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Dr. Stephen Adams-Langley

London, England

Dr. Stephen Adams-Langley

MA in Psychotherapy & Counselling, Regents University, London, DPsych University of Middlesex, London
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I provide short-term solution-focused therapy and long-term psychotherapy. I have been working with a wide range of issues including panic attacks and anxiety, bereavement, stress, addictions, relationship difficulties, sexuality, depression and loss of meaning, for over 25 years. Drawing from cognitive behavioural therapy, humanistic/person centred, psychodynamic, brief solution-focused therapy and existential approaches, I adapt the theory to each individual client.  My aim is to clarify those aspects of your life that cause distress, confusion or anger and lead to feeling stuck, blocked, unfulfilled and desperate. Through exploration and clarification we can explore options and choices and come to terms with our issues.

London, England
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Iulian Chear

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Iulian Chear

Dprof in Existential Psychotherapy, Middlesex University
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My work delves into issues such as shame, pressure to conform and the inability to connect with yourself, your body, and your emotions. I usually work with men at the intersection between race, neurodiversity, social class and faith who may feel that they are different, unable to be themselves, or are dissatisfied with themselves or with their lives.

I am quite open and easy to talk to, and I think I do well with men who are nervous about coming to therapy, who find it hard to open up or who have unusual issues that cause them shame.

I am a UKCP-accredited psychotherapist with a first degree in psychology and a doctorate in existential psychotherapy.

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Dr. Matthew Ireland

London, Greater London

Dr. Matthew Ireland

PhD, University of Nottingham & MSc Existential Psychotherapy, Middlesex University
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Do you feel like you’re performing your life instead of living it? Maybe everything looks fine on the outside, but inside you feel anxious or uncertain – without knowing exactly what you want to change, or why. You’re not alone in feeling this way.

I help men explore the deeper questions behind their identity, relationships or life struggles – not just what’s happening, but what it means to them – so they can reconnect with themselves, make clearer choices and move from acting in life to authoring their future. My approach is warm and respectful, so you can be honest without fear of judgment. You’re welcome to book a free intro call – no pressure, just a chat.

London, Greater London
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Mrs. Neha Malik

Iver, Buckinghamshire

Mrs. Neha Malik

MA in Psychology, University of Sussex and Adv. Dip., CPPD Counselling School and Dip. in Trauma Therapy, The Grove Practice, and Cert. in Couples Counselling, The Grove Practice
Years in practice: 10
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My approach is Integrative, which means I draw from various approaches such as psychodynamic, humanistic, CBT, existential, and transpersonal. I am also trained in trauma-focused therapy approaches, such as CPT, TF-CBT, IRRT, NET, EFT and the IFS approach. I work with PTSD, C-PTSD, sexual abuse, emotional abuse, depression, anxiety, anger management, relationship issues, identity issues, and loss of meaning/purpose. I also provide training in meditation and mindfulness.

Iver, Buckinghamshire
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Robert Hack

Wirral, Merseyside

Robert Hack

MA in Counselling & Psychotherapy, Liverpool John Moore's University
Years in practice: 6
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I offer a warm, safe and confidential space for you to share your story and explore what’s happening for you. Whether that’s something that’s happening now, or something that happened in the past, I’m here to listen and to help you make sense of your experiences.

I work with all types of difficulties, including depression, anxiety, bereavement, trauma, abuse, and relationship issues, but I have particular experience of working with young adults, people impacted by suicide, and people recovering from a difficult childhood.

I hold a master’s degree in counselling and psychotherapy and have previously researched men’s mental health. I offer in-person sessions here in Bebington and online via Doxy.

Wirral, Merseyside
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Bevan Morley

Leighton Buzzard & Tring, England

Bevan Morley

BSc (Hons) Humanistic Counselling, Metanoia Institute
Years in practice: 3
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure why you react the way you do? I can help you understand your emotions, break old patterns, and feel more grounded, confident, and in control.

I’m a qualified Humanistic counsellor working in Tring, Leighton Buzzard, and online. I help adults untangle their emotions, understand their patterns, and move toward a life that feels more authentic, grounded, and fulfilling.

In practice, this might mean I reflect what you’ve told me so you can hear it in a new way, ask questions to clarify your thoughts, or offer a different perspective for you to consider. Sometimes we might work through compassion exercises, thought experiments, or mindfulness tools like breathing and grounding techniques. Whatever helps.

Leighton Buzzard & Tring, England
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Mrs. Lis Starkey-Smets

Coventry, West Midlands

Mrs. Lis Starkey-Smets

MSc in Integrative Psychotherapy, Birmingham City University
Years in practice: 13
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Hello, I’m an integrative psychotherapist and counsellor, working with individuals in Stratford upon Avon, Warwickshire, and online.
I have experience supporting people experiencing a wide range of emotional difficulties and adapt my approach to suit each individual and their circumstances/needs. I have a particular interest in working with parents, both during the postnatal period and beyond. Please do take a look at my website to learn a bit more about what it might be like to work with me, and feel free to get in touch via email or telephone if you have any questions.

Coventry, West Midlands
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Dr. John Hilsdon

Saltash, Cornwall

Dr. John Hilsdon

Doctorate in Education, University of Plymouth. Advanced Diploma in Counselling, Iron Mill Institute
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Would you like someone to really listen to you – who will give you time and space to express how you are, or to explore what might be wrong, without making judgements about you? I’ve been working in this field for over twenty years and can offer a range of approaches for tackling issues such as depression, anxiety, addictions and relationship problems. You are welcome to text, email or call me for a free initial chat. See my website for more details about me, how I work and how to make contact.

Saltash, Cornwall
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Rachel Olney

Sheffield, South Yorkshire

Rachel Olney

BSc, Middlesex University and Dip in Person Centred Psychotherapy and Counselling, Temenos Education
Years in practice: 17
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Person-Centred Therapy places particular emphasis on the quality of the relationship between therapist and client. When we work together you will find a warm, accepting, consistent and careful listening ear, free from judgement. This is a very respectful relationship where the focus is on you and your concerns. I aim to offer you a relationship that you can trust and where you will feel safe enough to talk freely about anything you wish.

Sheffield, South Yorkshire
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Tom Buckland

Southampton, Hampshire

Tom Buckland

Diploma in Psychotherapy and Hypnotherapy, Winchester University Hampshire
Years in practice: 23
Offers:  Remote Therapy
I’m Tom, your fully qualified and experienced counsellor. I’ve been involved with counselling for over 20 years and have worked full-time since 2003.
I offer a space for you to tell your story, but then together, we look at ways to help you overcome the struggle you are experiencing. This can be strategies, different ways of doing things,with small and big steps towards change at your pace.
I’ve run my own clinics since 2003 and have many thousands of client hours behind me, first in Basingstoke, then running a busy clinic in Harley Street, London, before moving to the New Forest area.
With the right support, there can be a way out of the difficulties that stop you being able to thrive in life and reach your full potential.
Southampton, Hampshire
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Lyn O’Callaghan

Luton, Bedfordshire

Lyn O’Callaghan

PGDip in Psychology of Mental Health & Well-Being, University of Wolverhampton
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

As an Integrative Counsellor, I tailor therapy to each client, as well as talking therapy, I draw from a diverse toolbox of techniques, such as CBT, EMDR and hypnosis. Having completed training specific to trauma and trauma-informed approaches, I am confident in my skills to scaffold clients while they learn ways to overcome obstacles, develop coping skills, and enhance their overall well-being. Through collaboration with my clients, they can explore concerns, build resilience and cultivate positive lasting change.

Luton, Bedfordshire
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Úna McNulty

Warwickshire, West Midlands

Úna McNulty

Bsc(Hons) & Diploma Integrative Psychotherapy, Middlesex University
Years in practice: 12
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am an experienced Integrative Psychotherapist, specializing in Psychodynamic Therapy, working with young people, adults and couples.

My relational approach forges a unique reciprocity in engaging with clients more acutely, enabling a better understanding of client needs.

My therapy is grounded in key findings from research and neuroscience to effect change.

Warwickshire, West Midlands
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Michael Boyce

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Michael Boyce

PGDip, University of East London
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Michael Boyce Therapy supports individuals (20-45) navigating profound life and identity transitions who feel completely stuck, overwhelmed, or anxious. Leveraging an Integrative and Attachment-Informed approach, I move beyond just talking about the problem to build clear, practical paths toward authentic meaning and resilience.

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Dr. Omar Kowlessar

Warrington, Cheshire

Dr. Omar Kowlessar

CPsychol, Manchester University
Years in practice: 14
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Dr. Omar A. Kowlessar leads OAK Psychological Services. He is a HCPC registered Chartered Consultant Clinical Psychologist with over 18 years experience specialising in adult mental health (ages 16+).

Dr. Kowlessar offers diagnostic assessments and a range of evidence-based psychological therapies to members of the public as well as clinical supervision and mentoring to psychologist and non-psychologist health professionals. He is qualified in multiple psychological therapies, CBT; ACT and EMDR.

Dr. Kowlessar is an expert in treating a wide spectrum of mental health conditions, from anxiety and depression to personality disorder and psychosis; he is BABCP accredited and a Chartered member of the British Psychological Society.

Warrington, Cheshire
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Dr. Paul Lewis

London, England

Dr. Paul Lewis

DPsych, City University London
Years in practice: 15
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I offer a collaborative approach to therapy ranging from clear advice and evidence-based techniques using CBT to a counselling-informed way of working, creating space to express and understand thoughts and feelings.
We will work together to understand and map out a way forward to deal with the problems you face.

London, England
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