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Andrew Kitching

London, England

Andrew Kitching

MA in Integrative Counselling & Psychotherapy, University of Roehampton
Years in practice: 11
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am an experienced psychotherapist currently working from consulting rooms in Belgravia & Chelsea, London, and work with adult clients from varying backgrounds. In my previous career as a senior executive in newspaper and media organisations in the US and UK, I worked with highly creative individuals and business people alike. This specialist knowledge of the creative and business worlds informs my psychotherapy work as well as familiarity with mid-life/career transitioning, divorce/separation, drink/drug dependency, boarding school syndrome and the attendant depression, stress and anxiety this can evoke.

London, England
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Dr. Heather Sequeira

London, England

Dr. Heather Sequeira

PhD in Psychology, University of London
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Consultant Psychologist | Specialist in Trauma, OCD & Affective Intelligence

Dr Heather Sequeira is a Chartered Consultant Psychologist with a distinctive focus on trauma, OCD, and the affective intelligence that often lies beneath psychological distress. With over two decades of clinical and academic experience, she integrates lived insight with evidence-based practice to challenge narrow diagnostic thinking and expand how we support complex mental health. She has a special interest in helping men.

Heather is the founder of PTSDTraumaWorkshops, a BPS-approved training platform for psychologists and CBT therapists, and an Honorary Research Fellow at the University of Birmingham. She also works clinically within the NHS and contributes widely to national media, including BBC Radio 4, The GuardianSky News, and the World Service.

A former Senior Research Fellow at the University of London, Heather’s work bridges neurobiological, relational, and experiential understandings of trauma and OCD. She advocates for treatment models that not only reduce symptoms but attend to the meaning, sensitivity, and deep emotional processing many individuals bring to therapy.

London, England
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Mr. James Hawes

Nottingham, England

Mr. James Hawes

PGDip in Pyschotherapy and Counselling, Nottingham Trent University
Years in practice: 22
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I specialise in working with boys and men helping them develop emotional fitness. I work with a variety of issues including anger, low mood, communication issues, relationship difficulties, shame, anxiety and increasing the ability to express a full range of emotions.

I have recently authored a new book called, ‘The Secret Lives of Men – Ten keys to unlock the mystery. See more here https://www.amazon.co.uk/Secret-Lives-Men-unlock-mystery/dp/1916279007

Nottingham, England
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Sarah James

Brighton, East Sussex

Sarah James

Diploma in Psychotherapeutic Counselling, Chichester Counselling
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Sometimes life can feel small. You might feel stuck in a way of thinking or living that no longer fits. Or something may have happened that’s changed how you see everything.

If this sounds familiar, I can help. I offer a safe, confidential space to talk things through and understand yourself better. I came to this work because I believe people don’t need to stay stuck in the situations they find themselves in.

I’m a fully qualified, BACP-registered therapist, trained in psychodynamic and trauma-informed therapy. I work with people 18+ on issues including trauma, sexual assault, addiction, bullying, boarding school, family relationships, domestic abuse and LGBT+ concerns.

Book a free 20-minute call to see if we’re a good fit.

Brighton, East Sussex
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Dr. Omar Kowlessar

Warrington, Cheshire

Dr. Omar Kowlessar

CPsychol, Manchester University
Years in practice: 14
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Dr. Omar A. Kowlessar leads OAK Psychological Services. He is a HCPC registered Chartered Consultant Clinical Psychologist with over 18 years experience specialising in adult mental health (ages 16+).

Dr. Kowlessar offers diagnostic assessments and a range of evidence-based psychological therapies to members of the public as well as clinical supervision and mentoring to psychologist and non-psychologist health professionals. He is qualified in multiple psychological therapies, CBT; ACT and EMDR.

Dr. Kowlessar is an expert in treating a wide spectrum of mental health conditions, from anxiety and depression to personality disorder and psychosis; he is BABCP accredited and a Chartered member of the British Psychological Society.

Warrington, Cheshire
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Simon Cook

Basingstoke, Hampshire

Simon Cook

Level 4 Diploma, Counselling and Psychotherapy Central Awarding Body
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I will be real with you. No nonsense just a down to earth approach.

I will gently challenge to see what’s REALLY going on.

I don’t just ask ‘how does that feel?’ I help you explore issues with the purpose of achieving change and a better future.

Basingstoke, Hampshire
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Lyn O’Callaghan

Luton, Bedfordshire

Lyn O’Callaghan

PGDip in Psychology of Mental Health & Well-Being, University of Wolverhampton
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

As an Integrative Counsellor, I tailor therapy to each client, as well as talking therapy, I draw from a diverse toolbox of techniques, such as CBT, EMDR and hypnosis. Having completed training specific to trauma and trauma-informed approaches, I am confident in my skills to scaffold clients while they learn ways to overcome obstacles, develop coping skills, and enhance their overall well-being. Through collaboration with my clients, they can explore concerns, build resilience and cultivate positive lasting change.

Luton, Bedfordshire
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Ben Selby

Plymouth, Devon

Ben Selby

BSc (Hons) in Psychology, University of Plymouth
Years in practice: 24
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Hello, I am an integrative therapist, working with a variety of men’s issues; anything from anger management through depression and anxiety, to self-esteem and childhood issues. It can be hard for us chaps to reach out sometimes, and understanding that, I work with patience and compassion to draw the issues from you at your own working pace.

Therapy can be an exciting and rewarding process. It can also be hard, and challenging. I am here to help you to become the best version of yourself.

Plymouth, Devon
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Ms Gemma Pearson

Market Harborough, Leicestershire

Ms Gemma Pearson

BSc in Psychology and MSc in Forensic Psychology, University of Leicester
Years in practice: 21
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am a qualified practitioner psychologist with expertise in working with adult males who present with a range of mental health needs. I have over ten year’s experience of working in community and inpatient settings. I have helped to support individuals with depression, suicidal/ self harm behaviour, anxiety, anger management and relationship issues. I have a specialist interest in trauma and the development of personality. I take an integrative approach to therapy, including the use of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT) and Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR).

Market Harborough, Leicestershire
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Alice Jackson

London, Greater London

Alice Jackson

MA in Psychodynamic Psychotherapy and Counselling, Goldsmiths University
Years in practice: 5
Offers:  Remote Therapy

In my approach, I place importance on exploring the root cause of the problem and provide an affirming therapeutic space to facilitate change. A therapeutic relationship that is accepting and non-judgmental makes space for growth and healing. Psychotherapy and counselling invites an exploration of challenging past experiences and focuses on processing the feelings we hold as a result of these experiences. At the heart of our work together we will seek to understand our emotions and work alongside them. As we work through the foundations of patterns, behaviours, and feelings in a safe and supported environment, we gain greater insight into ourselves, this is where we can make significant change.

London, Greater London
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Mr. Shane Sneyd

Dudley, West Midlands

Mr. Shane Sneyd

MA, Birmingham University
Years in practice: 23
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I offer counselling and psychotherapy to individuals (young people/adults) who may have identified specific personal difficulties and/or want to understand more about themselves in order to allow choice, change, and movement in life.

I work with a number of issues, ranging from anxiety, depression, OCD, relationship problems, and personality disorders. My aim is to work with the person rather than the diagnosis.

Dudley, West Midlands
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Mrs Cheryl Backham

Stoke-on-Trent, England

Mrs Cheryl Backham

MSc in Psychotherapy Counselling, Staffordshire University
Years in practice: 11
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Hi I’m Cheryl, and a BACP registered counsellor based in Smallthorne. I have 6 years’ experience working with people who have experienced trauma. I charge £30 per hour, with special rates for some groups. My hours are flexible including evenings.

Stoke-on-Trent, England
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Jimi Katsis

Bristol, England

Jimi Katsis

BA in Counselling Psychology, East London University
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Specialise in Adult survivors of childhood trauma and also a particular specialism supporting men who are experiencing distress due to a break-up when children are involved.

Bristol, England
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Dr. Matthew Ireland

London, Greater London

Dr. Matthew Ireland

PhD, University of Nottingham & MSc Existential Psychotherapy, Middlesex University
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Do you feel like you’re performing your life instead of living it? Maybe everything looks fine on the outside, but inside you feel anxious or uncertain – without knowing exactly what you want to change, or why. You’re not alone in feeling this way.

I help men explore the deeper questions behind their identity, relationships or life struggles – not just what’s happening, but what it means to them – so they can reconnect with themselves, make clearer choices and move from acting in life to authoring their future. My approach is warm and respectful, so you can be honest without fear of judgment. You’re welcome to book a free intro call – no pressure, just a chat.

London, Greater London
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Mrs. Nawar Sourij

Birmingham, West Midlands

Mrs. Nawar Sourij

MSc in Integrative Psychotherapy, Birmingham City University
Years in practice: 11
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I’m a relational integrative psychotherapist. I integrate CBT, psychodynamic, TA, Gestalt, and neuroscience.

Birmingham, West Midlands
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