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Marc Diener

Roslyn, New York

Marc Diener

PhD in Clinical Psychology, Adelphi University
Years in practice: 18
Offers:  Remote Therapy

You have a lot of choices in selecting a therapist and psychologist. What’s different about me and my practice? (1) You’re getting an expert: I have a PhD in Clinical Psychology, I completed advanced training in my postdoctoral fellowship, and I trained at prestigious institutions. (2) I am an internationally recognized scholar in psychotherapy research, personality assessment, and psychotherapy integration. (3) I have a number of specialty areas in my practice, including therapy for substance abuse, depression, anxiety, and relationship difficulties, as well as testing for Learning Disorders, ADHD, personality assessment, and comprehensive diagnostic evaluations.

Roslyn, New York
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Mary Ellen Kundrat

REMOTE ACROSS NEW YORK

Mary Ellen Kundrat

MSW, Adelphi University
Years in practice: 17
Offers:  Remote Therapy

You are the expert of your own life, yet somehow you have lost the thread. My work with you will help you find your way back again. Our work together will likely include a variety of approaches that will be determined by your needs at the time. There may be strategies we will learn, concepts to explore and, sometimes, even homework. This is your time to heal, restore and rebuild yourself. I will be your guide. I am currently licensed in New York, South Carolina and Florida and I am completely online.

I offer free consultations so you can decide for yourself if you think we might be a good fit to work together.

REMOTE ACROSS NEW YORK
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Mr. Steven Herbst

New York, New York

Mr. Steven Herbst

MSW, Fordham Graduate School of Social Service. LMSW, State Education Dept. and CASAC-2, NY State Office of Addiction Services and Supports.
Years in practice: 16
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Steve brings over 11 years of experience providing psychotherapy and bio/psycho-education in mental health clinics and substance abuse treatment centers. Steve has vast experience providing treatment to individuals of all ethnicities, sexual orientations, and socio-economic backgrounds. He has worked with individuals ranging in age from their late teens to geriatrics dealing with a wide array of mental health challenges including depression, anxiety, adjustment issues, agoraphobia, self-esteem, interpersonal relationships, and post-traumatic stress disorder.

New York, New York
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Dr. Daniel Kessler

REMOTE ACROSS NEW YORK

Dr. Daniel Kessler

PsyD, Florida Institute of Technology
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

A trusted advisor to leaders, founders, and professionals managing complex roles, Dr. Kessler has 30 years of experience and is sought by those navigating major inflection points – from mental/emotional overload and performance plateaus to relationship recalibration.

Dr. Kessler is focused, directive, and works to help clients clarify their goals, strengthen performance, and reclaim emotional energy. No psychobabble, just focused, outcome-driven work, customized to your needs.

He focuses on issues common to men, such as sleep, resolving communication and distancing issues in relationships, decreasing performance-based anxiety and stress, and smoothing life transitions and self-doubt.

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Dr. Joanne Heith

Brooklyn, New York

Dr. Joanne Heith

PsyD, Heed University of Psychoanalysis
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Welcome. I’m an individual, couples and group therapist, offering sessions in person in downtown Brooklyn, NY. I offer 30 years of experience in the field. I’m also a professor of Exercise Science and Psychology.

I would like to encourage men to consider interpersonal group therapy. Men need and want what we all want, that is to feel connected. No tools to learn, handbooks to read, no feelings to ‘manage’ or ‘regulate’. Thoughts and feelings are not bad or good, they provide information about dynamics, current and past. Consultations regarding membership in this diverse, inclusive, in person, Downtown Brooklyn group, is free of charge.

Brooklyn, New York
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Dr. Josh Stieber

New York, New York

Dr. Josh Stieber

PhD in Clinical Psychology, St. John's University
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I work with men who are ready to move beyond just managing symptoms and want to understand what’s really underneath: the stories, pressures, and unspoken rules that shape how you show up in your life. My approach blends depth psychology with practical tools, drawing from both clinical training and personal experience navigating rigid systems. Whether you’re dealing with depression, anxiety, trauma, or just feeling stuck, therapy can help you find a more authentic, whole, and grounded version of yourself.

New York, New York
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Matthew Willner

REMOTE ACROSS NEW YORK

Matthew Willner

MSW, Columbia University
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I’m a licensed therapist in New York specializing in men’s mental health, with advanced training in Internal Family Systems (IFS) — an approach that helps you understand the different parts of yourself that drive your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. I work with men navigating depression, anxiety, relationship challenges, and life transitions, using a collaborative, non-judgmental approach that meets you where you are.

Taking the first step can often be the hardest, so I offer no-cost consultation calls to discuss what therapy together can look like.

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Kyle Konarski

Scarsdale, New York

Kyle Konarski

MS in Clinical Mental Health Counseling, Long Island University
Years in practice: 9
Offers:  Remote Therapy

If you’re struggling with stress, I can help. Are you yearning for a safe space to explore your inner world? Seeking to overcome challenges and unlock your full potential? I’m Kyle Konarski, a therapist dedicated to guiding you on a journey of self-discovery and growth. I am a fully licensed mental health counselor with EMDR training.

My approach is warm, empathic, and non-judgmental. I believe in the inherent strengths within each individual and tailor my therapy to empower you to become your best self. I practice from a strengths-based, person-centered, and integrative perspective, using various evidence-based practices to find the perfect fit for your needs. My expertise lies in supporting individuals facing anxiety and depression, as well as the common stressors that many men face.

Imagine feeling heard and understood in a safe and supportive environment, developing healthy coping mechanisms and navigating life’s challenges with resilience, building strong relationships and fostering self-compassion, and embracing your authentic self and living a fulfilling life. I’m here to guide you every step of the way. I believe in the transformative power of therapy and am dedicated to helping you create a life you truly love.

Ready to take the first step? Contact me today for a free consultation and embark on your journey of self-discovery.

Scarsdale, New York
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Adam Kaufman

New York, New York

Adam Kaufman

MSW, New York University. LCSW, New York State Office of the Professions
Years in practice: 18
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I HELP MILLENNIAL AND GEN X PROFESSIONALS CONSCIOUSLY GET WHAT THEY WANT (IN LIFE AND RELATIONSHIPS). Life is overwhelming. Between work, relationships, and technology calling for your attention at every moment, it’s extremely difficult to remain calm and grounded. We can lose our sense of purpose and passion.

Unlike other therapists who merely sit and listen, I take an active and engaged approach. You may find yourself in a guided meditation or a role-play exercise. There may be optional homework assignments. We’ll tune into exactly what you need. I’m here to support you to find your unique, confident voice.

New York, New York
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Misha Firstein-Rudder

New York, New York

Misha Firstein-Rudder

MSW, New York University
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Utilizing experiential and behavioral approaches, I provide people with a flexible and layered approach to therapy that explores internal conflict, processes painful memories, and creates actionable steps for the future. Utilizing primarily IFS, EMDR, and ACT, I work with you to explore and engage with life in a way that feels meaningful, purposeful, and valuable. If you are interested in learning more about me and my work, feel free to reach out so we can schedule a free fifteen-minute consultation call and see if we are a good fit.

New York, New York
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Simon Bresler

New York, New York

Simon Bresler

MSW in Clinical Practice Social Work w/ Specialization in Mental Health, Hunter College, CUNY
Years in practice: 14
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My therapeutic style is interactive, warm, and emotionally present. I utilize cutting-edge therapies, such as AEDP (Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy) and IFS (Internal Family Systems therapy), so that my patients experience growth in real time.

New York, New York
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Dr. Peter Haugen

New York, New York

Dr. Peter Haugen

PhD, University of Tennessee Knoxville
Years in practice: 19
Offers:  Remote Therapy

In my experience, few individuals come to therapy feeling that “typical” treatment categories adequately capture their difficulties, hopes, and fears.
Instead, the individuals I work with sometimes describe feeling preoccupied by aspects of important relationships, blocked in their ability to express themselves authentically, or lacking self-confidence. Initially, some may even have trouble finding the right words to describe the changes they’d like to make. Finding these words—the right words—to describe what’s wrong and what relief would look like is a central part of treatment.

New York, New York
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Aaron Kogel Smucker

New York, New York

Aaron Kogel Smucker

MSW, Hunter College's Silberman School of Social Work
Years in practice: 11
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I specialize in trauma and working with people who are impacted by stress, depression, anxiety, addiction, isolation, control issues, relationship issues, abusive relationships, anger management issues, and internalized oppression. If your spirituality is important to you, I’m trained and experienced incorporating people’s spiritual experiences and beliefs.

I will tailor our sessions to who you are and what you need so that our time together encourages personal growth, healing, and positive changes that ripple out across your life. If you are interested in learning more or are ready to make an appointment, then I encourage you to reach out.

New York, New York
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Daniel Frazer

Brooklyn, New York

Daniel Frazer

MSW, Fordham University
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I specialize in men’s mental health, focusing on the intersection of OCD, chronic pain/illness, and agoraphobia/panic disorder. My work centers on fostering resilience, exploring masculinity, and helping clients create more meaning in their lives. I strive to support men as they navigate life’s complexities while addressing the unique pressures and expectations they face. Through an authentic, educational, and collaborative approach, I help clients break unhelpful patterns, embrace support, and build fulfilling, authentic lives.

Brooklyn, New York
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Dr Jeffrey Motter

New York, New York

Dr Jeffrey Motter

PhD, City University of New York
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I specialize in providing Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for adults who are experiencing depression, anxiety, phobias, and panic attacks. I use brief, evidence-based treatments to help you feel better quickly. My style is empathic, realistic, and optimistic. I view therapy as a collaborative process, mainly focused on the here-and-now, where we work together to enable you to overcome the barriers between you and your goals.

You are the expert in you – we’ll create a plan that is personalized to your specific values, identities, and experiences. We’ll practice new skills and strategies so that you feel confident using them on your own to get better results at work, home, and in your relationships.

New York, New York
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