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Jeff Dawson

Plymouth, Devon

Jeff Dawson

Diploma in Counselling Teenagers, Institute for the Arts in Therapy and Education
Years in practice: 5
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Are you feeling overwhelmed, isolated, or like you’re just going through the motions? Battling depression, anxiety, or the weight of past trauma? Many men struggle in silence, but you don’t have to. Reaching out takes real courage – and you’ve already shown that by being here.

I’m Jeff, a psychotherapeutic counsellor and coach who specialises in men’s mental health. As a male counsellor, I get it – I understand the pressure to “man up,” the difficulty of opening up, and how hard it can be to ask for support. I work with men of all ages: young adults navigating life transitions, dads struggling to connect with their teenagers, and men processing relationship challenges, work stress, or past trauma.

My trauma-informed approach combines emotional healing with practical strategies. We’ll explore what’s keeping you stuck while building real tools for managing emotions, improving communication, and showing up as the man you want to be. You deserve genuine understanding and lasting change.

Plymouth, Devon
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Alan Bordeville

London, Greater London

Alan Bordeville

MEd in Counselling Psychology, University of British Columbia
Years in practice: 10
Offers:  Remote Therapy

If you’re fed up with feeling like something in your life isn’t working…
And you’d like to feel like yourself again…
This might be the most important listing you’ll ever read.

Let me ask you a question: Are your days filled by constant stress, endless pressures and never ending to-do lists? Do you spend a lot of time worrying about what other people think and how to make them happy? Are you running yourself ragged while trying to keep your head above water? It’s exhausting… Isn’t it? How did your life turn out like this?

If that sounds like you, I’ve got some good news. I Can Help.

Hi, I’m Alan by the way…
I help people just like you every day, and I would love to help you too.

Click ‘Contact Me’ now.

London, Greater London
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Mrs. Nawar Sourij

Birmingham, West Midlands

Mrs. Nawar Sourij

MSc in Integrative Psychotherapy, Birmingham City University
Years in practice: 11
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I’m a relational integrative psychotherapist. I integrate CBT, psychodynamic, TA, Gestalt, and neuroscience.

Birmingham, West Midlands
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Mr. Christopher Vincent

Surrey, England

Mr. Christopher Vincent

PG Diploma in Systemic Therapy, University of Northumbria in Newcastle, UK
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I offer a conversational style of therapy, both listening to the story brought to the session, and offering information connected to research and my experience to help you make connections to the issues that concern and affect you. My goal is to help you achieve your goals through gaining clarity about your situation, learning more about yourself and experiencing more fulfilment and happiness in your relationships, personal or otherwise.

Surrey, England
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John Ridley

London, Greater London

John Ridley

Level 4 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling, CPCAB
Years in practice: 3
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Counselling, psychotherapy and coaching in Soho, London and online.

Therapy for stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and sexuality issues, substance use, health conditions and HIV.

Many of us experience low mood, stress or anxiety in our lives and the talking therapy that I offer provides a safe space to really help. Sometimes clients just can’t put a finger on what is troubling them or causing them to feel blocked – early stages of our work together would sensitively explore this and help to establish goals so that you can, over time, appreciate your progress.

I have specific Cognitive Behavioural Therapy training to help you if you are experiencing sleep problems, panic, phobias, and some forms of trauma and OCD.

London, Greater London
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Lauren Erdwin

London, Greater London

Lauren Erdwin

Level 4 Diploma. Currently studying top up degree at metanoia university.
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I offer a safe, non-judgemental space for you to share. We will work to explore situations at your pace to see how your emotions may be affecting you in the present day. This can be through set short-term or long-term work, my clients lead the sessions.

London, Greater London
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Kristen Brown

Stockton-on-Tees, Durham

Kristen Brown

Diploma of Psychotherapy, The Northern Guild Centre For Psychotherapy
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Hi, I’m Kristen; an integrative psychotherapist based in Stockton-on-Tees. My practice offers a welcoming and wheelchair-accessible space. My areas of expertise include neurodiversity, attachment issues, trauma, sexual abuse, domestic violence, and the impact of disability/chronic illness.

Stockton-on-Tees, Durham
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Kirsty Murray

Nottingham, England

Kirsty Murray

MSc in Integrative Psychotherapy, Sherwood Psychotherapy Training Institute
Years in practice: 12
Offers:  Remote Therapy

We all struggle at times and you don’t have to do it alone. I aim to provide a welcoming, non-judgemental, confidential space to explore whatever is impacting you. I am an integrative psychotherapist which means I am able to be flexible in my approach and tailor it to the person I am working with and the issues that they are currently facing. I offer face to face or remote sessions in Nottingham City Centre.

Nottingham, England
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Tom Buckland

Southampton, Hampshire

Tom Buckland

Diploma in Psychotherapy and Hypnotherapy, Winchester University Hampshire
Years in practice: 23
Offers:  Remote Therapy
I’m Tom, your fully qualified and experienced counsellor. I’ve been involved with counselling for over 20 years and have worked full-time since 2003.
I offer a space for you to tell your story, but then together, we look at ways to help you overcome the struggle you are experiencing. This can be strategies, different ways of doing things,with small and big steps towards change at your pace.
I’ve run my own clinics since 2003 and have many thousands of client hours behind me, first in Basingstoke, then running a busy clinic in Harley Street, London, before moving to the New Forest area.
With the right support, there can be a way out of the difficulties that stop you being able to thrive in life and reach your full potential.
Southampton, Hampshire
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Mrs. Anna Gilmore

Chesham, Buckinghamshire

Mrs. Anna Gilmore

Level 4 Dip in Therapeutic Counselling & Psychotherapy
Years in practice: 12
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I work in a person centred way, respectfully acknowledging the pace and experience of each client and working in a way that suits their personal requirements.

I value each client for their individuality and welcome the opportunity to support anyone that is experiencing difficulties so that they no longer feel alone.

Chesham, Buckinghamshire
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Roger Harrison

Sale, Manchester

Roger Harrison

Postgraduate Diploma, University of East London
Years in practice: 16
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am a male counsellor and psychotherapist, working online and in-person for people living in Manchester (UK) and surrounding areas. I focus on helping people overcome drug addiction and alcohol addiction or related problems, compulsive sexual behaviours and use of pornography. Other issues I help men with include depression and anxiety, abuse and trauma, and sexuality.

Sale, Manchester
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Mr. Maximillian Mustafa-Holzapfel

Remote Across the U.K.

Mr. Maximillian Mustafa-Holzapfel

Dip HE University of Middlesex
Years in practice: 6
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I work online using a person centred approach where I support clients to find their own answers and help them understand how they are showing themselves to the world. The main areas I cover are: mixed ethnic/religious backgrounds; disability/chronic illness; sexuality; domestic abuse; gender (inc. trans+); poly relationships; parented/parenting relationships; growing up as a third culture child; and any intersection(s) of the above. I work with UK based people aged 18 and above. Please see my website if you would like more information about me and what I do.

Remote Across the U.K.
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Mrs. Neha Malik

Iver, Buckinghamshire

Mrs. Neha Malik

MA in Psychology, University of Sussex and Adv. Dip., CPPD Counselling School and Dip. in Trauma Therapy, The Grove Practice, and Cert. in Couples Counselling, The Grove Practice
Years in practice: 10
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My approach is Integrative, which means I draw from various approaches such as psychodynamic, humanistic, CBT, existential, and transpersonal. I am also trained in trauma-focused therapy approaches, such as CPT, TF-CBT, IRRT, NET, EFT and the IFS approach. I work with PTSD, C-PTSD, sexual abuse, emotional abuse, depression, anxiety, anger management, relationship issues, identity issues, and loss of meaning/purpose. I also provide training in meditation and mindfulness.

Iver, Buckinghamshire
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Ben Selby

Plymouth, Devon

Ben Selby

BSc (Hons) in Psychology, University of Plymouth
Years in practice: 24
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Hello, I am an integrative therapist, working with a variety of men’s issues; anything from anger management through depression and anxiety, to self-esteem and childhood issues. It can be hard for us chaps to reach out sometimes, and understanding that, I work with patience and compassion to draw the issues from you at your own working pace.

Therapy can be an exciting and rewarding process. It can also be hard, and challenging. I am here to help you to become the best version of yourself.

Plymouth, Devon
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Mr. Shane Sneyd

Dudley, West Midlands

Mr. Shane Sneyd

MA, Birmingham University
Years in practice: 23
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I offer counselling and psychotherapy to individuals (young people/adults) who may have identified specific personal difficulties and/or want to understand more about themselves in order to allow choice, change, and movement in life.

I work with a number of issues, ranging from anxiety, depression, OCD, relationship problems, and personality disorders. My aim is to work with the person rather than the diagnosis.

Dudley, West Midlands
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