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Monica Gavilanes

New York, New York

Monica Gavilanes

MSW, Stony Brook University. LMSW, NY State Education Dept.
Years in practice: 11
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I have a blended approach with my clients pulling from psychoanalytic, trauma-informed, cognitive behavioral, DBT, and somatic modalities. Additionally, I take a client-centered approach ensuring that I am conceptualizing the client holistically and learning what styles would benefit them best while holding the therapeutic relationship in high regard. I work with adult 18+ and teens and focus on issues of childhood trauma, anxiety, depression, ADHD/ADD, relationship issues, substance abuse, lack of motivation, and self-esteem.

New York, New York
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Tessie Beaubrun

New York, New York

Tessie Beaubrun

MSW, Fordham University
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I specialize in supporting men through life’s challenges, whether it’s dealing with stress, anxiety, or navigating relationship and career pressures. My approach combines Narrative Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). I work with you to explore and address emotional obstacles, build resilience, and create lasting positive change. My goal is to help you manage difficult emotions, improve relationships, and achieve greater personal fulfillment. Together, we’ll focus on practical strategies to enhance your well-being and help you take control of your mental health. I offer in-person sessions in Midtown and virtual therapy across New York, and accept Aetna insurance.

New York, New York
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Heartspace Therapy

New York, New York

Heartspace Therapy

Number of Therapists: 3
Offers:  Remote Therapy, Individual Therapy, Group Therapy

Heartspace Therapy was founded to increase access to anti-oppressive therapy for diverse clients. We see ourselves as fierce social justice advocates and draw from our own experienced oppression to connect with and fully see YOU. We specialize in working with with people from diverse sexual and gender experiences, including LGBTQ+, HIV+, non-binary and gender-creative folx, sex workers, poly/CNM, BDSM/kink, and minor-attracted people, among others. We cherish the relationship with our clients and love them unconditionally. Your story matters and we are thrilled to witness your growth. Join Us in Celebrating YOU! We can’t wait to enter this Heartspace with you.

New York, New York
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The Gender & Sexuality Therapy Center

New York, New York

The Gender & Sexuality Therapy Center

Number of Therapists: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy, Individual Therapy, Group Therapy

For anyone, beginning therapy can be filled with a range of feelings, from fear to excitement to uncertainty. As therapists, we hope to guide, support, empower and be with you during this process of growth, exploration, and self actualization. We want to work with you to realize a life you find fulfilling on your own terms.

The Gender & Sexuality Therapy Center is a New York City based group of psychotherapists providing a wide range of services, including psychotherapy, supervision, workshops, and consultation focusing on gender, sexuality, sex and relationships.

We believe that taking the first step and beginning therapy is nothing short of courageous, is self-caring, and deeply rewarding, and we’re so glad you’re here.

New York, New York
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Dennaé Harshaw

New York, New York

Dennaé Harshaw

MSW, Columbia University of New York
Years in practice: 5
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am a collaborative psychotherapist who enjoys integrating CBT, IFS, mindfulness treatments, trauma-informed practices, somatic treatments, and psychodynamic psychotherapy in my work to offer the best care possible for my clients. I believe sexual health, understanding, and connection are vital. I know the importance of mind/body integration. I am a practitioner who truly believes that everyone heals in different ways and everyone deserves access to that healing.

New York, New York
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Sam Steinbock

New York, New York

Sam Steinbock

MSW, Silberman School of Social Work at Hunter College
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I welcome adolescents and adults who are experiencing mental health issues such as anxiety, depression, mood instability, and trauma. I am particularly attuned to the difficulties men face in understanding, experiencing, and expressing our emotions. I approach my work with compassion and warmth, along with deep respect for each individual’s experience and identities. I primarily use relational and psychodynamic modalities. This means I place an emphasis on the therapeutic relationship, and collaborate with my clients to identify, explore, and change relationship and behavior patterns. I believe a therapist can be a “friendly mirror,” gently guiding us to see and accept all parts of ourselves.

New York, New York
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Dr. Melanie Love

REMOTE ACROSS NEW YORK

Dr. Melanie Love

PhD, Columbia University
Years in practice: 12
Offers:  Remote Therapy
I’m a licensed psychologist specialized in working with men who are overwhelmed, stuck, and just doing their best to survive. I see how hard you’re trying. I can help you get relief, feel reconnected to your purpose, and show up fully for your loved ones. If you’ve opened up in the past and felt judged or misunderstood, or you’re nervous about starting therapy for the first time, I’ll make sure you feel comfortable.
In our sessions, you will feel truly understood and accepted by me, especially for the parts of yourself you’ve had to hide underground for so long. You’ll find that our work translates into greater self-esteem, improved ability to cope with any and all emotions, and better communication with the people who matter most to you.
I know you’re used to handling things alone or just muscling through. Let’s work together to try something new. When you reach out, I’ll respond within a day to schedule a free consultation. I am currently accepting clients for virtual therapy in New York & Florida.
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Jesse Kahn

New York, New York

Jesse Kahn

MSW, Hunter College's Silberman School of Social Work
Years in practice: 15
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Starting therapy takes courage, which has the potential to transform your life. Therapy provides a unique opportunity to feel connected, heard, and understood by another human who shows up for you emotionally and empathically. All of you is welcome here. I’m a psychotherapist and sex therapist working with individuals, couples and multiple-partner relationships. I’m also the Founder and Director at The Gender & Sexuality Therapy Center, a psychotherapy group focusing on gender, sexuality, sex and relationships in NYC. I have specialized expertise working with: gender, masculinity, sexuality, non-monogamy, kink/BDSM, sexual functioning, sexual anxiety, relationship conflict, infidelity, desire differences and depression.

New York, New York
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Aaron Kogel Smucker

New York, New York

Aaron Kogel Smucker

MSW, Hunter College's Silberman School of Social Work
Years in practice: 11
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I specialize in trauma and working with people who are impacted by stress, depression, anxiety, addiction, isolation, control issues, relationship issues, abusive relationships, anger management issues, and internalized oppression. If your spirituality is important to you, I’m trained and experienced incorporating people’s spiritual experiences and beliefs.

I will tailor our sessions to who you are and what you need so that our time together encourages personal growth, healing, and positive changes that ripple out across your life. If you are interested in learning more or are ready to make an appointment, then I encourage you to reach out.

New York, New York
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Evelyn Solomon

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Evelyn Solomon

MSW, New York University
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

In my 20+ years of experience, I believe in holistic, healing therapy, where there is no “typical treatment” for a “typical person.” So instead, I integrate a strength-based approach, incorporating Trauma-Focused CBT, Mindfulness Training, and Somatic Experiencing, all while incorporating my multicultural, international lens.

I have an extensive trauma therapy background, including sexual trauma and assault and psychological first aid. My specialties include mentoring through life transitions, personal growth, self-esteem, men’s mental health, and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). Most importantly, I have dedicated my profession to cultivating a mindful, intentional life.

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Elias Moor

New York, New York

Elias Moor

MSW, Fordham University
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I approach therapy from the perspective that we have the capacity to find answers within ourselves and evolve as people. I work with individuals in a collaborative, strengths-based, emergent process. Together, let’s identify and challenge disruptive thoughts, behaviors, and feelings in a safe, confidential, supportive environment.

New York, New York
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Marc Diener

Roslyn, New York

Marc Diener

PhD in Clinical Psychology, Adelphi University
Years in practice: 18
Offers:  Remote Therapy

You have a lot of choices in selecting a therapist and psychologist. What’s different about me and my practice? (1) You’re getting an expert: I have a PhD in Clinical Psychology, I completed advanced training in my postdoctoral fellowship, and I trained at prestigious institutions. (2) I am an internationally recognized scholar in psychotherapy research, personality assessment, and psychotherapy integration. (3) I have a number of specialty areas in my practice, including therapy for substance abuse, depression, anxiety, and relationship difficulties, as well as testing for Learning Disorders, ADHD, personality assessment, and comprehensive diagnostic evaluations.

Roslyn, New York
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Daniel Frazer

Brooklyn, New York

Daniel Frazer

MSW, Fordham University
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I specialize in men’s mental health, focusing on the intersection of OCD, chronic pain/illness, and agoraphobia/panic disorder. My work centers on fostering resilience, exploring masculinity, and helping clients create more meaning in their lives. I strive to support men as they navigate life’s complexities while addressing the unique pressures and expectations they face. Through an authentic, educational, and collaborative approach, I help clients break unhelpful patterns, embrace support, and build fulfilling, authentic lives.

Brooklyn, New York
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Dr. Eliezer Mayer

New York, New York

Dr. Eliezer Mayer

PsyD, Yeshiva University
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Openly gay, kink-friendly clinical psychologist located in Brooklyn. Non-judgmental, warm, sincere, genuine with over 35 years of experience.

New York, New York
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Lauren Palumbo

REMOTE ACROSS NEW YORK

Lauren Palumbo

MA, The George Washington University
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

For men who are used to being in control, anxiety can feel like something to push past rather than address. But ignoring it doesn’t make it go away. It often builds up over time, impacting your focus, relationships, and overall well-being. I help high-achieving men break out of stress and overthinking, work with emotions in a way that feels productive, and regain a sense of confidence and control.

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