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Ryan Heapy

Newport Beach, California

Ryan Heapy

MA in Clinical Psychology, Pepperdine University
Years in practice: 10
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Flat out, my specialty is men. Throughout my years of working primarily with men, I’ve helped my clients achieve their dreams and reach their potential. I’ve helped incredibly successful men find joy, find purpose and find meaning. I’ve also helped many men navigate the path out depression, anxiety, and addiction while creating better relationships with family, friends, and partners. I pride myself on being someone my clients can completely trust, providing a place to truly be themselves without shame or judgment.

Newport Beach, California
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Michael Hoopingarner

Los Angeles, California

Michael Hoopingarner

MA, Pepperdine University
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I work with men who want results. My approach to therapy is built around first principles, accurate diagnosis, and change; understanding what’s broken, why, and how to fix it. Psychological problems aren’t mysterious entities; they can be mapped, conceptualized, and worked through with the right framework and disciplined effort.

Psychotherapy with me is direct, pragmatic, and oriented toward strength, responsibility, and forward motion. Too much modern therapy pathologizes masculinity or asks men to soften, submit, or endlessly process without progress. I don’t do that. I respect male identity, male drives, and male ways of solving problems, and I use them as leverage for change. I am in California. I prefer to meet in-person. Cash-only.

Los Angeles, California
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Bruce Hearn

San Francisco, California

Bruce Hearn

MA in Counseling, Wright Institute, Berkeley, CA
Years in practice: 16
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I work with men who struggle in relationships. You might have lost your self-confidence, or are feeling down, having encountered obstacles that seem too much to deal with. I’ll help you to draw on and develop your own strengths so that you can get moving again.

San Francisco, California
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Kevin Stolper

Los Angeles, California

Kevin Stolper

MA, Antioch University
Years in practice: 15
Offers:  Remote Therapy

The decision to seek therapy is not easy. It means we have to confront the truth that we are struggling in some facet of our life and need help finding resolution. I specialize in brain-body based therapies, such as EMDR and Brainspotting, which tap into the source of our emotional wounds located in the body. These healing modalities are highly effective in helping identify and resolve the roots of one’s distress, presenting as anxiety, depression, stress or trauma(s) that are negatively impacting your life and overall wellbeing.

Los Angeles, California
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Hunter Pritchett

San Marino, California

Hunter Pritchett

MA, Antioch University
Years in practice: 2
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Therapy with me is a co-created process – grounded in down-to earth discussion, respect, humor, gentle challenging, deep understanding, and the belief that meaningful change comes from a combination of a strong therapeutic relationship, insight, awareness, and learning the tools and coping skills to create meaningful change and action.

As a father, I have a personal interest in supporting new and expecting dads, supporting them to navigate the emotional complexities of parenthood, like struggling with a new identity as a father, the overwhelming responsibilities to your child, partner, and career, and the feelings of confusion, irritability, stress, and depression.

San Marino, California
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Matthew Baker

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA

Matthew Baker

MSW, California State University, Long Beach
Years in practice: 6
Offers:  Remote Therapy

If you’re struggling with OCD, anxiety, or trauma, effective treatment is available. I provide telehealth therapy to adults anywhere in California and specialize in Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP), a highly effective treatment for OCD, social anxiety, illness anxiety, generalized anxiety, and specific phobias.

For PTSD, I use Prolonged Exposure therapy to help process traumatic memories and gradually face fears. Because depression and loss of motivation often occur alongside these conditions, I also use Behavioral Activation when helpful to address depressive symptoms and reduce patterns that interfere with recovery.

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA
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Chloe Bean

Los Angeles, California

Chloe Bean

MA in Clinical Psychology, Antioch University
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am an EMDR trauma therapist and a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner in training who works with anxious overachievers and trauma survivors who are ready for authentic relationships with themselves, their bodies, and others. Clients may come in with recurring relationship issues, burnout, anxiety, panic attacks, depression, career/creativity blocks, low self esteem, chronic pain, experiences of abuse, suicidal ideation, and body image concerns. I support clients in finding their clarity, freedom, and inner voice to reconnect with their life force energy in order to move through difficult experiences. My goal is to help clients feel less alone and more connected to the world around them…it is possible!

Los Angeles, California
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Eric Kruse

Los Angeles, California

Eric Kruse

MA in Clinical Psychology, Pepperdine University
Years in practice: 10
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I believe the most meaningful way to connect is through listening. Each person has a unique and interesting story that should be heard. Perhaps the greatest support we can offer is our undivided attention. I consider it a privilege to provide a safe space where people discover new aspects of themselves.

Couples Counseling, Addiction, and Men’s Issues are my specialty.

Los Angeles, California
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Matt Seastrom

Newport Beach, California

Matt Seastrom

MA in Clinical Psychology, Pepperdine University
Years in practice: 3
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My focus is on helping men navigate the unique challenges they face whether it’s in their teenage years or as they approach middle age. My services are designed to support men by providing them with a space to be open and honest about their thoughts and to deal with their men’s issues. Founded with a passion for mental wellness, I have been dedicated to making a positive impact in the lives of individuals. I am driven by the belief that everyone deserves the opportunity to thrive, and I am honored to work alongside you on this transformative path. I offer a range of resources and strategies to enhance your well-being.

Newport Beach, California
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Jake Glassman

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA

Jake Glassman

MA MFT, University of San Diego
Years in practice: 5
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I believe men face unique challenges and societal pressures that can often lead to emotional and psychological distress. I specialize in helping men explore a variety of issues, including depression, anxiety, relationship problems, societal expectations, work related stress, masculinity norms, and substance abuse. Even though I’ve worked with a wide variety of clients, I have dedicated my career to helping men overcome these challenges and improve their mental health and overall well-being. In this day and age, it can be extremely isolating and frustrating to live as a man. Let me help guide you to living the life that you want.

REMOTE ACROSS CALIFORNIA
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Niku (Nick) Shah

Oakland, California

Niku (Nick) Shah

MA in Integral Counseling Psychology, California Institute of Integral Studies
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

My practice can help you take stock of childhood messages you learned around toxic masculinity and heteronormativity so you can truly let go of what is no longer serving a purpose in your life. Depression, suicidal thoughts, self harming, addiction and going through tough periods in your relationships can be challenging. You don’t have to do it alone. Therapy can help you heal old relational trauma that is causing you distress, so you can be your best self at work, with friends and loved ones and in your intimate relationships.

Oakland, California
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AJ Rich

Los Angeles, California

AJ Rich

MA, California Southern University
Years in practice: 7
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Many difficulties stem from our relationships, with both ourselves and others. My work with men is direct, yet warm, empathetic, & understanding. Together we navigate how to process the blocks obstructing your view & ability to move forward. We will explore life events from the past, as behavior patterns emerge in the here-and-now. As this self-awareness develops, clients can lead more joyful & connected lives. I cater sessions to each unique individual using real-life examples & the material you provide to deepen your own understanding of YOU. Complimentary consultation visit is available to all prospective clients.

Los Angeles, California
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Bryan Hartzell

Newport Beach, California

Bryan Hartzell

MA in Clinical Psychology, Pepperdine University
Years in practice: 4
Offers:  Remote Therapy

Being a man never came with a manual. No sense of direction led to feeling lost, confused, stressed, not understood, and even angry. You just want to feel heard by someone who gets it, while taking impactful steps to create the life you’ve wanted for so long.

I coach and mentor you to create the masculinity you seek. I make therapy a space to workshop new perspectives, and forge newfound resiliency. I lead a path to find strength in compassion, kindness, and composure.

I know how hard it is, as a man, to admit you need help. Even more so to ask for it. I won’t judge or criticize. You can thrive with a men’s issues therapist who wants nothing more than to help you be all that you can, and more.

Newport Beach, California
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Dr. Philip Lance

Los Angeles, California

Dr. Philip Lance

PhD in Clinical Psychology, Pacifica Graduate Institute
Years in practice: 15
Offers:  Remote Therapy

I am a clinical psychologist with a specialty in psychoanalysis and LGBTQ affirmative psychotherapy. I can be helpful with dating, relationships, marriage issues, work, career changes, intimacy, and sexuality. I work with many academics, students, writers, filmmakers, and healthcare professionals.

Los Angeles, California
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Dr. Jim Coil

San Diego, California

Dr. Jim Coil

EdD in Higher Education Leadership, Azusa Pacific University and MA in Counseling Psychology, National University
Years in practice: 25+
Offers:  Remote Therapy

As an interactive, solution-focused therapist, my approach is to provide support and practical feedback to help clients effectively address personal life challenges. I integrate complementary methodologies and techniques to offer a highly personalized approach tailored to each client. With compassion and understanding, I wish to support each individual to help them build on their strengths and attain the personal growth they are committed to accomplishing. I specialize in in individual, couples and family therapy addressing mood disorders, trauma and conflict using cognitive behavioral techniques and emotionally focused therapies. Specialties include mood disorders, trauma, and addiction.

San Diego, California
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