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Evan Moore

New York, New York

Evan Moore

MA in Counseling for Mental Health and Wellness, New York University, Steinhardt
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

As the world becomes more complicated day by day, maintaining presence and a sense of self is more important than ever. If you are looking to find renewed purpose in life and stronger connections with the loved ones in your life, schedule a phone consult with me.

New York, New York
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Diego Muñoz

New York, New York

Diego Muñoz

MA in Counseling for Mental Health & Wellness, New York University
Years in practice: 11
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Quite simply, psychotherapy is about conversations. The conversations we have with ourselves and with others. We often try so many different tactics to live happier more fulfilling lives, and we come to realize that it isn’t always enough. A therapeutic conversation is based on an open and genuine collaboration between client and therapist; a relationship built on trust, honesty, and understanding. As the foundation for good therapeutic work, it’s essential to feel comfortable and cared for. I hope to provide this conversation.

New York, New York
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Kyle Konarski

Scarsdale, New York

Kyle Konarski

MS in Clinical Mental Health Counseling, Long Island University
Years in practice: 9
Offers:  Remote Therapy

If you’re struggling with stress, I can help. Are you yearning for a safe space to explore your inner world? Seeking to overcome challenges and unlock your full potential? I’m Kyle Konarski, a therapist dedicated to guiding you on a journey of self-discovery and growth. I am a fully licensed mental health counselor with EMDR training.

My approach is warm, empathic, and non-judgmental. I believe in the inherent strengths within each individual and tailor my therapy to empower you to become your best self. I practice from a strengths-based, person-centered, and integrative perspective, using various evidence-based practices to find the perfect fit for your needs. My expertise lies in supporting individuals facing anxiety and depression, as well as the common stressors that many men face.

Imagine feeling heard and understood in a safe and supportive environment, developing healthy coping mechanisms and navigating life’s challenges with resilience, building strong relationships and fostering self-compassion, and embracing your authentic self and living a fulfilling life. I’m here to guide you every step of the way. I believe in the transformative power of therapy and am dedicated to helping you create a life you truly love.

Ready to take the first step? Contact me today for a free consultation and embark on your journey of self-discovery.

Scarsdale, New York
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Dr. Melanie Love

REMOTE ACROSS NEW YORK

Dr. Melanie Love

PhD, Columbia University
Years in practice: 12
Offers:  Remote Therapy
I’m a licensed psychologist specialized in working with men who are overwhelmed, stuck, and just doing their best to survive. I see how hard you’re trying. I can help you get relief, feel reconnected to your purpose, and show up fully for your loved ones. If you’ve opened up in the past and felt judged or misunderstood, or you’re nervous about starting therapy for the first time, I’ll make sure you feel comfortable.
In our sessions, you will feel truly understood and accepted by me, especially for the parts of yourself you’ve had to hide underground for so long. You’ll find that our work translates into greater self-esteem, improved ability to cope with any and all emotions, and better communication with the people who matter most to you.
I know you’re used to handling things alone or just muscling through. Let’s work together to try something new. When you reach out, I’ll respond within a day to schedule a free consultation. I am currently accepting clients for virtual therapy in New York & Florida.
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Real Talk Therapy

New York, New York

Real Talk Therapy

Number of Therapists: 5
Offers:  Remote Therapy, Individual Therapy, Group Therapy

Finding the right therapist can feel daunting because it is crucial to find a good comfortable fit. Knowing this, we aim to create a strong therapeutic relationship with an emphasis on trust and acceptance. Our therapists bring unique interests, experience, and advanced training to support you in figuring out what’s working and what’s next for your life.

These are unusual and uncertain times. World events can leave us feeling powerless. Now more than ever connection is critical. Let’s join together and embrace our shared human experience. We hope that amidst the pain, confusion, and despair, our counselors can help you feel more awake and alive.

New York, New York
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Gabriela Tilevitz

New York, New York

Gabriela Tilevitz

MSW, New York University. LMSW, National Association of Social Workers
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I specialize in working with individuals and couples looking to explore issues related to relationships, sex and sexuality. Often times shame, guilt, anxiety and sadness are the core emotions at the center of our distress. Together we can work towards facing some of these negative and uncomfortable feelings in order to lead you towards a path of healing and empowerment. In understanding yourself and your needs better I hope you can begin to feel more confident in making decisions, letting go of the things you may have been holding onto, or feeling more connected to yourself and others.

New York, New York
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Tara Gilliard

REMOTE ACROSS NEW YORK

Tara Gilliard

LMSW, Fordham University
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Tara brings a warm, empathetic, and collaborative presence into the therapy room, grounded in evidence-based practice and deep respect for each client’s lived experience.

Her work focuses on anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship challenges, and major life transitions, with an emphasis on resilience and self-discovery. She integrates clinical training with genuine human connection to help clients create lasting, meaningful change.

REMOTE ACROSS NEW YORK
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Robert Zorella

New York, New York

Robert Zorella

Masters in Social Work, New York University
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am drawn to helping people who have dealt with trauma and feel persistent isolation and sadness in their daily lives. By looking at things together a different way, we can navigate a different path. Let’s explore together, like astronauts! By gaining perspective, you can find more opportunities for strength and agency in your daily life.

My goal is to help you make own space to think about things you didn’t know were possible, a safe space for exploration and support you on this path. Making the first step can be intimidating, but we can also go to new places. Contact me to setup a free consultation call to figure out how we can move forward together.

New York, New York
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Mr. Steven Herbst

New York, New York

Mr. Steven Herbst

MSW, Fordham Graduate School of Social Service. LMSW, State Education Dept. and CASAC-2, NY State Office of Addiction Services and Supports.
Years in practice: 16
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Steve brings over 11 years of experience providing psychotherapy and bio/psycho-education in mental health clinics and substance abuse treatment centers. Steve has vast experience providing treatment to individuals of all ethnicities, sexual orientations, and socio-economic backgrounds. He has worked with individuals ranging in age from their late teens to geriatrics dealing with a wide array of mental health challenges including depression, anxiety, adjustment issues, agoraphobia, self-esteem, interpersonal relationships, and post-traumatic stress disorder.

New York, New York
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Misha Firstein-Rudder

New York, New York

Misha Firstein-Rudder

MSW, New York University
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Utilizing experiential and behavioral approaches, I provide people with a flexible and layered approach to therapy that explores internal conflict, processes painful memories, and creates actionable steps for the future. Utilizing primarily IFS, EMDR, and ACT, I work with you to explore and engage with life in a way that feels meaningful, purposeful, and valuable. If you are interested in learning more about me and my work, feel free to reach out so we can schedule a free fifteen-minute consultation call and see if we are a good fit.

New York, New York
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Dr. Kelly Wise

New York, New York

Dr. Kelly Wise

MSW, Smith College, MEd and PhD in Human Sexuality, Widener University
Years in practice: 21
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Sex, sexuality, and intimacy are concepts that we spend a lot of time pondering, but have few places or people in our lives where these topics are acceptable to bring up. The truth is everyone has sexual and intimacy concerns, but society doesn’t help us sort this stuff out. Messages about sex are everywhere in advertising, but real honest sex education is lacking. This leaves us to feel that we are isolated and alone. This can cause inner turmoil for people, and I want to create a safe environment where people can discuss their desires, fears, dreams, and beliefs about themselves. I believe that personal growth and self reflection come from support, guidance, and nurturance.

New York, New York
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Dr. Matthew Mandelbaum

New York, New York

Dr. Matthew Mandelbaum

PhD in Educational Psychology, Fordham University and MSEd in Childhood Special and General Education, Bank Street College and MA in Psychology, New York University. DBT Intensive Training, The Linehan Institute. Licensed Psychologist, NY State Education Dept.
Years in practice: 13
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Sometimes men need an empathic, strong male therapist to gain customized, practical tools to build a good life. I help highly-sensitive, highly-intelligent people, including professionals in business, healthcare, the arts, education, emerging adults, and university students. They might have achieved success in some domain and now feel stuck, as past treatment modalities may have been ineffective. Many of these kind, caring, and strong individuals have survived significant trauma; I work to help them regain and improve agency, autonomy, competence, and relatedness through dialectical behavior therapy, teaching and learning, and social entrepreneurship, so they can live full lives with resilience, joy, and peace.

New York, New York
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Marc Diener

Roslyn, New York

Marc Diener

PhD in Clinical Psychology, Adelphi University
Years in practice: 18
Offers:  Remote Therapy

You have a lot of choices in selecting a therapist and psychologist. What’s different about me and my practice? (1) You’re getting an expert: I have a PhD in Clinical Psychology, I completed advanced training in my postdoctoral fellowship, and I trained at prestigious institutions. (2) I am an internationally recognized scholar in psychotherapy research, personality assessment, and psychotherapy integration. (3) I have a number of specialty areas in my practice, including therapy for substance abuse, depression, anxiety, and relationship difficulties, as well as testing for Learning Disorders, ADHD, personality assessment, and comprehensive diagnostic evaluations.

Roslyn, New York
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Jesse Kahn

New York, New York

Jesse Kahn

MSW, Hunter College's Silberman School of Social Work
Years in practice: 15
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Starting therapy takes courage, which has the potential to transform your life. Therapy provides a unique opportunity to feel connected, heard, and understood by another human who shows up for you emotionally and empathically. All of you is welcome here. I’m a psychotherapist and sex therapist working with individuals, couples and multiple-partner relationships. I’m also the Founder and Director at The Gender & Sexuality Therapy Center, a psychotherapy group focusing on gender, sexuality, sex and relationships in NYC. I have specialized expertise working with: gender, masculinity, sexuality, non-monogamy, kink/BDSM, sexual functioning, sexual anxiety, relationship conflict, infidelity, desire differences and depression.

New York, New York
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Heartspace Therapy

New York, New York

Heartspace Therapy

Number of Therapists: 3
Offers:  Remote Therapy, Individual Therapy, Group Therapy

Heartspace Therapy was founded to increase access to anti-oppressive therapy for diverse clients. We see ourselves as fierce social justice advocates and draw from our own experienced oppression to connect with and fully see YOU. We specialize in working with with people from diverse sexual and gender experiences, including LGBTQ+, HIV+, non-binary and gender-creative folx, sex workers, poly/CNM, BDSM/kink, and minor-attracted people, among others. We cherish the relationship with our clients and love them unconditionally. Your story matters and we are thrilled to witness your growth. Join Us in Celebrating YOU! We can’t wait to enter this Heartspace with you.

New York, New York
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