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Jesse Kahn

New York, New York

Jesse Kahn

MSW, Hunter College's Silberman School of Social Work
Years in practice: 14
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Starting therapy takes courage, which has the potential to transform your life. Therapy provides a unique opportunity to feel connected, heard, and understood by another human who shows up for you emotionally and empathically. All of you is welcome here. I’m a psychotherapist and sex therapist working with individuals, couples and multiple-partner relationships. I’m also the Founder and Director at The Gender & Sexuality Therapy Center, a psychotherapy group focusing on gender, sexuality, sex and relationships in NYC. I have specialized expertise working with: gender, masculinity, sexuality, non-monogamy, kink/BDSM, sexual functioning, sexual anxiety, relationship conflict, infidelity, desire differences and depression.

New York, New York
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Daniel Frazer

Brooklyn, New York

Daniel Frazer

MSW, Fordham University
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I specialize in men’s mental health, focusing on the intersection of OCD, chronic pain/illness, and agoraphobia/panic disorder. My work centers on fostering resilience, exploring masculinity, and helping clients create more meaning in their lives. I strive to support men as they navigate life’s complexities while addressing the unique pressures and expectations they face. Through an authentic, educational, and collaborative approach, I help clients break unhelpful patterns, embrace support, and build fulfilling, authentic lives.

Brooklyn, New York
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Kyle Konarski

Scarsdale, New York

Kyle Konarski

MS in Clinical Mental Health Counseling, Long Island University
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

If you’re struggling with stress, I can help. Are you yearning for a safe space to explore your inner world? Seeking to overcome challenges and unlock your full potential? I’m Kyle Konarski, a therapist dedicated to guiding you on a journey of self-discovery and growth. I am a fully licensed mental health counselor with EMDR training.

My approach is warm, empathic, and non-judgmental. I believe in the inherent strengths within each individual and tailor my therapy to empower you to become your best self. I practice from a strengths-based, person-centered, and integrative perspective, using various evidence-based practices to find the perfect fit for your needs. My expertise lies in supporting individuals facing anxiety and depression, as well as the common stressors that many men face.

Imagine feeling heard and understood in a safe and supportive environment, developing healthy coping mechanisms and navigating life’s challenges with resilience, building strong relationships and fostering self-compassion, and embracing your authentic self and living a fulfilling life. I’m here to guide you every step of the way. I believe in the transformative power of therapy and am dedicated to helping you create a life you truly love.

Ready to take the first step? Contact me today for a free consultation and embark on your journey of self-discovery.

Scarsdale, New York
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Mary Ellen Kundrat

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Mary Ellen Kundrat

MSW, Adelphi University
Years in practice: 16
Offers:  Remote Therapy

You are the expert of your own life, yet somehow you have lost the thread. My work with you will help you find your way back again. Our work together will likely include a variety of approaches that will be determined by your needs at the time. There may be strategies we will learn, concepts to explore and, sometimes, even homework. This is your time to heal, restore and rebuild yourself. I will be your guide. I am currently licensed in New York, South Carolina and Florida and I am completely online.

I offer free consultations so you can decide for yourself if you think we might be a good fit to work together.

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Nicole Barman

New York, New York

Nicole Barman

MA in Clinical Mental Health Counseling, New York University
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Seeking therapy is not an easy step, but you are taking the first step to make meaningful change. Life can be stressful, painful, and frustrating. I am here to help relieve some of that frustration by creating a supportive space for you to be your true self. My approach to therapy is to help you understand your thoughts and behavior through a new lens, unraveling the root of your difficulties. I am eclectic in my work and have adapted a very holistic approach. I am relational in my work as I see people as social beings, with a lot of issues stemming from interpersonal struggles. Through our work together you will gain insight, learn how to deal in a more adaptive way to your struggles and become more in touch with your thoughts and feelings

New York, New York
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Marc Diener

Roslyn, New York

Marc Diener

PhD in Clinical Psychology, Adelphi University
Years in practice: 17
Offers:  Remote Therapy

You have a lot of choices in selecting a therapist and psychologist. What’s different about me and my practice? (1) You’re getting an expert: I have a PhD in Clinical Psychology, I completed advanced training in my postdoctoral fellowship, and I trained at prestigious institutions. (2) I am an internationally recognized scholar in psychotherapy research, personality assessment, and psychotherapy integration. (3) I have a number of specialty areas in my practice, including therapy for substance abuse, depression, anxiety, and relationship difficulties, as well as testing for Learning Disorders, ADHD, personality assessment, and comprehensive diagnostic evaluations.

Roslyn, New York
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Ms. Jillian Kaufman

New York, New York

Ms. Jillian Kaufman

Doctorate of Social Welfare, New York University
Years in practice: 10
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Jillian Kaufman is a clinical social worker with over a decade of experience working with adults and adolescents through a holistic, humanistic, and somatic lens. Her areas of focus include anxiety, men’s mental health, helping professionals, PTSD, self-image, stress, trauma, and healing survivors of sexual violence. As a relatable clinical social worker, advocate, and human being, Jillian believes that clients heal most effectively when treated as a whole person and not as their diagnosis. Her work is driven by a socially-just, intersectional, and trauma-informed perspective.

New York, New York
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Dr. Simay Gokbayrak

New York, New York

Dr. Simay Gokbayrak

PhD in Clinical Psychology, University of Rhode Island
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I provide science-informed therapy for men. I am committed to helping you gain clarity about what is a valued life to you and manage the things that are getting in the way of that life you want to live and the person you want to be.

New York, New York
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William Main

New York, New York

William Main

MA, New York University
Years in practice: 1
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I work on helping young men reclaim their stories and navigate their emotions through the works of Creative arts therapy and talk therapy. I specialize in helping young men with anxiety, depressive, trauma, and anger management. I also have work with those recently influenced by the Manosphere and political trauma.

Creative arts therapy is a humanist tool where we listen to the client and work to find a groove and project that best suits the clients needs and meet them where they are at. We will work together to help find your own voice and break stigma to help find the man you want to be and find your path.

New York, New York
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Gabriela Tilevitz

New York, New York

Gabriela Tilevitz

MSW, New York University. LMSW, National Association of Social Workers
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I specialize in working with individuals and couples looking to explore issues related to relationships, sex and sexuality. Often times shame, guilt, anxiety and sadness are the core emotions at the center of our distress. Together we can work towards facing some of these negative and uncomfortable feelings in order to lead you towards a path of healing and empowerment. In understanding yourself and your needs better I hope you can begin to feel more confident in making decisions, letting go of the things you may have been holding onto, or feeling more connected to yourself and others.

New York, New York
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Adam Kaufman

New York, New York

Adam Kaufman

MSW, New York University. LCSW, New York State Office of the Professions
Years in practice: 17
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I HELP MILLENNIAL AND GEN X PROFESSIONALS CONSCIOUSLY GET WHAT THEY WANT (IN LIFE AND RELATIONSHIPS). Life is overwhelming. Between work, relationships, and technology calling for your attention at every moment, it’s extremely difficult to remain calm and grounded. We can lose our sense of purpose and passion.

Unlike other therapists who merely sit and listen, I take an active and engaged approach. You may find yourself in a guided meditation or a role-play exercise. There may be optional homework assignments. We’ll tune into exactly what you need. I’m here to support you to find your unique, confident voice.

New York, New York
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Simon Bresler

New York, New York

Simon Bresler

MSW in Clinical Practice Social Work w/ Specialization in Mental Health, Hunter College, CUNY. LCSW, NY State Education Dept. and CGP, American Group Psychotherapy Association.
Years in practice: 13
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My therapeutic style is interactive, warm, and emotionally present. I utilize cutting-edge therapies, such as AEDP (Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy) and IFS (Internal Family Systems therapy), so that my patients experience growth in real time.

New York, New York
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Christopher Lashomb

New York, New York

Christopher Lashomb

MSW, Hunter College's Silberman School of Social Work
Years in practice: 14
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My practice is deeply empathetic and intuitive, utilizes unique life experience and is rooted in the psychodynamic and attachment theory modalities. I also apply trauma-informed care, CBT, and other evidence-based practices, which allows clients to see real and actual positive changes in their lives. For me, process and progress go hand in hand.

New York, New York
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Scott Nacovsky Jr

New York, New York

Scott Nacovsky Jr

MSW, Long Island Post University
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Therapy can profoundly impact your life by helping you improve self-esteem, feel empowered, gain clarity, and create meaningful change. I’m here to support you with these goals. I can help address a variety of challenges including: stress, anxiety, depression, fears, self-esteem, academic challenges, addictions, and adjustment difficulties. You are not alone. If you’re on the fence about starting therapy, remember that taking this step demonstrates your strength, courage, and commitment to change. Embrace this opportunity and let’s work together to transform your life and build a brighter future.

New York, New York
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Mr. Steven Herbst

New York, New York

Mr. Steven Herbst

MSW, Fordham Graduate School of Social Service. LMSW, State Education Dept. and CASAC-2, NY State Office of Addiction Services and Supports.
Years in practice: 15
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Steve brings over 11 years of experience providing psychotherapy and bio/psycho-education in mental health clinics and substance abuse treatment centers. Steve has vast experience providing treatment to individuals of all ethnicities, sexual orientations, and socio-economic backgrounds. He has worked with individuals ranging in age from their late teens to geriatrics dealing with a wide array of mental health challenges including depression, anxiety, adjustment issues, agoraphobia, self-esteem, interpersonal relationships, and post-traumatic stress disorder.

New York, New York
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