The Scooty Fund and HeadsUpGuys are shining a light on the importance of human connection to better understand and tackle loneliness in men.
Through our "Better Together" campaign, we aim to reduce stigma, increase awareness, and provide practical pathways back to connection.
This March 2026, HeadsUpGuys is collaborating with our long-time supporters at the Scooty Fund for a week-long campaign focused on loneliness, an often overlooked challenge affecting men’s mental health.
Loneliness is not simply being alone. It’s the painful feeling of lacking meaningful connection, of feeling unseen, unheard, or emotionally disconnected.
Ultimately, when we are experiencing loneliness, we are experiencing a lack of connection. Humans are a social species, and connection is a fundamental aspect of our survival, just like food, water, and oxygen.[1]
Research increasingly shows that persistent loneliness is linked to depression, anxiety, substance misuse, physical health risks, and suicide.[2,3] This campaign is about changing that.
Throughout the week, we’ll be sharing tools, personal stories, and practical tips on our social media channels to better understand loneliness in men, recognize the signs, and take small steps toward meaningful connection. Follow along on:
We have a new article on understanding and overcoming loneliness, which covers what loneliness really is, how men experience it, and practical strategies for rebuilding connection:
Learn why loneliness affects so many men, and how we can confront it. Explore causes, health impacts, and practical steps to rebuild connection.
We also have new stories from guys who’ve faced loneliness firsthand, and who share how reaching out and reconnecting became the turning point toward better mental health and stronger relationships.
After his marriage ended, a friend withdrew from sports, social life, and connections. This story shows how simple acts of friendship can help men overcome loneliness.
Working in Arctic communities, Evan faced intense isolation and loneliness. He shares how his experiences have affected him and what helped the most to find connection.
Howard shares how small, consistent actions, rather than grand gestures, make the biggest difference in helping a friend reconnect.
Sam shares how a single supportive message helped him reframe his loneliness and reminded him that he wasn’t alone.
While loneliness affects people regardless of age, gender, race, or many other factors, men face unique barriers to acknowledging it and seeking support, due to social expectations around independence, toughness, and self-reliance.[4]
Data suggests that while there aren’t huge differences in reported loneliness between men and women, there are differences in how men experience loneliness.
Men report having fewer close friends than women, with:
Unlike women, guys are often socialized from a young age to keep their feelings to themselves and to avoid discussing intimate details of their lives, even with close friends. This is particularly true when it comes to asking for help, or admitting that they’re struggling.
While some people may argue over the term ‘epidemic’, the heart of the matter that is loneliness is a huge issue many men are dealing with, and there is growing evidence to support the claim that men are more disconnected than ever.[7]
As a result, a lot of men heavily rely on their spouse for emotional or personal support, because they don’t have other close connections they can open up to.[5] This can put enormous strain on relationships.
Men who aren’t in relationships, as well as many who are, may find themselves without anyone at all they can open up to, and don’t have the resources or guidance to figure out how to reach out or where to find support.
Loneliness can quietly drain energy, confidence, and hope over time.
Know that there are steps you can take if you recognize these signs in your self or in someone you care about.
If you’re unsure of the extent to which loneliness is affecting you, we have a very short self-assessment that can help to give you some idea and recommend potential next steps:
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