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Steve Oppenheimer

Palm Springs, California

Steve Oppenheimer

MA in Psychology, Chapman University and MBA, University of Southern California
Years in practice: 17
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I help Individuals & Couples to manage stress & to get unstuck from the life circumstances holding them back in life, career & relationships.

I have a diverse professional and personal background, which helps me to connect with others. In addition to my role as a licensed therapist, I bring to my practice over 30 years of business leadership experience.

I am goal oriented, solution focused and non-judgemental. Most important, I am easy to talk to.

Palm Springs, California
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Erik Anderson

Los Angeles, California

Erik Anderson

MS in Counseling, California State University, Long Beach
Years in practice: 12
Offers:  Remote Therapy

In my practice as a therapist I use the research on what works to help my clients get the outcomes they want: better relationships, managed anxiety, less depression and more control over life. I do not limit our work into any single modality but blend a variety of techniques to tailor my approach for each individual. I draw influence from cognitive behavioral, humanistic and dynamic psychotherapy. Therapy is a place to develop and apply philosophy to get to a different place than we are able to get on our own. I’m excited to join you!

Los Angeles, California
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Niku (Nick) Shah

Oakland, California

Niku (Nick) Shah

MA in Integral Counseling Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies
Years in practice: 6
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My practice can help you take stock of childhood messages you learned around toxic masculinity and heteronormativity so you can truly let go of what is no longer serving a purpose in your life. Depression, suicidal thoughts, self harming, addiction and going through tough periods in your relationships can be challenging. You don’t have to do it alone. Therapy can help you heal old relational trauma that is causing you distress, so you can be your best self at work, with friends and loved ones and in your intimate relationships.

Oakland, California
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Sara Okman

San Francisco, California

Sara Okman

Master's in Family Therapy, Thomas Jefferson University
Years in practice: 14
Offers:  Remote Therapy

As a sex therapist, couples counselor and psychotherapist, I help clients foster better relationships with themselves and their partners. I specialize in helping to negotiate desire discrepancy, low-sexual marriages, and navigate the impact of extra-marital relationships, including polyamory, consensual non-monogamy & infidelity.
Using practical, easy to implement tools, we will address and rectify what needs to shift, while emphasizing and solidifying what’s already working well. Together we will do the kind of work that produces positive, lasting change.

San Francisco, California
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Caleb Birkhoff

San Francisco, California

Caleb Birkhoff

MS in Counseling Psychology, Dominican University of California
Years in practice: 13
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Psychotherapy focused on helping people manage issues such as Depression, Anxiety, Work Stress, Drug and Alcohol Addiction, and Relational Issues. Working with the whole person I strive to build a safe and trusting space for each individual in order to address the complexity of issues they may be facing. Remote therapy only.

San Francisco, California
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Michael Keesey

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA

Michael Keesey

MA in Counseling, Saint Mary's College of California
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My ideal client struggles with low self-esteem, self-doubt, and negative self-talk, often rooted in past experiences. These internal blocks keep them from reaching their potential in personal, professional, or creative areas. They deeply desire to feel empowered, build confidence, and take meaningful action toward their goals.

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA
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Tomiko D. Mackey

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA

Tomiko D. Mackey

MSW, California State University Long Beach
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My integrative approach to therapy is tailored to your unique and specific needs. This therapeutic style helps you explore core beliefs about yourself and facilitates growth towards inner strength and resilience. Through empathy, warmth and positive self-regard, I create space for you to believe and trust in yourself.

I have more than 20 years experience working with those who have experienced trauma, depression and anxiety. I use a combination of evidence-based therapies which include: cognitive behavioral therapy, eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR), dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), and ego state therapy. I look forward to working with you on your healing journey!

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA
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Matt Ahrens

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA

Matt Ahrens

MA, California Institute of Integral Studies
Years in practice: 9
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Therapy with me is a mix of honest reflection and practical tools. It’s a space where you can drop the pressure to have it all together and get real about what’s working – and what’s not. Together, we’ll explore the patterns and beliefs that are keeping you stuck and build clear, effective strategies to help you move forward with purpose.

I help professional men reduce stress, improve relationships, and reconnect with purpose in work and life. My approach blends insight and action – so you don’t just talk about change, you start living it. You don’t have to keep going in circles. Schedule a free consultation today, and let’s get to work.

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA
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Dr. Jim Coil

San Diego, California

Dr. Jim Coil

EdD in Higher Education Leadership, Azusa Pacific University and MA in Counseling Psychology, National University
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

As an interactive, solution-focused therapist, my approach is to provide support and practical feedback to help clients effectively address personal life challenges. I integrate complementary methodologies and techniques to offer a highly personalized approach tailored to each client. With compassion and understanding, I wish to support each individual to help them build on their strengths and attain the personal growth they are committed to accomplishing. I specialize in in individual, couples and family therapy addressing mood disorders, trauma and conflict using cognitive behavioral techniques and emotionally focused therapies. Specialties include mood disorders, trauma, and addiction.

San Diego, California
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Erik Karff

San Francisco, California

Erik Karff

MA in Counseling Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I work with primarily men who are struggling with self-esteem, pervasive self-critics, loss, and social anxiety. Many of my clients are identified as gay, queer, and QTPOC.

San Francisco, California
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The Center for Men’s Excellence

San Diego, California

The Center for Men’s Excellence

Number of Therapists: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy, Individual Therapy, Group Therapy

Our therapists work with men, couples and kids who seek to improve their quality of life with effective, evidence-based therapy modalities. Our clients take part in scientifically-supported psychotherapy treatments to effectively manage a variety of issues including anxiety, stress, depression and other life challenges. By learning to apply well-researched psychological techniques, clients are better able to improve their quality of life and experience lasting relief from their concerns.

San Diego, California
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Corinne Eisenhardt

Los Angeles, California

Corinne Eisenhardt

MA in Counseling, Eastern Michigan University
Years in practice: 13
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Whether you are struggling with depression, anxiety, trauma, grief, lack of self-worth, or self-doubt, I help people uncover the root causes of their issues and find a way out.
As a therapist, I actively participate in therapy conversations, providing feedback, teaching you skills, and helping you work through problems or unhealthy patterns. I balance being supportive with also challenging my clients in ways that help them grow.

Los Angeles, California
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Eric Kruse

Los Angeles, California

Eric Kruse

MA in Clinical Psychology, Pepperdine University
Years in practice: 9
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I believe the most meaningful way to connect is through listening. Each person has a unique and interesting story that should be heard. Perhaps the greatest support we can offer is our undivided attention. I consider it a privilege to provide a safe space where people discover new aspects of themselves.

Couples Counseling, Addiction, and Men’s Issues are my specialty.

Los Angeles, California
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John Bucher

San Diego, California

John Bucher

MSW, Virginia Commonwealth University
Years in practice: 12
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I know firsthand how hard it can be to set aside society’s expectations of traditional masculinity and admit that it might be time to ask for help. As men, we are conditioned to try and solve life’s many complexities on our own, but the truth is reaching out for help shows immense strength, not weakness.

Perhaps you found my profile because you are considering therapy, and for that I applaud you. You have taken the first step toward healing and that is an incredible start. Maybe you still feel uncomfortable with the idea of therapy or you found me by accident. In that case, I sincerely look forward to answering your questions about how this could help improve your life as well. Either way, I am glad that you are here.

San Diego, California
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Ryan Grady

Los Angeles, California

Ryan Grady

MSW, California State University Northridge
Years in practice: 15
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am a licensed clinical social worker with over ten years of experience. As a therapist, I’m not here to judge you or tell you what’s wrong. Instead, I am here to help you uncover your hidden strengths and harness those abilities to address any challenges or roadblocks you may face. You don’t have to do it alone; we can walk this path together.

Los Angeles, California
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