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Connor Moss

Santa Cruz, California

Connor Moss

MA, California Institute of Integral Studies
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I offer client centered, humanistic, and solutions oriented therapy for individuals and couples in Santa Cruz, CA and online anywhere in California. I love helping people move through difficult patterns and emotions in their lives to emerge on the other side stronger and more engaged in their lives.

Santa Cruz, California
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Dr. Aleksandra Drecun

San Diego, California

Dr. Aleksandra Drecun

PsyD in Marriage and Family Therapy, Alliant University San Diego
Years in practice: 24
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My therapeutic style emanates warmth, compassion and professionalism. My approach is collaborative, empowering, authentic and client-centered.

San Diego, California
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Caleb Birkhoff

San Francisco, California

Caleb Birkhoff

MS in Counseling Psychology, Dominican University of California
Years in practice: 13
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Psychotherapy focused on helping people manage issues such as Depression, Anxiety, Work Stress, Drug and Alcohol Addiction, and Relational Issues. Working with the whole person I strive to build a safe and trusting space for each individual in order to address the complexity of issues they may be facing. Remote therapy only.

San Francisco, California
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Eric Kruse

Los Angeles, California

Eric Kruse

MA in Clinical Psychology, Pepperdine University
Years in practice: 9
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I believe the most meaningful way to connect is through listening. Each person has a unique and interesting story that should be heard. Perhaps the greatest support we can offer is our undivided attention. I consider it a privilege to provide a safe space where people discover new aspects of themselves.

Couples Counseling, Addiction, and Men’s Issues are my specialty.

Los Angeles, California
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Monet Goldman

Santa Clara, California

Monet Goldman

M.S. in Counseling, California State University East Bay, Hayward
Years in practice: 8
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Video game counseling is a novel approach that uses video games in counseling sessions to help closed-off clients express themselves. Video game counseling is a more immersive, artistic, and creative medium for clients to build skills and process their difficulties. I also help gamers stuck in their life to gain control over their video game habits and fulfill their other life ambitions.

Santa Clara, California
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Salvador Resendez

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA

Salvador Resendez

MSW, New York University
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My approach to therapy is to help couples and men foster a safe, caring therapeutic relationship to help them thrive. I bring compassion and empathy from my own recovery to support healing and growth. My style is active and I will collaborate with you to tap into your identity, strengths, values, and interests in our work together to help you achieve your goals.

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA
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Jacob Sims

San Francisco, California

Jacob Sims

MA, Counseling Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Depression. Anxiety. Low self-esteem. Relational issues. These are common issues that people face when it comes to mental health challenges, which are enough to make life difficult. Chances are your relationships and most importantly your relationship with yourself have been greatly impacted by these factors. There’s this sense that something has to change, but you might not know where to begin. Together we embark on this journey of uncovering just how you got here and discovering where you want to go.

San Francisco, California
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AJ Rich

Los Angeles, California

AJ Rich

MA, California Southern University
Years in practice: 6
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Many difficulties stem from our relationships, with both ourselves and others. My work with men is direct, yet warm, empathetic, & understanding. Together we navigate how to process the blocks obstructing your view & ability to move forward. We will explore life events from the past, as behavior patterns emerge in the here-and-now. As this self-awareness develops, clients can lead more joyful & connected lives. I cater sessions to each unique individual using real-life examples & the material you provide to deepen your own understanding of YOU. Complimentary consultation visit is available to all prospective clients.

Los Angeles, California
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Dr. Philip Lance

Los Angeles, California

Dr. Philip Lance

PhD in Clinical Psychology, Pacifica Graduate Institute
Years in practice: 14
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am a clinical psychologist with a specialty in psychoanalysis and LGBTQ affirmative psychotherapy. I can be helpful with dating, relationships, marriage issues, work, career changes, intimacy, and sexuality. I work with many academics, students, writers, filmmakers, and healthcare professionals.

Los Angeles, California
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Dexter Mai

Santa Clara, California

Dexter Mai

MSW, University of California, Berkeley
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

In my integrated approach to trauma therapy, I seamlessly weave Brainspotting and evidence-based talk therapy to provide comprehensive support for clients. Drawing on the power of Brainspotting, I guide clients in identifying and processing trauma through the activation of specific “brainspots,” while leveraging the insights and techniques of talk therapy to foster deeper introspection and cognitive reframing. I target both the neurological and psychological aspects of trauma, and facilitate a holistic healing journey. My practice prioritizes creating a collaborative and empathetic space, where clients feel heard, validated, and empowered to navigate their healing process with self-awareness and newfound strength.

Santa Clara, California
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Sara Okman

San Francisco, California

Sara Okman

Master's in Family Therapy, Thomas Jefferson University
Years in practice: 14
Offers:  Remote Therapy

As a sex therapist, couples counselor and psychotherapist, I help clients foster better relationships with themselves and their partners. I specialize in helping to negotiate desire discrepancy, low-sexual marriages, and navigate the impact of extra-marital relationships, including polyamory, consensual non-monogamy & infidelity.
Using practical, easy to implement tools, we will address and rectify what needs to shift, while emphasizing and solidifying what’s already working well. Together we will do the kind of work that produces positive, lasting change.

San Francisco, California
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George Fuentes

Newport Beach, California

George Fuentes

MA in Clinical Psychology, Azusa Pacific University
Years in practice: 10
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Don’t wait to lose everything, before you realize you’ll do anything to get it back… Reach out to reduce chaos, feelings of loneliness & overwhelming frustrations.

Many men struggle to maintain their desired life because of emotional dysregulation, relationship strains, technological distractions, addictive behaviors (alcohol, weed, porn, masturbation & cute girls) & not prioritizing physical health, food, sleep, faith, & work-life balance.

Feelings of being stuck leak into your romantic relationship, interactions with your kids, a disconnect w/ friends, & leads to a loss of identity. “Trying harder” hasn’t been working. Don’t let anxiety, stress, frustrations, & hopelessness own you.

Looking forward to connecting!

Newport Beach, California
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Nicholas Morvan

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA

Nicholas Morvan

MA in Marriage, Hope International University
Years in practice: 6
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Hate psychobabble? Good, me too. I want to make therapy more accessible to those that think “therapy isn’t for them”

I help men build resiliency and develop purpose through honest conversations. Sometimes this means teaching tools and techniques, sometimes this means exploring painful memories, but almost always we are having authentic conversations  that respect your experiences and provide ways for you to grow.

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA
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Kevin Stolper

Los Angeles, California

Kevin Stolper

MA, Antioch University
Years in practice: 14
Offers:  Remote Therapy

The decision to seek therapy is not easy. It means we have to confront the truth that we are struggling in some facet of our life and need help finding resolution. I specialize in brain-body based therapies, such as EMDR and Brainspotting, which tap into the source of our emotional wounds located in the body. These healing modalities are highly effective in helping identify and resolve the roots of one’s distress, presenting as anxiety, depression, stress or trauma(s) that are negatively impacting your life and overall wellbeing.

Los Angeles, California
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Matt Seastrom

Newport Beach, California

Matt Seastrom

MA in Clinical Psychology, Pepperdine University
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My focus is on helping men navigate the unique challenges they face whether it’s in their teenage years or as they approach middle age. My services are designed to support men by providing them with a space to be open and honest about their thoughts and to deal with their men’s issues. Founded with a passion for mental wellness, I have been dedicated to making a positive impact in the lives of individuals. I am driven by the belief that everyone deserves the opportunity to thrive, and I am honored to work alongside you on this transformative path. I offer a range of resources and strategies to enhance your well-being.

Newport Beach, California
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