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Mr. Steven Herbst

New York, New York

Mr. Steven Herbst

MSW, Fordham Graduate School of Social Service. LMSW, State Education Dept. and CASAC-2, NY State Office of Addiction Services and Supports.
Years in practice: 16
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Steve brings over 11 years of experience providing psychotherapy and bio/psycho-education in mental health clinics and substance abuse treatment centers. Steve has vast experience providing treatment to individuals of all ethnicities, sexual orientations, and socio-economic backgrounds. He has worked with individuals ranging in age from their late teens to geriatrics dealing with a wide array of mental health challenges including depression, anxiety, adjustment issues, agoraphobia, self-esteem, interpersonal relationships, and post-traumatic stress disorder.

New York, New York
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Tara Gilliard

REMOTE ACROSS NEW YORK

Tara Gilliard

LMSW, Fordham University
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Tara brings a warm, empathetic, and collaborative presence into the therapy room, grounded in evidence-based practice and deep respect for each client’s lived experience.

Her work focuses on anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship challenges, and major life transitions, with an emphasis on resilience and self-discovery. She integrates clinical training with genuine human connection to help clients create lasting, meaningful change.

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Evelyn Solomon

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Evelyn Solomon

MSW, New York University
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

In my 20+ years of experience, I believe in holistic, healing therapy, where there is no “typical treatment” for a “typical person.” So instead, I integrate a strength-based approach, incorporating Trauma-Focused CBT, Mindfulness Training, and Somatic Experiencing, all while incorporating my multicultural, international lens.

I have an extensive trauma therapy background, including sexual trauma and assault and psychological first aid. My specialties include mentoring through life transitions, personal growth, self-esteem, men’s mental health, and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). Most importantly, I have dedicated my profession to cultivating a mindful, intentional life.

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Diego Muñoz

New York, New York

Diego Muñoz

MA in Counseling for Mental Health & Wellness, New York University
Years in practice: 11
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Quite simply, psychotherapy is about conversations. The conversations we have with ourselves and with others. We often try so many different tactics to live happier more fulfilling lives, and we come to realize that it isn’t always enough. A therapeutic conversation is based on an open and genuine collaboration between client and therapist; a relationship built on trust, honesty, and understanding. As the foundation for good therapeutic work, it’s essential to feel comfortable and cared for. I hope to provide this conversation.

New York, New York
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Scott Nacovsky Jr

New York, New York

Scott Nacovsky Jr

MSW, Long Island Post University
Years in practice: 3
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Therapy can profoundly impact your life by helping you improve self-esteem, feel empowered, gain clarity, and create meaningful change. I’m here to support you with these goals. I can help address a variety of challenges including: stress, anxiety, depression, fears, self-esteem, academic challenges, addictions, and adjustment difficulties. You are not alone. If you’re on the fence about starting therapy, remember that taking this step demonstrates your strength, courage, and commitment to change. Embrace this opportunity and let’s work together to transform your life and build a brighter future.

New York, New York
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Dr. Melanie Love

REMOTE ACROSS NEW YORK

Dr. Melanie Love

PhD, Columbia University
Years in practice: 12
Offers:  Remote Therapy
I’m a licensed psychologist specialized in working with men who are overwhelmed, stuck, and just doing their best to survive. I see how hard you’re trying. I can help you get relief, feel reconnected to your purpose, and show up fully for your loved ones. If you’ve opened up in the past and felt judged or misunderstood, or you’re nervous about starting therapy for the first time, I’ll make sure you feel comfortable.
In our sessions, you will feel truly understood and accepted by me, especially for the parts of yourself you’ve had to hide underground for so long. You’ll find that our work translates into greater self-esteem, improved ability to cope with any and all emotions, and better communication with the people who matter most to you.
I know you’re used to handling things alone or just muscling through. Let’s work together to try something new. When you reach out, I’ll respond within a day to schedule a free consultation. I am currently accepting clients for virtual therapy in New York & Florida.
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Daniel Frazer

Brooklyn, New York

Daniel Frazer

MSW, Fordham University
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I specialize in men’s mental health, focusing on the intersection of OCD, chronic pain/illness, and agoraphobia/panic disorder. My work centers on fostering resilience, exploring masculinity, and helping clients create more meaning in their lives. I strive to support men as they navigate life’s complexities while addressing the unique pressures and expectations they face. Through an authentic, educational, and collaborative approach, I help clients break unhelpful patterns, embrace support, and build fulfilling, authentic lives.

Brooklyn, New York
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Dr. Eliezer Mayer

New York, New York

Dr. Eliezer Mayer

PsyD, Yeshiva University
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Openly gay, kink-friendly clinical psychologist located in Brooklyn. Non-judgmental, warm, sincere, genuine with over 35 years of experience.

New York, New York
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Jeremy Ortman

New York, New York

Jeremy Ortman

MA in Counseling Psychology, Teacher's College, Columbia University
Years in practice: 18
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My approach to counseling is informed by multiple schools of thought including Psychodynamic Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Attachment Theory, and Relational Psychotherapy. Integrating these philosophies enhances my ability to adapt to the unique needs of each individual, family, or group that I work with. My style is interactive, practical, and infused with sensitivity and a sense of humor.

New York, New York
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Jesse Kahn

New York, New York

Jesse Kahn

MSW, Hunter College's Silberman School of Social Work
Years in practice: 15
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Starting therapy takes courage, which has the potential to transform your life. Therapy provides a unique opportunity to feel connected, heard, and understood by another human who shows up for you emotionally and empathically. All of you is welcome here. I’m a psychotherapist and sex therapist working with individuals, couples and multiple-partner relationships. I’m also the Founder and Director at The Gender & Sexuality Therapy Center, a psychotherapy group focusing on gender, sexuality, sex and relationships in NYC. I have specialized expertise working with: gender, masculinity, sexuality, non-monogamy, kink/BDSM, sexual functioning, sexual anxiety, relationship conflict, infidelity, desire differences and depression.

New York, New York
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Dr. Josh Stieber

New York, New York

Dr. Josh Stieber

PhD in Clinical Psychology, St. John's University
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I work with men who are ready to move beyond just managing symptoms and want to understand what’s really underneath: the stories, pressures, and unspoken rules that shape how you show up in your life. My approach blends depth psychology with practical tools, drawing from both clinical training and personal experience navigating rigid systems. Whether you’re dealing with depression, anxiety, trauma, or just feeling stuck, therapy can help you find a more authentic, whole, and grounded version of yourself.

New York, New York
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Tessie Beaubrun

New York, New York

Tessie Beaubrun

MSW, Fordham University
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I specialize in supporting men through life’s challenges, whether it’s dealing with stress, anxiety, or navigating relationship and career pressures. My approach combines Narrative Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). I work with you to explore and address emotional obstacles, build resilience, and create lasting positive change. My goal is to help you manage difficult emotions, improve relationships, and achieve greater personal fulfillment. Together, we’ll focus on practical strategies to enhance your well-being and help you take control of your mental health. I offer in-person sessions in Midtown and virtual therapy across New York, and accept Aetna insurance.

New York, New York
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Dr. Daniel Kessler

REMOTE ACROSS NEW YORK

Dr. Daniel Kessler

PsyD, Florida Institute of Technology
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

A trusted advisor to leaders, founders, and professionals managing complex roles, Dr. Kessler has 30 years of experience and is sought by those navigating major inflection points – from mental/emotional overload and performance plateaus to relationship recalibration.

Dr. Kessler is focused, directive, and works to help clients clarify their goals, strengthen performance, and reclaim emotional energy. No psychobabble, just focused, outcome-driven work, customized to your needs.

He focuses on issues common to men, such as sleep, resolving communication and distancing issues in relationships, decreasing performance-based anxiety and stress, and smoothing life transitions and self-doubt.

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Matthew Frey

Long Island, New York

Matthew Frey

MSW, New York University
Years in practice: 19
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I use an eclectic approach to therapy, tailored to the goals and preferences of the client. My treatment style is integrative and strength-based and can incorporate tenets of CBT, motivational interviewing, crisis management, psychodynamic therapy, or trauma-informed counseling, depending on the client’s unique situation.

I enjoy nothing more than bringing out the best in others, seeing them grow, and helping them attain peace and happiness that has eluded them.

Long Island, New York
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Dr. Joanne Heith

Brooklyn, New York

Dr. Joanne Heith

PsyD, Heed University of Psychoanalysis
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Welcome. I’m an individual, couples and group therapist, offering sessions in person in downtown Brooklyn, NY. I offer 30 years of experience in the field. I’m also a professor of Exercise Science and Psychology.

I would like to encourage men to consider interpersonal group therapy. Men need and want what we all want, that is to feel connected. No tools to learn, handbooks to read, no feelings to ‘manage’ or ‘regulate’. Thoughts and feelings are not bad or good, they provide information about dynamics, current and past. Consultations regarding membership in this diverse, inclusive, in person, Downtown Brooklyn group, is free of charge.

Brooklyn, New York
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