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The Gender & Sexuality Therapy Center

New York, New York

The Gender & Sexuality Therapy Center

Number of Therapists: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy, Individual Therapy, Group Therapy

For anyone, beginning therapy can be filled with a range of feelings, from fear to excitement to uncertainty. As therapists, we hope to guide, support, empower and be with you during this process of growth, exploration, and self actualization. We want to work with you to realize a life you find fulfilling on your own terms.

The Gender & Sexuality Therapy Center is a New York City based group of psychotherapists providing a wide range of services, including psychotherapy, supervision, workshops, and consultation focusing on gender, sexuality, sex and relationships.

We believe that taking the first step and beginning therapy is nothing short of courageous, is self-caring, and deeply rewarding, and we’re so glad you’re here.

New York, New York
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Dr. Joanne Heith

Brooklyn, New York

Dr. Joanne Heith

PsyD, Heed University of Psychoanalysis
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Welcome. I’m an individual, couples and group therapist, offering sessions in person in downtown Brooklyn, NY. I offer 30 years of experience in the field. I’m also a professor of Exercise Science and Psychology.

I would like to encourage men to consider interpersonal group therapy. Men need and want what we all want, that is to feel connected. No tools to learn, handbooks to read, no feelings to ‘manage’ or ‘regulate’. Thoughts and feelings are not bad or good, they provide information about dynamics, current and past. Consultations regarding membership in this diverse, inclusive, in person, Downtown Brooklyn group, is free of charge.

Brooklyn, New York
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Werking

New York, New York

Werking

Number of Therapists: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy, Individual Therapy

At Werking, we believe men’s mental health deserves the same attention as physical health. Too often, men are told to “push through” or stay silent, but real strength comes from doing the work of healing. Our approach combines therapy and medication management to help men build resilience, balance, and confidence.

We know it takes effort to face challenges head-on, and we’re here to meet you where you are, walk beside you, and put in the work with you. Because when you show up for yourself, therapy truly starts Werking

New York, New York
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Mary Ellen Kundrat

REMOTE ACROSS NEW YORK

Mary Ellen Kundrat

MSW, Adelphi University
Years in practice: 17
Offers:  Remote Therapy

You are the expert of your own life, yet somehow you have lost the thread. My work with you will help you find your way back again. Our work together will likely include a variety of approaches that will be determined by your needs at the time. There may be strategies we will learn, concepts to explore and, sometimes, even homework. This is your time to heal, restore and rebuild yourself. I will be your guide. I am currently licensed in New York, South Carolina and Florida and I am completely online.

I offer free consultations so you can decide for yourself if you think we might be a good fit to work together.

REMOTE ACROSS NEW YORK
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Dr. Melanie Love

REMOTE ACROSS NEW YORK

Dr. Melanie Love

PhD, Columbia University
Years in practice: 12
Offers:  Remote Therapy
I’m a licensed psychologist specialized in working with men who are overwhelmed, stuck, and just doing their best to survive. I see how hard you’re trying. I can help you get relief, feel reconnected to your purpose, and show up fully for your loved ones. If you’ve opened up in the past and felt judged or misunderstood, or you’re nervous about starting therapy for the first time, I’ll make sure you feel comfortable.
In our sessions, you will feel truly understood and accepted by me, especially for the parts of yourself you’ve had to hide underground for so long. You’ll find that our work translates into greater self-esteem, improved ability to cope with any and all emotions, and better communication with the people who matter most to you.
I know you’re used to handling things alone or just muscling through. Let’s work together to try something new. When you reach out, I’ll respond within a day to schedule a free consultation. I am currently accepting clients for virtual therapy in New York & Florida.
REMOTE ACROSS NEW YORK
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Joey Bukai

New York, New York

Joey Bukai

MA in Mental Health Counseling, Ferkauf Graduate School of Psychology
Years in practice: 6
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Many of my clients feel uncomfortable or unsatisfied going through their daily lives, though they aren’t quite sure why. This generally manifests into anxiety or depression, feeling disconnected from themselves and others, and not being able to make change. I specialize in helping clients chart a course for enlightenment and self-improvement through conversations about past and current ways of navigating the world , along with building up psychological tools to handle life’s stressors.

New York, New York
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Tessie Beaubrun

New York, New York

Tessie Beaubrun

MSW, Fordham University
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I specialize in supporting men through life’s challenges, whether it’s dealing with stress, anxiety, or navigating relationship and career pressures. My approach combines Narrative Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). I work with you to explore and address emotional obstacles, build resilience, and create lasting positive change. My goal is to help you manage difficult emotions, improve relationships, and achieve greater personal fulfillment. Together, we’ll focus on practical strategies to enhance your well-being and help you take control of your mental health. I offer in-person sessions in Midtown and virtual therapy across New York, and accept Aetna insurance.

New York, New York
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Transformation Counseling Services

REMOTE ACROSS NEW YORK

Transformation Counseling Services

Number of Therapists: 10
Offers:  Remote Therapy, Individual Therapy, Group Therapy

Transformation Counseling Services, LLC is an online health practice whose mission is to provide affordable and accessible culturally responsive counseling to individuals from historically marginalized communities. Our therapists understand the critical need for decolonized counseling spaces and access to providers from diverse cultural backgrounds.

REMOTE ACROSS NEW YORK
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Mr. Steven Herbst

New York, New York

Mr. Steven Herbst

MSW, Fordham Graduate School of Social Service. LMSW, State Education Dept. and CASAC-2, NY State Office of Addiction Services and Supports.
Years in practice: 16
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Steve brings over 11 years of experience providing psychotherapy and bio/psycho-education in mental health clinics and substance abuse treatment centers. Steve has vast experience providing treatment to individuals of all ethnicities, sexual orientations, and socio-economic backgrounds. He has worked with individuals ranging in age from their late teens to geriatrics dealing with a wide array of mental health challenges including depression, anxiety, adjustment issues, agoraphobia, self-esteem, interpersonal relationships, and post-traumatic stress disorder.

New York, New York
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Monica Gavilanes

New York, New York

Monica Gavilanes

MSW, Stony Brook University. LMSW, NY State Education Dept.
Years in practice: 11
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I have a blended approach with my clients pulling from psychoanalytic, trauma-informed, cognitive behavioral, DBT, and somatic modalities. Additionally, I take a client-centered approach ensuring that I am conceptualizing the client holistically and learning what styles would benefit them best while holding the therapeutic relationship in high regard. I work with adult 18+ and teens and focus on issues of childhood trauma, anxiety, depression, ADHD/ADD, relationship issues, substance abuse, lack of motivation, and self-esteem.

New York, New York
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Kat Vollono

New York, New York

Kat Vollono

BA in Psychology, University of Connecticut and BA in Human Development and Family Studies, University of Connecticut and MSW, Hunter College
Years in practice: 14
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Are you feeling stuck? Ready to feel more peace? More joy? Ready to take the next step towards stronger relationships, self love, laughing more, and finding your sense of purpose? My intent as a therapist is to become a mirror, reflecting your deepest desires, life purpose, and the patterns that keep you from living your fullest life.
I utilize trauma- informed evidence-based practices that help the therapy move quickly such as EMDR and CBT helping you identify core beliefs and resolve inflexible patterns of thoughts- feelings- and behaviors. I look forward to connecting with you!

New York, New York
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Louis Luba

New York, New York

Louis Luba

MSW, University of Denver
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Grow through life with support and guidance. I’m Louis, a compassionate therapist dedicated to helping you navigate life’s challenges, build healthy relationships, and deepen your self-understanding. Using a trauma-informed, integrative approach, we’ll work together at your pace to foster clarity, confidence, and lasting change in a safe, welcoming space.

New York, New York
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Dr. Matthew Mandelbaum

New York, New York

Dr. Matthew Mandelbaum

PhD in Educational Psychology, Fordham University and MSEd in Childhood Special and General Education, Bank Street College and MA in Psychology, New York University. DBT Intensive Training, The Linehan Institute. Licensed Psychologist, NY State Education Dept.
Years in practice: 13
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Sometimes men need an empathic, strong male therapist to gain customized, practical tools to build a good life. I help highly-sensitive, highly-intelligent people, including professionals in business, healthcare, the arts, education, emerging adults, and university students. They might have achieved success in some domain and now feel stuck, as past treatment modalities may have been ineffective. Many of these kind, caring, and strong individuals have survived significant trauma; I work to help them regain and improve agency, autonomy, competence, and relatedness through dialectical behavior therapy, teaching and learning, and social entrepreneurship, so they can live full lives with resilience, joy, and peace.

New York, New York
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Dr. Peter Haugen

New York, New York

Dr. Peter Haugen

PhD, University of Tennessee Knoxville
Years in practice: 19
Offers:  Remote Therapy

In my experience, few individuals come to therapy feeling that “typical” treatment categories adequately capture their difficulties, hopes, and fears.
Instead, the individuals I work with sometimes describe feeling preoccupied by aspects of important relationships, blocked in their ability to express themselves authentically, or lacking self-confidence. Initially, some may even have trouble finding the right words to describe the changes they’d like to make. Finding these words—the right words—to describe what’s wrong and what relief would look like is a central part of treatment.

New York, New York
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Heartspace Therapy

New York, New York

Heartspace Therapy

Number of Therapists: 3
Offers:  Remote Therapy, Individual Therapy, Group Therapy

Heartspace Therapy was founded to increase access to anti-oppressive therapy for diverse clients. We see ourselves as fierce social justice advocates and draw from our own experienced oppression to connect with and fully see YOU. We specialize in working with with people from diverse sexual and gender experiences, including LGBTQ+, HIV+, non-binary and gender-creative folx, sex workers, poly/CNM, BDSM/kink, and minor-attracted people, among others. We cherish the relationship with our clients and love them unconditionally. Your story matters and we are thrilled to witness your growth. Join Us in Celebrating YOU! We can’t wait to enter this Heartspace with you.

New York, New York
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