellor, working with individuals in Stratford upon Avon, Warwickshire, and online.
I have experience supporting people experiencing a wide range of emotional difficulties and adapt my approach to suit each individual and their circumstances/needs. I have a particular interest in working with parents, both during the postnatal period and beyond. Please do take a look at my website to learn a bit more about what it might be like to work with me, and feel free to get in touch via email or telephone if you have any questions.

Coventry, West Midlands
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James Crawford

London, Greater London

James Crawford

Diploma in Counselling, The Gestalt Centre
Years in practice: 5
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am a registered and qualified mental health counselling professional who helps individuals gain psychological awareness to improve their overall health and wellbeing. I am motivated by a curiosity in people and their capacity to grow and develop. I believe that the relationship between the therapist and the client is a co-creation that can be a dynamic vehicle for growth.

London, Greater London
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Lauren Erdwin

London, Greater London

Lauren Erdwin

Level 4 Diploma. Currently studying top up degree at metanoia university.
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I offer a safe, non-judgemental space for you to share. We will work to explore situations at your pace to see how your emotions may be affecting you in the present day. This can be through set short-term or long-term work, my clients lead the sessions.

London, Greater London
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Dr. Matthew Ireland

London, Greater London

Dr. Matthew Ireland

PhD, University of Nottingham & MSc Existential Psychotherapy, Middlesex University
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Do you feel like you’re performing your life instead of living it? Maybe everything looks fine on the outside, but inside you feel anxious or uncertain – without knowing exactly what you want to change, or why. You’re not alone in feeling this way.

I help men explore the deeper questions behind their identity, relationships or life struggles – not just what’s happening, but what it means to them – so they can reconnect with themselves, make clearer choices and move from acting in life to authoring their future. My approach is warm and respectful, so you can be honest without fear of judgment. You’re welcome to book a free intro call – no pressure, just a chat.

London, Greater London
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Robert Hack

Wirral, Merseyside

Robert Hack

MA in Counselling & Psychotherapy, Liverpool John Moore's University
Years in practice: 6
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I offer a warm, safe and confidential space for you to share your story and explore what’s happening for you. Whether that’s something that’s happening now, or something that happened in the past, I’m here to listen and to help you make sense of your experiences.

I work with all types of difficulties, including depression, anxiety, bereavement, trauma, abuse, and relationship issues, but I have particular experience of working with young adults, people impacted by suicide, and people recovering from a difficult childhood.

I hold a master’s degree in counselling and psychotherapy and have previously researched men’s mental health. I offer in-person sessions here in Bebington and online via Doxy.

Wirral, Merseyside
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Mrs. Nawar Sourij

Birmingham, West Midlands

Mrs. Nawar Sourij

MSc in Integrative Psychotherapy, Birmingham City University
Years in practice: 11
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I’m a relational integrative psychotherapist. I integrate CBT, psychodynamic, TA, Gestalt, and neuroscience.

Birmingham, West Midlands
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Andrew Kitching

London, England

Andrew Kitching

MA in Integrative Counselling & Psychotherapy, University of Roehampton
Years in practice: 11
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am an experienced psychotherapist currently working from consulting rooms in Belgravia & Chelsea, London, and work with adult clients from varying backgrounds. In my previous career as a senior executive in newspaper and media organisations in the US and UK, I worked with highly creative individuals and business people alike. This specialist knowledge of the creative and business worlds informs my psychotherapy work as well as familiarity with mid-life/career transitioning, divorce/separation, drink/drug dependency, boarding school syndrome and the attendant depression, stress and anxiety this can evoke.

London, England
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